I am completely in love--never been with someone who is married he is 22 years older than me--he told me that he stays with his wife because she is not well and it would hurt his son who has a disability but they sleep in separate bedrooms and seem like they just stay together for convenience--it did not bother me but I am beginning to feel like something is missing I am so confused
2006-10-18 12:09:00 · 15 answers · asked by beaq 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am No. 15. Well, you should have enough of advice before coming to my answer. If you still can’t see the common logic, my guess is you are smitten by your love for him. Not that it is 100% wrong because you have the right to learn life lessons in your own way. The outcome of dragging through this relationship may be in your favour although the odds seem stacked high against you, which is what making you feel uneasy and confused.
2006-10-18 18:24:48 · answer #1 · answered by Cool 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, how can you feel good about yourself,why would you want to complicate your life so much? I don't understand women like you. Is there not enough men out there or something ? Or is your self esteem so low that you are willing to get involved with a married man who's wife and son really need and probably love him more than you will ever experience. I think deep down you know that that" little something missing" is love and respect
not f**king an old married scumbag,who by the way will probably never leave his wife. Wake Up!!!!!!
2006-10-18 19:48:23 · answer #2 · answered by viva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a cheating skank who enjoys breaking up marriages were the wife is ill and the son is disabled? Would you be proud of yourself? Yeah? If so... next question: do you really believe him? Come on, those are the oldest excuses in the book. What woman over the age of 30 hasn't heard the same things from married men? He's not even an original liar.
Something's missing all right: your honor and morals.
2006-10-18 19:18:13 · answer #3 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably lying. Tell him you would be interested in having a relationship with him but you would want to make sure if his wife is ok with him dating other people. I would bet she is not. So he is married and should act like it. How does he or you think it would effect his son if he found out his dad was cheating on his mom with you and his whole childhood had been a big lie. If he doesn't want it to be seen in the light of day then he shouldn't be doing it and neither should you.
2006-10-18 19:17:22 · answer #4 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah... a guy told me a similiar story once.. turned out to not be true.
If you can't have respect for marriage vows then at least have more respect for yourself and stay away from married men.
2006-10-18 19:13:50 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're going to be the one getting hurt in this - badly. Try seeing him less or leave him altogether and get together with a single guy.
2006-10-18 19:16:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey he's gonna tell u whatever it takes to keep gettin that young C00CHIE believe me. now if your happy just seeing someone when it's convenient for THEM and never when YOU want to. and happy being alone on major holiday's, etc go for it. but if u think this is gonna lead to some kinda fairytale ending your fooling yourself.
2006-10-18 19:21:12 · answer #7 · answered by feetal2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sticky situation.. i dont see him leaving his family and wife. maybe you should back away for your own good. why should you be the one in the end to get hurt. i have a feeling that's what will happen.
2006-10-18 19:16:28 · answer #8 · answered by Sweet96 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These situations never come out with a good ending. He will never be there for you, he will always be there for his wife.
2006-10-18 19:14:38 · answer #9 · answered by belladonna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and chances are he will never leave her. He may not be in love with her, but he loves her. You deserve better than that. Find someone who is free to love you in the way that you are supposed to be loved.
2006-10-18 19:12:43 · answer #10 · answered by Amy C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋