Other - Family & Relationships - 18 October 2006

I stress myself out because I want to be happy..but it's not just that I want to be happy, I want my family to be proud of me. The one thing that could bring me down is knowing that I let my family down.
All of my aunt's and cousins and even my parents have had problems with my grandparents. They all either got pregnant during high school or right after they graduated and aren't married and just let their baby' s daddy's run off and have nothing to do with their kids. I've beat them all by actually graduating high school without having a kid,being married,or even being in jail. I just don't want to be stressed out. Every decision I make always goes back to whether or not it's something that would make them proud. I love my family and nothing would make me happier than them being happy,but I just want to let go and run free with out caring what they think. What would you do?

2006-10-18 10:00:50 · 14 answers · asked by Amber R 4

I've lately been feeling atracted or think I feel attracted to one of my good friends. I also like girls and I no I do not prefer men only but are these feelings real or false?

2006-10-18 10:00:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend ran away and is now staying with me how long will police look for her until the give up, and when can she enroll back into school (She is 17 years old) with out being hauled back home??

2006-10-18 09:58:49 · 8 answers · asked by dirt_bike_princess 1

2006-10-18 09:57:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here is the thing, I met him 5 years ago, He was madly in love with me after 3 years I was the one who broke the relationship because I just did'nt feel he was the one for me. He was really hurt that time. During we were talking as freinds all the time. Now a year ago when i met him i really felt that he really loved me before and i was the one who did the mistake so i really start pushing him to marry me or get back togther. And i was in deeply love with him. First he told me he is not ready now, and we are just freinds. Then recenlty he came to see me in june and since then he decided for me and now he wants to marry me. But what I feel is now is he is doing because of me, every time i talk to him some how he tells me that he is doing this for me. Feelings are just not strong. I need to know what to do i dont want to lose him again because this is going to be froever thing but on the other hand i feel this is just a mistake since he dont love me the way he use to. please help

2006-10-18 09:56:58 · 33 answers · asked by Alisha 2

i had talk to my boyfriend and he said my friend was makeing a song abount me that she miss c c and he was tell me he think about comeing down there to see me i went to know is still care abount me or is he love with me

2006-10-18 09:55:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love to hear how many of my friends came out of the closet. So tell me your story.

2006-10-18 09:55:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

In my opinion I do not last long enough in the bedroom. Im 22 and so is my girlfriend we have been going out for 17 months now and have a very active sex life. However I don’t think I perform well enough. My girlfriend has orgasms most times but always through foreplay and never sex because I have finished before she gets there. She says it doesn’t bother her and that I pleasure her and I believe her but im scared it will annoy her in the future if it carries on. Is there anything I can do or am I just over reacting??

2006-10-18 09:55:45 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girl and I recently broke up because she found some email that I joke to a friend female occuorse about being my wife,and I have known her for 10 years my girl and I had been together only two years I told that we used to joke like that but has never been anthing with us we never selpt together still she was so angry she broke up with me was I wrong help please?

2006-10-18 09:55:36 · 8 answers · asked by Eric c 2

out of curiosity.?

2006-10-18 09:55:16 · 14 answers · asked by Love is Patient, Love is Kind ♥ 4

2006-10-18 09:53:27 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-18 09:49:07 · 22 answers · asked by scott h 1

every time my daughter visits me here shes 23 sh wants me to tie her up and cane her, also take her to bdsm clubs in madrid where she can be flogged and beaten for hours at a time. She loves the pain and gets very excited to orgasm to see the pleasure her pain causes others. Anyone else have a child like this and any advice?

2006-10-18 09:47:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

is it or is it not? and if we do go out then will it affect our friendship if and when we brake up?

2006-10-18 09:45:55 · 23 answers · asked by RazaBlade Kanible 2

2006-10-18 09:44:21 · 26 answers · asked by Beunikia C 1

Is it normal that my 30 yr. old boyfriend doesn't get turned on anymore? It makes me insecure - sometimes I think it's me. We are very much in love, but seem to be so busy all the time. Just seems like in the beginning we made time. I never thought we would be 'that' couple that hardly ever has sex. Is this normal?

2006-10-18 09:43:39 · 15 answers · asked by BellaRia 2

iv got my special friend coming up in an hour he aint a boyfriend but i asked him up so we could have sex we have been flirting and playing for months but i got my period an hour ago!!! i cant cancel on him what do i do and say this was gonna be our first and last time as he is leaving soon what should i do he is due up in an hour please help!!

2006-10-18 09:42:49 · 23 answers · asked by lolls 2

I want to win my exboyfriend back. I want him back and I need help because I don't know how to do this? Any ideas on how to make him jelaous and want me back? Thanks in advance for your help.

2006-10-18 09:42:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I been with him for ten years. A few weeks ago I broke up with him when he thought he was falling in love with my best friend. I wasn't mad at her for it's not her fault. I am at her house and feel bad he's thrown her in the middle of everything, she doesn't love him. Anyways I still love him and waiting for him to fall for me again but he is sure he won't. He has changed completely, i am worried something is wrong with him. He is suddenly this man I never knew and is acting crazy. My friend doesn't want anything with him and the more she refuses the crazier he gets. He calls her like mad and cries if she doesn't come visit him. It's like his whole personality has done a 360. Worst I don't know what to do, he's cut me out of his life pretty much and I still love him. I try not to but there is no one else I want... I am 27 years old and right now it feels like my world is crashing down.

2006-10-18 09:41:32 · 4 answers · asked by Odessa 1

2006-10-18 09:40:38 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

ug,please help! i am not kiding this is my own life
i love this girl and i told her that i love but she refuse me and she say to me i like you only
i did my best to show her my love but she don"t understand.after few days i saw her with some boy and just kissing so gues what i feel.
i got very angry i tried to forget her. i stoped speaking her (we are in the some class)
she sent me mobile sms massage and she said"
what is wrong why you hate me i like to be with you.but i reply it and i said"but i can"t please just forget every thing you and me,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
realy i don"t know what i am doing
every time she look me ayes and she smile back.
but i don"t give her any respect.
realy i ask my self maney questions but no answer,i need her but she don"t love me so how i can be with her and she need me as friend
when i am with some girls she get angy as i do.
i think this girl loves me but she don"t speak about the truth!!!! please help and say some thing save my selv.

2006-10-18 09:37:04 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-18 09:33:21 · 5 answers · asked by rasha76us 1

The main issues are being jealous with each other. I also have a stronger connection with one and not the other yet I love both of them. The other two fight a lot over past issues. They've been together for 9 years. I've only been with them for 6 months. It's my first relationship. It has nothing to do with sex. I know it sounds crazy but I am very much in love with them. Any advice or websites on this type of thing will be much appreciated...

2006-10-18 09:27:10 · 7 answers · asked by CD22 1

My mom went behind my back and some utilities cut in my name I asked her if she did it she lied. So I told my dad he said he was goin take care of it. He was pissed also im am only 19 years old I don't have a job or a car yet so If the bill don't get paid imma be ****** up or my dad is going to pay for it. Am i wrong if I called and tell them no?

2006-10-18 09:26:09 · 5 answers · asked by Marie 2

i am 14 and he'll be 15 on the 27.we have only been toghter for 2
days.but, we trust each other and care about each other.and our feelings.he said he wants to have sex.but, i know better.but, i love him.i want to be with him.

2006-10-18 09:24:42 · 40 answers · asked by kayla n 1

My 6 year old grandson has anger problems. His mum & dad split & then divorced, My grandson has had anger problems since he was 3 & a half & has become worse as he's got older. His parents split 3 years ago. Now he is having problems at school & I dont think they know how to cope with him. My daughter dosen't want to change his school, cos his 8 year old sister is at the school too. All we want to do is HELP him. He can be such a loving boy, so he aint all bad. Also I dont believe his headmistress likes him, so that dont help!!

2006-10-18 09:23:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

i tryed 2 tel 1 of my freinds that i im in love with him and i couldnt do it in the end now i cant look at him because i feel so stupid im sure he nos something is up because i see him most days and i havent seen him in a week now wot should i do plz help

2006-10-18 09:21:01 · 13 answers · asked by meme 1

We have been togather for a year and i stay riverside and he stay in la

2006-10-18 09:20:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am the only child to my 58-year-old mother who has been single or part time dating for the past 4+ years.

I have had an issue about sharing the holiday’s with her and my boyfriend’s family. I have tried suggesting that we do an every other year trade off where the Thanksgiving year I spend with his family, we spend Christmas with my mom and visa versa. I always get the pouty look from her like she’s about to cry when I suggest that.

My boyfriend’s family is very open and has invited my mother to come to every holiday every year. My mom on the other hand feels out of her comfort zone and doesn’t like to attend although she has attended a couple Thanksgivings and seemed to enjoy herself.

I tell her that I need her to give a little, because I feel I’m being pulled from both sides, although my boyfriend’s family is considerate enough to invite her. I think she’s getting the best deal. I don’t want her to be alone on the holidays but, my boyfriend’s family deserves to spend holidays to

2006-10-18 09:19:32 · 1 answers · asked by portabellaz 1

2006-10-18 09:19:10 · 4 answers · asked by kayla n 1