A woman I know is tickled that the man she's been dating has deciced they should live together. She agreed prior to this not to ever call him. He calls her when he wants to see her. I've tried to say tell her that is a huge red flag! am I wrong?
2006-10-18 11:56:38 · 9 answers · asked by Sheila K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You should butt out and mind your own business.
2006-10-18 11:58:04 · answer #1 · answered by Paul S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A HUGE red flag, in fact. Plus, studies have shown it's far better not to live together before marriage, even if there weren't any red flags..
2006-10-18 19:00:48 · answer #2 · answered by whenangrypecansattack 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah...its a total red flag. Lines of communication should always be open, and the fact that she agreed to it says a lot about what she's willing to do to avoid being alone.
2006-10-18 19:01:50 · answer #3 · answered by Jadeba12 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is a gigantic red flag!!!
How much more of a hint does she need?
He doesn't want her to call him, but now he wants her to live with him? He sounds like a major control freak and a loser.
2006-10-18 19:00:42 · answer #4 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are not wrong for being a concerned friend as long as you are respectful, however, she's her own woman and she will have to learn from her mistakes. When she comes crying to you about how he broke her heart, just be there for her!
2006-10-18 19:02:07 · answer #5 · answered by love,peace&happiness 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh that's a huge red flag!!!!! She needs to wake up!!!
2006-10-18 18:59:06 · answer #6 · answered by pink 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are right but sometimes lust and other emotions can sometimes make women vision blurry. Support you friend decision and just be there for her.
2006-10-18 19:00:52 · answer #7 · answered by Disha 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i read a book where something like this has happened and it turned out the guy had a couple other gf's then just that one. but they weren't moving in togther they were in college or something like that
2006-10-18 19:05:22 · answer #8 · answered by Tiffy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
double red flag is you friend retarded
2006-10-18 19:00:51 · answer #9 · answered by BROWNLYN 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋