Other - Family & Relationships - 18 October 2006

Okay, I talk to this guy online who I met off of Yahoo! Answers. We've been talking for about two months, he's four years older than I am, but we'll sit at our computers and just randomly flirt. I love it because he's so sweet but sometimes we get a little carried away. The only bad part about any of this, is that he's bisexual. He has his "on" (straight) days, and his "off" (gay) days. It's kind of freaky but I really like him. What should I do? We've never met in person but we have this really good connection.

2006-10-18 12:17:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

trying to help my mate out!!she cant get over him even though she has tried so many times!!

2006-10-18 12:17:20 · 14 answers · asked by Lydia K 4

im 13 and i sill don't have a bf and it crazy im in mild school and i have high school next year it so close and so fast what sould i do???HELP

2006-10-18 12:11:18 · 5 answers · asked by ♥ðαиïεℓε♥ 1

2006-10-18 12:10:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am completely in love--never been with someone who is married he is 22 years older than me--he told me that he stays with his wife because she is not well and it would hurt his son who has a disability but they sleep in separate bedrooms and seem like they just stay together for convenience--it did not bother me but I am beginning to feel like something is missing I am so confused

2006-10-18 12:09:00 · 15 answers · asked by beaq 1

i've been with my husband for 7 years and i'm not allowed to have guy friends i have to hide them and tell him i don't know who thay are

2006-10-18 12:08:25 · 14 answers · asked by shelliebug21 1

okay i have brown curly hair and im mexican is that ugly or not?

2006-10-18 12:08:11 · 8 answers · asked by Kell 1

2006-10-18 12:05:58 · 5 answers · asked by diane c 3

I have had a couple of bad experiences with some past girlfriends and since then i tend to be very strict with the way i handle my relationships i do not believe that a cheater deserves to be forgiven, i think cheating itself is simply an act of selfishness and disrespect and those who do it are not worthy of second chances whoever i often wonder if that's always the case, experience has taught me that cheaters don't change but i have been in situations where i had to put some consideration before making my decision, thus i wonder is it ever okay to forgive a cheater?

2006-10-18 12:03:33 · 4 answers · asked by ericktravel 6

What did my Uncle do to my Dog and now my dog bit me?
After my uncle babysat my Dog Shylo a Male Maltese Poodle .He has never been the same and is acting very savage... He never walked in puddles before and now he barrels right through it and he bit me after I tried to put is jacket and sweater on
My Uncle is saying that My dog Shylo never new he was a male until he hung out with my him (uncle)
What can I do So he doesn't bit me when I put his sweater and jacket on....He never minded it before until he was with my Uncle
Because it is cold outside .......HELP

Second time posting this because was in wrong category

2006-10-18 11:59:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

A woman I know is tickled that the man she's been dating has deciced they should live together. She agreed prior to this not to ever call him. He calls her when he wants to see her. I've tried to say tell her that is a huge red flag! am I wrong?

2006-10-18 11:56:38 · 9 answers · asked by Sheila K 1

Its a long story but I was having an affair, hubby found out bcz I told him, I felt totally guilty, I stopped talking to the affair guy again, I slet with him again, and now I could kick myself in the *** for doing it bcz now affair guy thinks I need to talk to him every single day, but my question is he is really into selling drugs, and carries around EVERYTHING in his car, i want to be anonamys and call the Police bcz he will go to jail for a really long time, is this the only way to get him outta my life or what???? Is this totally wrong?

2006-10-18 11:54:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-18 11:51:44 · 11 answers · asked by Brittany B 1

I have very low self confidence, i think my friends are holding me back from talking and hanging out with other people. Besides my low self confidence, i also am extremely shy when it comes talking to girls, as much as i want to talk to them and as much as they attempt to talk to me i just can't carry on a conversation. im only 15. is there any way i could get my self confidence up and learn how to not be shy when talking to girls?

2006-10-18 11:51:01 · 8 answers · asked by cashfan28 2

Her mother split us up when she found she was pregnant and went nuts on her and I. I cant see her, I cant talk to her, I have no way of finding out her and our babys doing. Her mother also hit her in her head and locked her up so she couldnt call the police, so she never got a chance to call.

Shes not locked up all the time, but she might as well be. i mean, isnt a little messed up I cant see her or talk to her? She wants to run away, and Im seriously about to help her out and move into a friends house with her, where she wont have to deal with those people. her parents would never find us either...

So if anyone could give me some advice, Id love it, cause im trippin out. Thanks

2006-10-18 11:50:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

What is your favorite way to do it, how often, who initiates it and how satisfying is it for both of you.
With us, its doggy or girl on top, (her doggie, me girl on top) every other day and both have great climaxes

2006-10-18 11:50:15 · 2 answers · asked by orygunduk1 2

When my daughter finally went into rehab, her baby was one month short of a year old. Now that she is in rehab there is talk of the courts in Nevada trying to terminate her parental rights. I had originally had arranged for my granddaughters transfer to my home state but the state of Nevada kept her with extended family of the father. Now they want to adopt her and my daughter has finally gotten help and wants her baby. I was also approved originally to get my granddaughter but the family seemed intent and the caseworker as well, on keeping the baby there. The caseworker also has a very close relationship with the foster parents and it is obvious that she favors their going for the adoption of my granddaughter. Aren't caseworkers supposed to be objective and isn't their job to try and unite parents with their children? My ex and I are hoping this is not going to turn into a legal battle. I don't want my granddaughter adopted so soon. Help with advice. Thank you.

2006-10-18 11:46:42 · 5 answers · asked by Noble G 1

My ex seems to be botherin me alot lately. We aint together cuz i called it off for a good reason, liein and cheatin, but he keeps sayin he changed and this and that, but i dont know what too do shoul di believe him or not. i heard once a cheater always a cheater is that true?

2006-10-18 11:43:40 · 3 answers · asked by Gansta Gurl 1

my boyfriend wants me to break up with him so his constantly belittles me in private and public he asked his friend to find him a fly girl , that he was sick of me and called me an ugly *****. I can't break up with him I can't believe his doing this it's all a nighmare !

2006-10-18 11:43:28 · 9 answers · asked by Tellie 4

I’m all for equality in the work place.

I’m all for equal rights for both genders.

---BUT---

Lately I’ve noticed women taking this a little too far. I’ve noticed (in the work place and in the home) women believe they should get special privileges or treatment merely for being a woman. I’ve noticed a lot of women who stay at home (while the husband is working and supporting her) thinking it’s not their job to maintain a clean home. They want the man to come home (after a hard day of work) and clean up messes left by both or woman who simply won’t do a job in the work place because “they can’t do it.” Maybe I’m wrong but I feel strongly that if a woman wants a job they should do it (and every aspect of it) as good if not better then a man. Woman use this movement for excuses. They claim it’s not a woman’s job to cook and clean (basically everything pertaining to maintaining a home) therefore they do not do it. Yes, men have responsibilities too---they should help out. I think this movement has turned more in to women thinking they are superior or deserve more then men instead of the original idea of women getting equal rights

I’m so happy that I am liberated and that I can go out and get any career I want--regardless of being female. I’m a SAHM--if my husband was a stay at home dad I’d expect him to do just as much as I do. I just think the roles are being flipped--some women consider themselves better then men instead of equal. What are you feelings on this? Have you ever met a woman along these lines? Thank you for your comments!

2006-10-18 11:39:48 · 13 answers · asked by .vato. 6

If Raquel Welch asked me out on a date, I'd have to say yes, even though she's 66 and I'm 27.

2006-10-18 11:35:32 · 7 answers · asked by GGman 1

to make a long story short, I was having an affair with an ex, Iam married with 2 little ones. It all blew up in my face. the ex was threatning he was gonna tell my hubby, I broke down told my husban, he forgave me, but I don't know how I started talking to the ex again but the ex said he was never really gonna tell my hubby he was just threatning, now he says it can just be our lil seceret, but he thinks he has to talk to me everyday, how do I get rid of him completey?????

2006-10-18 11:34:42 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

I spoke to a woman today who met a man with money and kept showing off about it, Anyway, i was a little jelous but, i would just like to meet somoen loveing and kind, but if i meet a man who has money, i kinda feel well he wont be interested in me i am a single parent, i don,t even have a car and i am bringing up my grandchildren so i carn,t work full time, although i have nearly finished my degree, sometimes i think men with money think they are it, and that puts me off, i thnk they will want a woman with a flash car and all that. I am independant i suppose ishould be proud of that am i being negative. I just cannot handle hurt you know.

2006-10-18 11:33:27 · 12 answers · asked by guysmithdenise 3

gay guys know the complicated mind of a woman they know it so well even women love getting advice from them....i was in the salon w/ my mom and the gay guy was dr phil in that salon... gay guys are good spy for us straight guys trust me they know everything about women....and not the dumb stuff but the important stuff...

2006-10-18 11:32:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

my bf and i got into an argument yesterday and i didnt see him let alone talk to him till this morning. hes refusing to see me again today. the fight was about his priorities. he told me his friends are just as important as me and we have been together for almost 3 years. shouldn't i be a little more important? he said if i bring anything up about that stuff he will leave me.

well today i thought he lied to me about something and we had an argument over that. i made mistake and thought he lied to me and he keeps holding it against me and refuses to accept my apology when everyone is hanging out tonight now..but me. what can i say to make things better?

2006-10-18 11:31:03 · 18 answers · asked by Lisa 1

Eveything at home and places i go remind me of him i think i am going mad.

2006-10-18 11:30:07 · 34 answers · asked by karen 2

ok well theres this boy that i cant stop thinking about..and im pretty sure that he likes me,becuase he was flirting with me that time. iv only met him once.because he is my freinds cousin. and i met him at my freinds birthday..
i really want to see him again. but i dont know how to tell my freind,i dont want her to know i like her cousin..

so how can i kind of remind her or something like that, about her cousin..so i can kind of see him again or like..talk to him or something?

there pretty close..so any ideas?

please i really want to see or talk to him again just so mabyy i can stop thinking about him cuase thats practicaly all iv been thinking about when im talking to my freind on the phone. [im always hoping that he's at her house or something lol]

2006-10-18 11:29:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

the hairs under my daughters arms are so long i don't think she has shaved or cut them for over 5 years.......she has started plaiting them it's so embarassing...i dread the hot weather when she has them exposed i asked her to do something about it but she thinks this is fine...am i wrong please let me know!

2006-10-18 11:27:25 · 6 answers · asked by diane c 3

I've been using some form of drug all my life. I've always wanted to stop, but I've been scared of facing reality alone. No one around me was making a move to get out that life so I waited and still used. During this time, I have neglected giving my full self to my children, neglected important activities and neglected myself.
It's been 5 years and me and my boyfriend have been battling drug addiction together and mental illness. I got so depressed that I was searching for help in the T.V. and newspaper. I became delusional and wanted help so bad that I convinced myself that someone out there in the world had been hearing my cry for help. As I got weaker, fighting my addiction and mental illness, I then thought someone was coming to kill me. After my stay at the hospital my mind got stronger. I've used since then. I've left my boyfriend. I made a move on helping my family, but my partner is in denial. He resents me for making a stand. I Love him and can't help him. I stay depressed.

2006-10-18 11:25:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

i usually go to the co op pay phone to call my mother and after i was done on one calling card he asked if i needed some change he was gonna give me some! I told him i had another calling card! Than i came in a few days later to do some shoppin and he was like no calls to your honey today. I dont really know him so i said no.

2006-10-18 11:23:57 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous