My Boyfriend and I live together, for a year now. We love each other, we're always together, now this girl from his past , who lives far away, started Text messaging and calling him, at all hours,
she'll write "sweet dreams" etc...
I havent discussed it with him, I know that I tend to get jealous, but I can't help but feel like she's trying to flirt with my man!
Help! should I talk to him, or will that make it worse?
2006-08-14 08:12:07 · 7 answers · asked by chicky 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My thought is that he has no control over what SHE does...but he does have control over what HE does. He should be telling her that he's in a committed relationship and her messages and calls are inappropriate. I would suggest letting him know that you see it as disrespectful on her end (assuming he's told her about you) and see what he says. If there is nothing to worry about he'll put a stop to it out of respect for you! Best of luck to you hon! I hope it works out for you!
2006-08-14 08:23:46 · answer #1 · answered by Joeygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should talk to him about it, but try to come of in a good way, and not all mad, although i would be jealous to because come on, a text that says sweet dreams that is not right. I mean how would he feel if your ex was texting you that stuff? But as long as she does not come back into town, I would say everything is okay for now. good luck hope everything works out!
2006-08-14 15:23:47 · answer #2 · answered by blinkdan04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's totally flirting with him and may be trying to simply make you jealous. Many women are so silly with their catty games like this. On the other hand, you're living with a guy who's not committed to you officially so what do you expect? I know it's really absurd - but commitment does make a difference.
2006-08-14 15:26:18 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is flirting with him. If she lives far away, try not to worry too much. If she comes back, you got a problem.
2006-08-14 15:18:49 · answer #4 · answered by sheeny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is texting her back then he obviously isnt think about what he is doing. If i was in your situation I would tell him about it get the actual facts from him but still watch him and see his actions. you should trust the person you love completely.
2006-08-14 15:22:24 · answer #5 · answered by fleur_loser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with out tellin him say u 2 broke up n tell her that so n u ask her if she is coming on 2 him n if she is whoop both there a**es
2006-08-14 15:25:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't like it. I'd want it stopped or else.
2006-08-14 15:25:26 · answer #7 · answered by anitababy.brainwash 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋