Her mother split us up when she found she was pregnant and went nuts on her and I. I cant see her, I cant talk to her, I have no way of finding out her and our babys doing. Her mother also hit her in her head and locked her up so she couldnt call the police, so she never got a chance to call.
Shes not locked up all the time, but she might as well be. i mean, isnt a little messed up I cant see her or talk to her? She wants to run away, and Im seriously about to help her out and move into a friends house with her, where she wont have to deal with those people. her parents would never find us either...
So if anyone could give me some advice, Id love it, cause im trippin out. Thanks
2006-10-18 11:50:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First of all how old is she? No parent can make a child get an abortion. If she fears for the life of her baby and herself then maybe you could put a call into social services and tell them your story, or call your local police. This is very unhealthy for a baby and for the mother. Everyone makes mistakes. You could also contact the school and maybe talk to the guidance counselor about this situation.
2006-10-18 11:55:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am really not sure if the mom can make her get an abortion, but hitting a pregnant woman is illegal & bullsh*t. If my mom ever hit me when I was pregnant, she would definately be in jail. (I love my mom, but that is NOT RIGHT!) If I were you, I would call the police & tell them. File a report. It is your baby, regardless if the mom hit her in the head or in the stomach. and her mom making her stress like that is bad for the baby, too. It can cause miscarriage. (spontaneous abortion) If the girl is under 18 (probably so, right?) then you may have a problem, but there are places that can help you do something. best of luck!
2006-10-21 10:49:13 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are or what state you are in because state laws vary. The simple answer is if she is 15 or older (wich I hope to god she is) her mom can't make her get an abortion. You are in a tough spot and I wish you the best. You have a legal right to see that child and be in it's life and it sounds like you girlfriend wants that but at the same time if she is a minor what mom sais goes (to a certain extent) If it continues I would say talk to a lawyer. Alot of them will do free consultations or work on cases on a "pro bono" basis. Good luck and congrats on your child.
Oh and if it gets bad you can call CPS and report that her mom is abusing her.
2006-10-18 18:57:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK first of all how old are you guys??? you do know that if her mom is hitting her she can get in huge trouble, and you should do what ever possible to talk to your girlfriend and make sure she's OK, and also do your parents know?? maybe you can get help from your parents, you can go to her house with them and have them talk to her mom, and see if they come to an agreement and hopefully they acknowledge that you and your girlfriend need their support not their drama!
and the answer is not running away, so don't take any drastic decisions just yet! and try to relax it's not healthy to be so stressed out...
2006-10-18 19:15:17 · answer #4 · answered by ♥♥♥♥♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that her mother can MAKE her abort the baby...it still is a choice that she'll have to make for herself. You can call the police for her & make a report especially if your gf is underage.
good luck & do what is right by the baby that didn't ask to be conceived....even if it means putting it up for adoption.
2006-10-18 18:58:11 · answer #5 · answered by pattysez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I AM SOOOOOOOOOOOO SORRY
me and mt botfriend thought we were pregnant and it freaked us out. I can only imagine how you are, GET HER OUT of that house. can she talk to her other friends?? if so call one of them and ask them to 3 way you if possible. I am so sorry you will be in my prayers and also
yessss it is messed up that you cant talk to her. R u in love with her??? please email me and i really can help you out. 2 minds are better that 1 me and you can find plan to help her. Right now i am putting myself in your shoes and i feel so bad for you. My boyfriend mom is a b***h and we have to deal with her but we just try to blow her off and keep going. We say it is us aginist the world and it is kinda the same for you too.
PLEASE email me cause my heart is breakin thinking about your sisuation
GOD BLESS YOU, HER AND THE BABY
2006-10-18 19:03:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no her mom can not make her get an abortion
if she's under age and pg as far as the courts are concern she's
emancipated. if her and her baby are in danger then get her out of there maybe you can call the police for her or social services
2006-10-18 18:56:13 · answer #7 · answered by BROWNLYN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call social services in your area immediately. Regardless of the abortion issue, she's being abused and you will regret doing nothing later on.
2006-10-18 18:53:34 · answer #8 · answered by TrainerMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well can you blame her mother? Her daughter is irresponsible, her boyfriend is irresponsible. You can not force someone to have an abortion, but you don't have any say in the matter unfortunately. Wrap up your pecker for god's sake.
2006-10-18 18:54:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old y'all are, but it sounds like her mom is abusive. Have you thought about calling child services? You have a right to know what's going on with your baby.
2006-10-18 18:53:56 · answer #10 · answered by Lady J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋