My bf wants to move away. Due to certain circumstances he does not want to stay any longer. I have one more year of school. In which I decided to go to like a homeschool so I could graduate early and leave with my bf. Regular school just started today and my mom decided now to tell me that she wanted to see me graduate in a real graduation. Due to my circumstances and things that happened in the past. I don't want to do that. However, I also don't think I want to move away with my bf to the place that he is going to. I don't see much for me there. I was offered by other family members to go live with them in another state and go to school there. They will buy me a car and help me out with a lot. But, I love my bf so much and we've been through so much together. I don't want to leave him but that would be selfish. I don't know what to do. I've tried so hard to be true to myself and do what it is I truely want to do but I no longer know what that is. Follow my heart of follow my brain?
2006-08-14 08:16:22 · 7 answers · asked by Beans 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ever heard the old expression, "Can't see the forest for the trees"? Well, that describes you. If you read your question as though it were written by someone else, you would see that the question contains the answer.
You repeatedly said, it is wiser for you to finish school and worry about your boy friend later. Take your own advice. Why do I get the feeling your boy friend is running from the law or other responsibilities?
Stay home girl, finish your school then consider your next move. Has your boy friend always run from his problems? He will do the same with you.
Vaya con DIOS
2006-08-14 08:27:36 · answer #1 · answered by chrisbrown_222 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My younger sister graduated early and through home schooling. She missed out on a lot. Graduateing with your class is a great experience and something I am grateful I did. My younger sister was happy she graduated early but was sorry that she missed out on graduateing with her class. I am always ruled by my heart but, haveing done that I have had made many mistakes in my life that I really wish I had only used my brain. I think right now you need to focus on what will make your future expand and give you the best options in life. The purpose of life is to be happy yes, but in my experience i thought I loved the person so much but when I distanced myself from them, i had never really loved them at all. If you see a dead end with your BF then dont go. Maybe you can try to keep a long distance relationship to see if it really is love. In my own personal oppinions and experiences I would take the help my family has given me, they will always be there for you and look out for you and help you when you fall, plus it will help stabalise your future, you are still young and have many many opportunities available to you. I was stupid and didnt take those opportunitys and now I am not able to get them again. Use your brain first it gets you in less trouble lol.
2006-08-14 08:34:09 · answer #2 · answered by fleur_loser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will put it to you this way....I didnt follow my heart and I regrett it! The reason I didnt follow my heart was to gain for what I needed and had to do, now that the mission is accomplished,if I could go back and do it all over again, I would of followed my heart, losing him is taking away from enjoying what I thought I had to do at the time to have, when I could of done the same thing moving with him.
2006-08-14 08:34:43 · answer #3 · answered by brite star 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
three choices here is what i see:
1. stay in school like you mother suggested
2. stay with your family members
3, your wiser than you give your self correct for. don,t think you are be selfish your not. you have to do what is right for you. bottom line. You have to look out for #1 that's you. go with your brain till you are out of school it is important that you stay and finish, it is hard out in the real world without your diploma.
Good luck and i hope you do the right thing.
2006-08-14 09:01:27 · answer #4 · answered by RAINBOW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should follow your brain. If your bf is leaving you what makes you think you're that special to him that he won't stay near you if he really loved you? Let him go and go on with your life. Be a strong independent woman. Depend on you and no one else.
2006-08-14 08:23:13 · answer #5 · answered by gemone523 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you have to make the choice, your heart makes choices about what your feeling at the time, and your brain makes choices using logic and reson, so, connect the 2 and feel and think your way through.... hope i helped.......
2006-08-14 08:29:38 · answer #6 · answered by Leesh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart
2006-08-14 08:23:22 · answer #7 · answered by SenSored 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋