Why are so many of you women so prejudice?

Question

Let me first say...Not ALL of you. There are many women on here that seem to be very understanding when a man has serious questions to ask. But there are also a lot of you who refuse to believe that a man could be doing everything he can and that it really is the womans fault when things are going arye. Do you not beleive that "good men" exist? Or have you just been stuck with a bum for a husband/boyfriend? Why all the hate?

Thank you TonyaL. That's all I wanted to hear.

Some men have also been lied to, cheated on, and taken advantage of and still persevere.

Answer 1

Some people walk around with blinders on all their life and see only one side of everything... unfortunately their parents probably didn't teach them there is always 2 sides to every story...
There are good and bad in both sexes.....unfortunately you might have found a bad one... but I wouldn't let people decide for me what is good or bad.. as long as you know, that is all that is important.... Have a good day....

Answer 2

It is necessary to focus on the possibility of prejudice when considering why so few women have had good relationships, because some men don't think that women are equivalent in many other human factors. I as a women argue that view of no good men left especially when there are, shared beliefs about the actual and ideal characteristics of a good man, produce prejudice-ism toward men, because women are considered to have the ability to pick a man right? And if their choice is evaluated less favorably or not a good man then who's fault is that no ones but their own right? They should not look at all men as the same because there are still good ones left.

Stereotypeing has shown that most women will say a man in no good before she even knows him, but on the same hand men do the same thing as well.Sexes can be organized into two categories: communal and genetic. Communal characteristics, which are most often assigned to women, center on a concern for the welfare of others and include such traits as being affectionate, helpful, kind, sensitive, prejudice,and gentle. In contrast, men are seen more often as possessing genetic characteristics - controlling, assertive, confident, prejudice and independent. Yet studies have demonstrated that the genetic qualities are the great majority of the characteristics that people desire in both roles. So what I mean is no matter what you will always have a women thats say's "their are no good men" and you'll always have a man that say's "women never give us a break". Everybody is different that's what is so great about this world......

Answer 3

I try too answer all Q's with just plain ole' honesty. If a man ask a Question that I think I can answer then I will, I had a hell of a first husband that was a number one ********* but that didn't tuen me off men. I know that men have just as many or sometimes more problems than us women. But I have noticed that there seems too be a lot of women on here that give very smart *** answers too the men. But I'm sure the guy's just skip over them and look at the serious answers. That would be the smart thing too do anyway!!

Answer 4

I believe that "good men" definitely exist. I fortunately know a few, but two of them are gay and two are like brothers to me. I haven't yet met a "good man" as a love interest, but I know you guys do exist. What does make it hard for many of us to trust a man, especially if he seems like a keeper, is often because we've been hurt, lied to, cheated on and who knows what else enough times that we take a while to allow another man close to us.

And yes I will admit that women screw up relationships too... nobody is perfect. There are good and bad of both men and women, so people really shouldn't stereotype one thing to one gender.

Also, I won't assume a man is good or bad until I see him say or do something that proves it either way. Actions speak louder than words much of the time though.

Answer 5

Let me say first off me myself can be a bit prejudice against men. But the reson that most woman dont believe there are " good men" out there is because they have been lied and cheated on too many times. And it seems like every guy uses the same method with a lady and we end up getting our heartbroken. And its like when u have already gottn your heartbroken so many times that you lose your trust. and when a new man steps into our life we look back on all the other men and we judge you by it to see if your saying the same things he said and it makes it harder for us to trust yall. You may be a good man but u have to be careful what you say and how you say it.

Answer 6

Well, I'm married and so are most of my friends. All the things that you say you do I just find a little hard to believe. Yes, I do beleive good men exist., just not sure that they cook, clean, do laundry, etc. My apologies if I'm wrong. I do feel that your wife needs to compromise cuz 11mos is way too long.

Answer 7

Alot of the women like the feeling of being in control and having the ability to hate men on the internet is the one safe way to do it. Some I assume also had bad past experiences. i know i did before i met my fiancee. Everyone deserves a chance:-)

Answer 8

Lots of bad experiences with the wrong men, sometimes. Sure have to learn to forgive and forget, but sometimes it's really difficult to do that and move on, especially when you gave your all to someone and he treated you like crap! I would really like to believe that good men still exist? I hope I am blessed to meet the right "good man" someday soon. I am always willing to give it another chance, relationships that is.

Answer 9

The majority of smart answers are probably young girls !
Women are more understanding about the ego !

Answer 10

only good man is a dead man, they don't exist, they run out on you for quitting your job or sleeping with their best friend and they never come back.