2006-10-18 09:53:27 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
what other people think of u
2006-10-18 09:58:35 · update #1
It's easy in theroy to say, "Hell, no. I don't care what others think about me!". It's another thing to live that way. I think deep down we all want to be liked and accepted by others. That's normal. Whats not normal is when you allow the thoughts of others to become your thoughts. When you allow someone elses opinion of you to become your opinion of you.
When someone has something negative (or even positive) to say about me, I take a moral inventory of myself. If I happen to agree with them about something negative, I acknowledge it, take strides to overcome that shortcoming and then move on. If, however, I look within and know that what they are saying is bs, then, it doesn't matter to me what people think. We cannot impress everyone. I've tried, it doesn't work.
Be comfortable with being yourself but don't be afraid to remain open and teachable so you can continue growing.
2006-10-18 10:06:57 · answer #1 · answered by Semi-charmed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People will always talk about u. Most people would like you and while the others would dislike u with a passion. What u v to do is this, care about those that only v Ur best interest in mind for instance Ur family, friends and love ones.
2006-10-18 10:12:13 · answer #2 · answered by talktome 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should care about always doing the right thing, then it doesn't matter what other "people" think.
2006-10-18 09:55:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES! to a certain degree
Its good to have people respect you and feel that you are a good person
so with things like
BAD ATTITUDES
HURTING PEOPLES FEELING
DECEIVING THEM
ETC
I would say that DOES matter
but when it comes to thinks that don't really effect others such as petty things like
WHAT YOU WEAR
WHAT YOU FINANCIAL STATUS IS
WHO YOU LIKE
ETC
that DOES NOT matter
2006-10-18 10:05:37 · answer #4 · answered by Missbribri 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. I care what my family, friends and work associates think but not strangers.
2006-10-18 09:55:11 · answer #5 · answered by dianee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes, most of the time no, think about what is right and best for you, people will think anyways weather you like it or not.
2006-10-18 09:56:08 · answer #6 · answered by sure_whatever_29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because in the end, who really cares....everyone will be dead in 100 years and all will be forgotten
2006-10-18 09:55:13 · answer #7 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of what? Me? I care if they say some bad things to me.I will kick their ***.
2006-10-18 09:55:33 · answer #8 · answered by hopeless 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why should I. The only true person that I answer to is myself, that and my husband when he spanks me hard for being a bad girl
2006-10-18 09:55:49 · answer #9 · answered by fryedaddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends.... if it a review of something that you're most like ly to purchase yeah.
2006-10-18 09:55:18 · answer #10 · answered by Junia Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋