see me and jake well we have been goin out for 1 month and we are serious in love but he lives in fond du lac and i live in oshkosh we both cant drive and our parents wont take us to see eachother but we desperatly need to see eachother really bad. my parents say he has to come to my house but he cant and i cant wait untill one of us drives jake is 16 and i am 15 1/2 help
2006-08-14 08:30:53 · 37 answers · asked by Kristy h 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he doesnt have money and his parents wont give him money plus he had a job but couldnt keep it
2006-08-14 08:42:38 · update #1
were in deep love not just a joke
2006-08-14 08:44:03 · update #2
WELL HE DIDNT LIKE THE JOB HE HAD HE DOESNT ACT HIS AGE. WELL I DONT EITHER.
2006-08-14 08:52:48 · update #3
ALSO HE DOESNT HAVE MANY FRIENDS
2006-08-14 08:53:53 · update #4
Perhaps this is your parents and Jake's parents way to either say 'take it slow' or that they do not feel that you are right for each other....
Perhaps you need to talk with your parents and find out why they won't drive you and Jake do the same with his parents... You may find out that if you chat on-line or by phone for a little while longer and keep up (or improve) your/his grades that both sets of parents will be willing to cooperate in transporting you to him (& vice versa) in a few more weeks...
Lastly, remember that "distance makes the heart grow fonder" so don't be surprised if one you you drops the other like a hot potatoe once you are able to frequently visit...
2006-08-14 08:40:12 · answer #1 · answered by Nitrox Frogy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You THINK you are deeply in love. You will discover later you were not. If I were you I would enjoy some good phone time, and get to know each other . I'm sure you think both sets of parents are being tough, But at this point there is nothing either of you need to be doing without the presence of some parents. Slow down, it will work out. I know I sound like an old fart to you, but it is true. i have a pretty good idea of "why"
you need to see each other and, all I can say is no sex is safe sex!! FOR REAL! You don't need anymore responsibilty than you have already.
2006-08-14 08:41:03 · answer #2 · answered by iceberg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I could say something better, either you tough it out and wait, or you break it off. What your parents say, should go. My boyfriend and I are 15.5 to 20 hours away from each other, and we won't see each other until my prom this upcoming May, if not, it could be a few years before we actually see each other in person. If he loves you, he'll wait to meet you, if he can't then maybe he's not worth the time.
2006-08-14 08:34:46 · answer #3 · answered by roverriffer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your parents wont take you to him but what about you both meeting at the mall or at the house of a mutual friend. If not don't cry over it, you are both young, I know for a fact you will find love again
2006-08-14 08:37:47 · answer #4 · answered by toobadfaya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're both too young to even know what love is. Your parents know what they are doing. You are just experiencing the effects of a hormone imbalance. It is NOT love, and would only get you into trouble. Give yourselves time. If it's really love, you can wait 4 or 5 years.
2006-08-14 08:37:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, at your age? In love?
NO NO NO.
True, to you, it feels like love. But it's not. In 20 years you will ask yourself what in the heck you were thinking. But, for now, find a bf that is closer, that your parents approve of, and then tell us you are in love again.
lol.
Trust me, in 20 years, you can talk about love. Well, maybe 5-7 years.
2006-08-14 08:37:06 · answer #6 · answered by powhound 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your too young to be worrying, you aren't serious in love after only one month, you are both just desperate teens and your parents are loving individuals and want him to come to your house so they can get to know him. They are concerned for your safety. Maybe you and him should plan a date where both of your families are chaperoning so they can get to know the other side and then feel more comfortable about letting you two be together.
2006-08-14 08:36:20 · answer #7 · answered by Rae 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't you take a bus? ask another relative. God I remember those days I used to have the same problem. But he lived about 15 minutes away so we would meet each other half way by walking :)
2006-08-14 08:34:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i wouldnt move real fast in a relationship but i kinda had the same thing happen with me and a guy i dated what i did is i gradutuly slowy just talked to him alot on the phone and if maybe u sit down with your parents and have a mature conversion about either his parents picking you up or your parents taking you over there maybe they might give in but you have to compormise they are your parents you know plus both of you guys are soon getting your licesnces
2006-08-14 08:38:48 · answer #9 · answered by problem child 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in rememberance of those days, take a bus is one way, a cab, bike, various other types of public transit. You could ask a relative or a friend who CAN drive to pick him up.
Just remember that your parents are only trying to protect you from getting hurt. We men are bastards, it's true.
2006-08-14 08:36:18 · answer #10 · answered by matt_tarwater 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋