My girl and I recently broke up because she found some email that I joke to a friend female occuorse about being my wife,and I have known her for 10 years my girl and I had been together only two years I told that we used to joke like that but has never been anthing with us we never selpt together still she was so angry she broke up with me was I wrong help please?
2006-10-18 09:55:36 · 8 answers · asked by Eric c 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no offense, but your x needs to take life a little less seriously.she is obviously insecure. You might be better off with out her. I dont think you were wrong if its something you and your friend have been doing for a while. a joke is a joke. chil out. good luck
2006-10-18 10:01:37 · answer #1 · answered by scooterbug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was an email that had been sent before you met your girlfriend I could understand. If it was happening while you were with your girlfriend I can understand why she's upset. Even though it may be a joke between the two of you I find it a little disrespectful and rude toward your girlfriend. Especially since you didn't tell her about this joke and she had to read it from an email. Think how you would feel if it were the other way around and your girlfriend always telling some guy she was going to marry him.
If you want to try and get her back I would suggest saying sorry and explain you understand why she's mad. If you do get her back I wouldn't continue with this "joke", it might get you in trouble again.
2006-10-18 17:04:19 · answer #2 · answered by Gypsy Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't play like that! Women are more sensitive and take things more seriously. You could have the friend talk to her, but yes, you were wrong. Send her flowers and a card that says sorry. Be more careful with how you play next time!
2006-10-18 17:00:26 · answer #3 · answered by shondak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider yourself lucky. Any girl who would dump you after 2 years over something so stupid is probably not someone you'd be able to rely on for the long-term.
2006-10-18 17:01:26 · answer #4 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell ur girlfriend that she's ur best friend and that u known her longer that what u have known ur girlfriend!!! tell her that u want to be with her and u dont want ur friend, but that she needs to trust u that nothing is going on between the both of u!!! if she still doesnt want to be with u then just give her some space.
2006-10-18 17:00:49 · answer #5 · answered by mustangsweetthing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
having a joke like that is not a good thing, why u do that again? to make her jealous? hello maturity!
2006-10-18 17:00:16 · answer #6 · answered by sure_whatever_29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think your wrong.
But if i am your gf, i will also do the same, like ur girl did.
???
2006-10-18 17:00:43 · answer #7 · answered by anne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure were if you loved her why hurt her by telling a lie!
2006-10-18 16:59:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋