Other - Family & Relationships - 14 August 2006

are men naturally inclined to cheat? My b/f says yes and I say that they may be inclined, but have the choice to not cheat. what do you guys say?

2006-08-14 08:42:39 · 27 answers · asked by libbe2020 1

2006-08-14 08:37:57 · 6 answers · asked by chand c 3

My son, 10, has ADHD. He is off his meds right now because his doctor is on maternity leave.
I've learned to let him have his episodes when he has a bad day.
My husband on the other hand can't handle him. He's always hated our son. Just today he hit him in the head with his hand and then threw a cup at him because my son got frustrated and yelled at his dad. I'm tired of this happening. I've asked my husband to get help and he won't.
He is the main provider in the house, if he leaves, me and 5 kids are left eith nothing. What do I do? He needs counseling and he won't go. I'm tired of him being so mean to our son? How can you hate your own child?

2006-08-14 08:31:58 · 17 answers · asked by ~SSIRREN~ 6

see me and jake well we have been goin out for 1 month and we are serious in love but he lives in fond du lac and i live in oshkosh we both cant drive and our parents wont take us to see eachother but we desperatly need to see eachother really bad. my parents say he has to come to my house but he cant and i cant wait untill one of us drives jake is 16 and i am 15 1/2 help

2006-08-14 08:30:53 · 37 answers · asked by Kristy h 2

Whether you know the parent(s) or not will you, or have you send you child(ren) to sleep over night at their best friends house?

2006-08-14 08:26:21 · 17 answers · asked by Big Mama 2

My mother in law hates me because of something I said, and the evil ***** is trying to get back at me by doing things to cause my husband and I to separate, But I already told her What God put together let no man put asunder. What should I do to keep her from bothering us cause MY Husband ain't going no where?

2006-08-14 08:24:55 · 10 answers · asked by sydneluraka 2

Ok, I was with a man for 6 years, I got pregnant & while I was pregnant he was having an on going affair. I found out contacted the girl & she told me she hadn't talked to him in 6 months that she moved to cali & was pregnant but had an abortion. Well last week he puposed 2 me & I said yes because it's been a year since this has happened & we've been taking it slow well, yesterday while we setting the date he proceeded to tell me that he had somethin important to say he fessed up 2 everything he told me she was pregnant and then he said she had the baby 3 weeks ago WHAT! he said that he didn't want nothin 2 do with her & hadn't talk 2 her in 7 months & he was goin 2 sign away his rights but then I find out that ever since last week when he found out about the baby he went & seen her & has been callin her everyday from work he told me she said I would like to be together but he said he wanted 2 b with me & she was fine with that (I don't believe that) What should I do

2006-08-14 08:17:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bf wants to move away. Due to certain circumstances he does not want to stay any longer. I have one more year of school. In which I decided to go to like a homeschool so I could graduate early and leave with my bf. Regular school just started today and my mom decided now to tell me that she wanted to see me graduate in a real graduation. Due to my circumstances and things that happened in the past. I don't want to do that. However, I also don't think I want to move away with my bf to the place that he is going to. I don't see much for me there. I was offered by other family members to go live with them in another state and go to school there. They will buy me a car and help me out with a lot. But, I love my bf so much and we've been through so much together. I don't want to leave him but that would be selfish. I don't know what to do. I've tried so hard to be true to myself and do what it is I truely want to do but I no longer know what that is. Follow my heart of follow my brain?

2006-08-14 08:16:22 · 7 answers · asked by Beans 2

My Boyfriend and I live together, for a year now. We love each other, we're always together, now this girl from his past , who lives far away, started Text messaging and calling him, at all hours,
she'll write "sweet dreams" etc...
I havent discussed it with him, I know that I tend to get jealous, but I can't help but feel like she's trying to flirt with my man!
Help! should I talk to him, or will that make it worse?

2006-08-14 08:12:07 · 7 answers · asked by chicky 2

I do not see him in my future. He has been stagnating all his life and offers nothing to me. I need to leave but he says he'll die if I do. Please help!

2006-08-14 08:06:38 · 15 answers · asked by lovelee 1

2006-08-14 08:04:24 · 23 answers · asked by richard b 1

my boyfriend recently asked if I would move out of state if the opportunity came up for him to get a job transfer. This would enable him to move up in the company faster and get to where he's always dreamed. I agreed and said I would, since he said he wouldn't leave without me and I think it would be fun to live in another state. I told my mom and my sister this am, and got all teary eyed. I've always been really close with my family and love my niece and nephew to death...i'm a little nervous of becoming home sick and having a miserable year away from my family. It's not for sure that we are moving out of state yet as he's getting the details from his boss today. Any suggestions for people who have moved out of state or somewhere where they don't know anyone? I want this to be a positive experience for the both of us since this move will ensure our future of not worrying about money...

2006-08-14 07:57:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom told me to go kill myself and that she hopes i do a good job of it. Whats yours?

2006-08-14 07:52:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

my father has been dealing with marriage problems and turned to serious drugs, he's depressed and knows that he has a problem. When i look at him i see him sad and dealing with it and i want to help him, i dont knwo what to say to him.

2006-08-14 07:49:45 · 11 answers · asked by beauty talks 1

When a guy tells you he is a good guy, you can't really know for sure. The point is, how do you really know what he wants from you?

2006-08-14 07:46:08 · 6 answers · asked by Colby 1

Im a 20 year old single mom who found love in a 37 year old who has been divorced from his wife of ten years for less than a year. He has a 17 year old daugther and i have a 1 year old little boy. I think I'm doing the right thing, please help!

2006-08-14 07:45:13 · 28 answers · asked by hotrodmama19 1

2006-08-14 07:44:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

The father of my son is out of town working. We talked on his work Nextel all week the last time i spoke to him was Thursday in the afternoon. He told me he was going to call me back. He never did... i have called and called and called his Nextel since then. He has to have his cell on for work. Today its like the cell is dead or something. What the hell is going on? No one has talked to him. Im so afraid that he just left and i will never hear from him again. I dont know!!!???

2006-08-14 07:42:53 · 15 answers · asked by ncbutterfly_20 2

Rough outline of situation:
This 18 year old boy I know in Canada.Got a girl pregnant.
Shes 17.This relationship is a problem from the start.Now the girl is pregnant.He was warned he would be dissowned if she got pregnant but he did anyway..(he says he used condoms :/ ) This girl punches him in the face and hangs around with people he doesn't want her to.He thinks she did drugs and made her get a test..now the doctor wants to see her emidiatly.She smokes cigareetes also.At 5 months pegnant the mother wants to get her to have an abortion.The guy is thinking about taking on the responsability of a newborn at 18 years old alone.He has no job and sitts around on videogames/and his computer dialy and is 18 and still in grade 10?
Any ideas about this one..its a biggy..lol

2006-08-14 07:37:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

What does it mean if a guy does'nt spend a lot of time with his girlfriend even when he's not busy and all he does is calls her a lot... they break up for a year and a half and get back together and its basically the same thing but he claims that he's in love with her and wants to marry her someday...

And he buys her crappy gifts and stuff that she does'nt like (even bought her a box of candy on valentines that has nuts in it and she's allergic to them!!!) And this was on there 3rd valentines together

Does it seem like he's just stringing her along?

2006-08-14 07:33:53 · 36 answers · asked by datgagirl87 2

My Husband and I have been married for 2 years. We split for a month because we are still young and I feel my husband is to imature. We have a son who is a year and a half. There is a great opportunity for my husband to start his own bussiness with his brother in L.A. He wants me and my son to go with him and live there in one house with his brother, mother and sister. All of this will be happening by the end of 2006. They dont have any set plans on how we are going to get the leased space a house or even where in L.A we are going to be based. I want to stay with my husband, and I will have family close either way. I want to do what is best for our son. Should I move to L.A with my husband or move back in with my parents?

2006-08-14 07:31:37 · 4 answers · asked by fleur_loser 3

Ok, now I'm not a pervert or a 40-year-old man masturbating at home. I'm 16 and have a serious question. I was thinking can you have consensual sex with some one and then can they go behind your back and tell people you raped them? Will they get away with it? Also if your married to someone and you have sex with your spouse if they don’t say yes to sex is it rape? And if the go to the police and try to get you arrested for rape (even though your there legal spouse) will they get away with it? It’s never happened to me, and I’m not like planning on raping anyone I was just curious. Honest and real answers only please… Thank you!

2006-08-14 07:30:37 · 6 answers · asked by Paul O 2

I Think my girlfriend dosent like me because every time i want to spent time with her she wants to go home.....some other things r happening as well....she never calls me.....she dosent want to talk to me infront of my friends...she dosent want people to know about our relationship.....can u guys help me on how to solve this problem....but most of all i think she dosent like me and she is cheating on me

2006-08-14 07:28:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

He would not take the kids back-to-school shopping.
I asked nicely, said please, offered to paint the trim on the house, changed the oil in his car, and blow him a minimum of three times a week. He STILL wouldn't do it, and I had to. I HATE shopping.
So how do I get even with him?

2006-08-14 07:27:12 · 7 answers · asked by oh kate! 6

2006-08-14 07:25:13 · 14 answers · asked by Michael E 1

my ex went out of the country for the summer and she ended our relationship the first two weeks she got there because some guy that swept her off of her feet, but now she found out he's a jerk and an *** she wants us to give it another try and want me to trust her again. should i?

2006-08-14 07:25:10 · 6 answers · asked by Vince 2

I'm Christian and I want to go to heaven and all..they say to love your neighbor as yourself but when I do that I always get taken advantage of..I've pretty much grown up alone..I also wonder if there is a way I could still be nice without getting taken advantage of?? How could I achieve this?

2006-08-14 07:19:53 · 32 answers · asked by Yuri ^_^ 5

If so explain the situation and how you delt with it.



I have been cheated on a year ago and i still cant forget about it

2006-08-14 07:17:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my boyfriend spend a lot of money.. we dine out everday.. we both wear brand name clothes a lot..and spend a lot of money on junk.. well he is always use to spoiling me and buy me expensive things..and the other week he promised me he would buy me these shoes i wanted..so the day came and he didnt buy it for me. so i got kinda disapointed..and then i told him..and then we went to go buy it but after that he started yelling at me .. "Im not going to buy you anything for a long time.. this isnt cheap..you know im barely makign any money and you make me buy you stuff..blalh blah".. i felt really bad and wanted to return them..i mean..hes never like this and im not a gold digger..but isnt that kinda over board..well we talked about it.. and were both going to stop spending a lot of money cuz we dont make a lot any more..but wasnt that kinda overboard.. it made me see his cheap side..but also like.. when you buy something for someone you want to make them feel happy righT?..

2006-08-14 07:09:56 · 11 answers · asked by girl 1

Hey well we were just hanging out drinking, and he must have put something in my drink because I got all numb, and couldn't move even though I was still awake. He then turned me over, and proceded to stick his penis in my butt. After that he stuck some kind of electric thing in my *** that caused me to get an erection, then he proceded to ride me until I came in his butt. Again, there wasn't anything I could do since I couldn't move. I just don't know what to do now. I don't know how I'm supposed to go to the police, and say I was raped by him. Also, how the hell am I gonna explain it to my girl that my best friend forced me to have sex with him. Someone please help me!!!

2006-08-14 07:04:49 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous