Okay, I talk to this guy online who I met off of Yahoo! Answers. We've been talking for about two months, he's four years older than I am, but we'll sit at our computers and just randomly flirt. I love it because he's so sweet but sometimes we get a little carried away. The only bad part about any of this, is that he's bisexual. He has his "on" (straight) days, and his "off" (gay) days. It's kind of freaky but I really like him. What should I do? We've never met in person but we have this really good connection.
2006-10-18 12:17:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Why do bi people bother everyone? He doesn't bother me with it, no bisexual people do, I'm just saying it's weird sometimes.
2006-10-18 12:23:10 · update #1
well i dont know. I had a bad experience with a guy like that. He ended up being a fake and I was really into him. It happens more than you think so dont give out personal info and be friends but BE VERY VERY CAREFUL. itsok to be paranoid on the internet..
godluck..
2006-10-18 12:20:33 · answer #1 · answered by FUSE 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What should you do? Well, I'll tell you...count your blessings and thank the heavens that you didn't meet him offline first. This guy is not the best choice for online or offline romance. Why? First, he is a confused, selfish individual. And if you are hoping that you can change him into a "one woman man" you are tinkering with the wrong love project. If you by chance develope a sexual relationship with him---he is not going to halt sexual relations with other men. Is this the kind of "empty" relationship that you are considering? Why don't you prefer to have a man who doesn't need the best of both worlds. He has a strong sense of self, prefers having a sexual relationship with women only, and is totally available for "fun, let me get to know you better" (online talks), and, "we finally get to meet-let's plan a date" (offline talks). You are settling for second best my dear; why accept the wheels and frame when you can have the whole bicycle?
2006-10-18 12:36:55 · answer #2 · answered by roddy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I personally believe people who can't even make up their mind on what sex they like the best. Meaning are they gay, or straight, are utterly confused. These are the worst ones. You can't trust him with your guy friends, or your girl friends. Because, guess what--- he likes both!!! If someone can't even figure out which gender that they like the best, how would they ever be able to totally commit to anyone??? C'mon, now. It's a fantasy you are entertaining, not reality. Reality is that he likes to get it and give it!!! Sick? Yeah. Weird? Yeah. You also have to worry about more sexual transmitted diseases with this one. Plus, take it from my expierence. Talk is cheap. And, just because this guy is what you think you like, that doesn't mean it is what you like. A lot of guys say what you want to hear. It's much easier to run a game on someone ,once you know them. So, the more info. you give him about yourself, the more he will play you. WATCH OUT!! Go, meet someone that is real!! Sorry hon... expierence talking.
2006-10-18 12:38:13 · answer #3 · answered by junebug 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ifonlyyou: Hi there ! Since you never met this person, how do you know for sure he is who he says he is? How can you love someone you have never spent any time with? This "guy" could be 50 years old and sucking you in to set you up for a connecting date. The connection you share with this guy is infatuation and is NOT love ! This is DANGEROUS and you may meet him and never see your family and friends again ! Please "know before you go"! This on-line "connection" sounds like he is giving you the "line". Please be careful and tell your guidance counsellor at school, your church minister or pastor or even, a police officer or sheriff about this.
2006-10-18 12:32:41 · answer #4 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Alisha sweetie.. nothing wrong with it at all as long as u don't exceed the limits.. it's ok if u talk to each other like a bro & his sis.. this relation could be healthy , esp after he got married.. i had similar experience but with different results , that ended not talking to each other frequently.. he proposed to me , but i refused cuz i only loved him as a bro no more & i never gave him any hints about marriage & he knew that.. anyway , we just congratulate each other on occasions such as Eid al fitr & al adha & ramadan , ..etc.. may allah bless u & all of us.. love & peace from islam..
2016-05-22 00:43:05 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not let it go any further than on line. You will never have total commitment if he is bi. You are setting yourself up for heartache and possibly a death sentence if he has aids.
2006-10-18 12:20:39 · answer #6 · answered by RITA G 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
WOW! How do you know he is a guy? Back off. There is a lot of wack-oo's out there so whatch out.. If you decide to meet him, bring a friend with you and meet him in a mall food court.
2006-10-18 12:32:28 · answer #7 · answered by Nick R 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Find someone else to talk to unless you want to be shoved under the rug on his off days.
2006-10-18 12:20:01 · answer #8 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Getting carried away with a stranger online is dangerous. If you find it freaky now there's a lot more he hasn't told you. Please be careful. Maybe you should just keep it as "friends".
2006-10-18 12:23:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
okay if you want to be with a man that likes penis as much as you do, okay to each his own, but you're asking for a hurting emotionally. Good Luck
2006-10-18 12:20:23 · answer #10 · answered by Wood77 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋