Should I move to L.A or stay where I am now?

Question

My Husband and I have been married for 2 years. We split for a month because we are still young and I feel my husband is to imature. We have a son who is a year and a half. There is a great opportunity for my husband to start his own bussiness with his brother in L.A. He wants me and my son to go with him and live there in one house with his brother, mother and sister. All of this will be happening by the end of 2006. They dont have any set plans on how we are going to get the leased space a house or even where in L.A we are going to be based. I want to stay with my husband, and I will have family close either way. I want to do what is best for our son. Should I move to L.A with my husband or move back in with my parents?

Answer 1

i think you should stay with your parents until he gets everything in order then you can move with him in LA your married living with him his mom brother and who ever else doesn't make any sense go when he can put you and your child in your own home where you can be comfortable

Answer 2

Well what you need to do is provide some sort of stability for your son. If you are not sure about the lease then that sounds unstable and moving in with your mother until your husband get it together might be the best idea for you and your child. This is also very difficult because you want to support your husband but your child should come before all of you and when the time is right to move in together than you will know.

Answer 3

I think before he carries you and his son along, he should get every thing straighten out in LA. Cause it will be sad for all of you to go there and there is no set plan.

Answer 4

If you don't try to stay together, your family will disintegrate. go there and give it a try, but keep the other option open.