The father of my son is out of town working. We talked on his work Nextel all week the last time i spoke to him was Thursday in the afternoon. He told me he was going to call me back. He never did... i have called and called and called his Nextel since then. He has to have his cell on for work. Today its like the cell is dead or something. What the hell is going on? No one has talked to him. Im so afraid that he just left and i will never hear from him again. I dont know!!!???
2006-08-14 07:42:53 · 15 answers · asked by ncbutterfly_20 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
DO U THINK THEY WOULD CONTACT ME IF SOMETHING WAS WRONG???
2006-08-14 07:49:14 · update #1
i DONT KNOW HIS BOSS -- HE DOESNT HAVE ANY FRIENDS-- I CALLED HIS NANNY SHE HASNT HEARD FROM HIM
2006-08-14 07:51:41 · update #2
Don't panic. Try and reach his friends if any. They may know his whereabouts. Leave messages around for him. Might just be a simple explanation. Has he threatened or shown signs of wanting to leave? Even if he does it is not the end of the world. You were existing before you met him.
2006-08-14 07:50:01 · answer #1 · answered by violeo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is possible that he lost the phone or he is out of range. It is possible that the battery crapped out and won't recharge, or he forgot the charger. It is possible that he is injured or sick. It is possible that he is having extracurricular activities or has run off on you.....
There are a number of possibilities. Give him some more time to get a hold of you, and calmly ask him what happened to him. If a week goes by and you don't hear from him, contact the authorities and file a missing person's report.
If he shows up and has a thin excuse, than you need to talk child support and ask him to leave.
Try to have faith in your relationship first, and give him a chance. If your gut tells you otherwise, or is he turns this back around on YOU, as if YOU did something wrong....then he is a liar and you can do better. People blame others for their lies, to justify it to themselves, so be calm and watch closely.
Good luck and take care!
2006-08-14 14:58:42 · answer #2 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men don't think the worst but be prepared for it. If he was clsoe to his son he will be back give him time depending on where he was the nextel might not work of the phone might have malfunctioned contact his family and go from there. You may need to contact the police if he does not surface soon,.
2006-08-14 14:49:50 · answer #3 · answered by MISSREBEL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, do not panic. there's probably a good explanation for why the cell phone is dead...probably you're right in thinking the cell phone battery has died, or maybe he lost his cellphone or maybe it's been damaged...Just give it some more time and try contacting his friends or colleagues at work and find out where he's been. More importantly, why should these doubts of him not speaking to you cross your mind?Did you have a fight?
2006-08-14 14:49:25 · answer #4 · answered by cradle2resurrection 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe his phone died, or maybe he got in trouble for taking too many personal calls. If he doesn't show up or call by tonight, I would contact the police and file a missing persons report. Good luck and I will be praying for you.
2006-08-14 14:48:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him caller id blocked, ask him what's going on . check with nextel, put in a trouble report on the number, they will tell if they don't see a problem.
2006-08-14 14:54:15 · answer #6 · answered by sllyjo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call his boss and let him know that it is very important that you get ahold of him...if he knows where he is he will give you the number. If you still can't get a hold of him, chances are something is not right...get off of here and start to look for him.
2006-08-14 14:51:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it possible something happened to his phone? Granted he could still have called you from a land line. Something could've happened to him...It is kinda weird but you shouldn't asume he has left you. You should be able to trust him. Maybe he has just been too busy or tired or something. Just hang in there and see what happens. I wish you the best.
2006-08-14 14:50:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should make a missing person report just in case.
2006-08-14 14:48:33 · answer #9 · answered by ebertlove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police if you suspect foul play
2006-08-14 14:47:09 · answer #10 · answered by evasive_eyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋