I spoke to a woman today who met a man with money and kept showing off about it, Anyway, i was a little jelous but, i would just like to meet somoen loveing and kind, but if i meet a man who has money, i kinda feel well he wont be interested in me i am a single parent, i don,t even have a car and i am bringing up my grandchildren so i carn,t work full time, although i have nearly finished my degree, sometimes i think men with money think they are it, and that puts me off, i thnk they will want a woman with a flash car and all that. I am independant i suppose ishould be proud of that am i being negative. I just cannot handle hurt you know.
2006-10-18 11:33:27 · 12 answers · asked by guysmithdenise 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You know what. I use to tell my mom that I'm gonna be a gold digger. But Now being 19 and well not that old but I do know better. I now don't want any guy with money. Why??? because they would eventually cheat, or do something else I wouldn't like just because he feels that he can just because he is rich. I got a firend like that. he's rich, and thinks like that. Turned out I didn't want a man with money for I'm going to do it all on my own and don't need anyone to do it for me, especially a man
2006-10-18 11:37:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know. you should be, im a student with no money (also a man. there are so many phsycological efects that having alot of money cdan have upon someone especially expectations from people. also influence from the media can create views about what a woman should be. basically dont go looking for a rich guy. youll find a man who u like and disregard the issue of money, i,e. if hes rich or poor it doesnt matter. jsut go 4 a guy u like. otherwise ull be left feeling that somethings lacking.
2006-10-18 11:37:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear what you are saying, but honestly, if you find a man who flashes his money and seems more interested in superficial things about the woman he is seeing, then he really isnt worth knowing - walk away. Be proud of who you are and be yourself. When you meet a man who loves you for who you are then it wont matter to either of you whether he has money or not.
2006-10-18 11:44:46 · answer #3 · answered by RichardLeB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its true to say that the majority of women like men who have money reason being is not to use them but to know that they can be in a secure relationship with that guy and knowing that he can look after you financially, ok many men with alot money think their flash but keep in mind it doesnt mean all men are like that, you got to be open minded. one day there may come a day where you meet a really nice man while having coffee and he might not talk about being rich in any way, and at the end of it you may find out for yourself... i know this because men with money look for women who seek them for them and not for their money therefore they tend to hide the fact that they may be rich, so just remember that not all men think their all that because of money.
2006-10-18 12:19:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my hubby was loaded when i met him and i have to say that we had a few problems getting together because of it. i worked and earned a pittance for doing it but i was independant. at first he found this to be a problem. if you walked past a shop and said i like that he would want to buy it. he could not understand the i cannot afford it cos he could.he did eventually learn that i wanted to be married but keep some independance. we have been together for years now and i still work to pay for my own clothes and car etc. so it can work its the guy thats important not his bank balance.
2006-10-18 12:01:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will change your mind when you meet that guy with 5 zillion in thebank,beleive me,its called human nature.
2006-10-18 11:40:46 · answer #6 · answered by realdolby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Er... what the buggery are you talking about?
Why do you want a rich man? Or don't you? I'm just not sure what you want.... do you know?
Oh, my brain hurts... I'm going to bed.
2006-10-18 11:38:46 · answer #7 · answered by Hobnobs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As the Beatles said--'Money can't buy you love'.
(look at Paul McCartney right now.)
2006-10-18 11:35:47 · answer #8 · answered by MaryBeth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like you, you are nice! You seem to be caring and kind underneath it all. I am not a moneybags at all but I would take you on. Will you have me?
2006-10-19 09:55:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not about having money or not. if you find the right person it doesn't matter who's got what..... love will concur all
2006-10-18 11:45:27 · answer #10 · answered by jdg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋