Its a long story but I was having an affair, hubby found out bcz I told him, I felt totally guilty, I stopped talking to the affair guy again, I slet with him again, and now I could kick myself in the *** for doing it bcz now affair guy thinks I need to talk to him every single day, but my question is he is really into selling drugs, and carries around EVERYTHING in his car, i want to be anonamys and call the Police bcz he will go to jail for a really long time, is this the only way to get him outta my life or what???? Is this totally wrong?
2006-10-18 11:54:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If he's selling drugs, then YES its wrong. Also, you sleepin with the guy is pretty shitty too. If you want to turn him in because you think he's doing something wrong, thats cool, but there are better ways to get him out of your life, maybe say not sleeping with him or answering the phone when he calls.
2006-10-18 11:56:59 · answer #1 · answered by Jadeba12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
having an affair is already wrong n worse still is the affair guy is from such complicated background
i support ur idea of reporting to the police but do MAKE SURE u will not be reveal out n keep it a total secret to urself not even to anyone u trust!!!
if he really gets into jail,move to other place n start a new life with ur family n never ever keep in touch with anyone tat noes ur affair guy,jus in case he can track u when he is out or whatsoever
good luck n all the best
2006-10-18 19:00:41 · answer #2 · answered by Western 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, It's bad enough that you had an affair once, but twice! Damn girl, its obivious there are either ishues between you and your husband, or your not in love with him anymore, before you do anything you need to solve the ishue between you and your husband. a real man wouldn't stay with a woman after two affairs. secondly, Being with a drug dealer is a bad thing, things can get extremely ugly, if he wont back off you, get a restraining order on his ***, and call the license plate number in to the cops, tell them your not willing to testify or anything and you want to remain annonoymous. that should take care of it. but really fix the relationship with your husband first.
2006-10-18 19:07:41 · answer #3 · answered by cashfan28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would yes it is totally wrong. If you genuinely cared for his safety and well being then I would say by all means TELL THE POLICE. But you are just trying to get out of a sticky situation you put yourself in. You made your bed now lie in it. I am sorry if this was harsh, but this is the truth and I think you needed and wanted to hear it.
2006-10-18 19:00:17 · answer #4 · answered by Alyss K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did you even have an affair with him, now you got yourself in a situation that you can't get out of. Don't call the police on him becasue most likely he would know that it was you.
All I can say is pray about it
Good Luck
2006-10-18 19:00:25 · answer #5 · answered by babygirl18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could call the police, yes.
But I don't think that should be the only step... You should probably tell him that you're sorry for leading him on and that from now on you're going to be loyal to your husband because you promised him that on your wedding day.
Try to be loyal to your vows, and don't let this ruin your marriage... And make sure you don't have any loose ends with your husband on the matter... Just out of respect.
2006-10-18 18:58:46 · answer #6 · answered by whenangrypecansattack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to cut all tides with this man. Do not call him and do not answer his phone calls. If that does not work file harassment suit on him. You should not call police because he selling drugs because that just being petty. You got yourself in this mess so get yourself out of it.
2006-10-18 19:06:17 · answer #7 · answered by Disha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u wanna get him out of ur life, just call the police - -" if the police find out he sells drugs and u know but u dont tell the police, u'll go to jail too!
2006-10-18 18:57:13 · answer #8 · answered by Ganbatteru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think you felt that bad for doing it the first time b/c you did it again having that said there are allot of ways to get rid of someone than hating on them. if you wanted to break ties you can (unless you feel unsafe ) by saying hey its over. stop sleeping around on your dude that's wrong.
2006-10-18 19:06:18 · answer #9 · answered by nicole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you cheat on your man with a drug dealer first off and second call the freaking police and put his butt in jail
2006-10-18 18:56:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋