Other - Family & Relationships - 14 August 2006

I need advice, on this: after finding out from his ex girlfriend that he had been cheating with hookers, i kicked (now) ex and his 14 y o son out of my house. This was a few weeks ago. So, tonight i'm going through porn on my computer(that i knew there) and find some illegal kiddie porn that was (according to the properties) downloaded while i was at work on july 6. I called him and confronted him and he lied(just like he did about the hookers after i had proof) i dont know what to do because drugs also come into the picture. I know if i call the police, he can, and will ruin my career and possibly my life by telling of our using drugs. But, he is a sick o and I am freakin out. The ex-girlfriend warned me about this as well (that was another reason for making him leave) but, now that the proof is right here before my eyes ( and on my computer nonetheless) my head is reeling. i dont want to make any irrational choices so i figured i'd ask for some advice????

2006-08-14 22:01:24 · 8 answers · asked by freakin 1

I've been in a relationship with this guy for nearly 4 months now (AMAZINGLY LONG - for me anyways) and i've lost my virginity to him, met his mum (SCARIEST THING I'VE EVER HAD TO DO - because they're so close) and genrally been perfect girlfriend material ie. never ask anything of him, support him through everything, listen to his worries, help him when he's feeling down, put up wih it with a big smile on my face when me and him are spending time together and all his friends show up. and i mean he makes me feel appreciated and i know he would do anything for me cause he's told me so a hundred times and he treats me like a princess. But last night when i asked him to meet my parents he was sort of like 'ummmmmm.....ok' then said he felt pressured, but he's told me before that he want to meet them. He said he'll do it cause he loves me but he doesn't really want to. should i just cancel it? And am i really being unfair??

2006-08-14 22:00:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it wrong being lesbian,sometime I want to be streight,but I can't because I love girls.Is it posible to change from gay to streight?

2006-08-14 21:54:54 · 19 answers · asked by Sandra 1

2006-08-14 21:39:53 · 11 answers · asked by superman 1

2006-08-14 21:36:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

funny or serious, soppy or lovely stories of your birthday. My 21st was really cool. I was holidaying on Mallorca and had a big outdoor party with friends from France, Spain, Germany, Belgium, Italy, UK, Ireland, Holland, South Africa and Switzerland. We all got along great, went swimming in the sea, danced all night and I'll never forget it. everyone brought something to eat from their country and had a good time. today is special too. as my bf who is very reserved and chooses cards very carefully, has given me a card full of love messages and hearts. he's blown me away!

2006-08-14 21:29:52 · 22 answers · asked by minerva 7

Kind of random but seriously were you ever just into it and everything was just perfect n then all of a sudden your boyfriend cums and you don't haha n then all he wants to do is sleep lol

2006-08-14 21:24:58 · 9 answers · asked by prettyeyez27 1

Okay Im not going to lie, I put up an anti-Gay website on myspace saying it is a sin and teenagers are being brainwashed by girls kissing girls is orgasmic signs that are all over myspace and i was going into it..

And this one girl said he was raped from age 5 to age 10 and turned into a les, and her rapist was a freind of her parents (horrible parents..imo) and she never told anyone . now i know...

Even tho her parents dont talk to the rapist anymore for whatever reason, I am assuming they still know his contact details.

I am very angry, and very sickened by this, And i think the rapist should be tourted for 5 years and then murdered, If it was my daughter i would murder him regardless of punishment. She is 14 now, And is planning on commiting suicide.

I am planning on calling the police as early as now i know the town she lives in (i think..i didnt memorize her profile) and i can get the police number and report this.. My SN for yahoo is poop45543,

2006-08-14 21:02:14 · 10 answers · asked by Hello 1

2006-08-14 21:02:11 · 23 answers · asked by .? 1

2006-08-14 20:43:18 · 9 answers · asked by malcom 3

we r going for dinner,in a hotel and i wanna make it special to her though there is no occasion.
shall i get her some choclates,or roses or a perfume or body care products?
what do u think?

2006-08-14 20:36:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why is it that some women always take back there husbands or boyfriends who have cheated on them? Is it low self esteem, what?
I know a girl who's husband has cheated on her many times, even had a baby with someone else, but she always takes him back. In her eyes he can do no wrong? why?

2006-08-14 20:30:25 · 11 answers · asked by Princess 3

Just wondering so DONT catch an attitude!

2006-08-14 20:22:30 · 7 answers · asked by ~Lucky_Gurl~ 1

well a long time ago i told my girlfriend i love her and she didnt say any thing 2 me till the next day i got a message from her say that she loves me 2. months went on and she always telling me how much she loves me and she writes me poems all the time about her love for me. but when we r around ppl she doesnt act liek it or hides it. so i asked her y she does stuff like that and after a long time talking 2 her i found out she doesnt love me but she wants 2 be with me and she told me 2 give her time and she will love me. but after going all that time thinking she loved me and finding out she didnt its hurts so bad like my heart got torn out and jumped on i dont no wat 2 do!

2006-08-14 20:22:25 · 8 answers · asked by Mr.PERU 1

when i see to girls HAVING SEX it turns me on... but im too scared to do it with a female.. i want to but maybe i just want to try it to see whats its like, maybe it might not even be my thing.... or maybe i just want to try something different.. HELP ME UNDERSTAND

2006-08-14 20:15:52 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

When i confront him he gives me meaningless excuses

2006-08-14 20:14:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

(and no, i don't mean fantasizing about a pillow over the face.)

2006-08-14 20:13:23 · 6 answers · asked by pyg 4

my woman is turned on very much with the fantasies of her having sex with different men but when she feels it is getting more serious she gets upset and her heart is broken. Do you really think a woman feels insulted by such an offer.

2006-08-14 20:12:33 · 5 answers · asked by bahadir a 1

please guys im counting on you answer me cause i really want to know im desparate..

2006-08-14 20:03:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-14 19:55:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex is on my mind constantly, and its driving me insane. I met her at disneyland and fell in love with her right away watching her comfort my little 5 year old cousin who was scared of the ride, and went out with her for six to nine months without ever seeing her more than the 5 minutes i did that very same day we met. All the anticipation built up from promises that id see her someday again, and dreaming and fantasizing about finally seeing her, and it never went away. After about nine more months, I started dating my current girlfriend who ive been with for over ten months now. After I had dated my new gf for 6 months, I saw my ex on a trip to disneyland for about five hours or more, and I didnt do anything but talk to her a lot, and just hang out, because i love my new gf, and dont want to do anything to upset her. Even though I feel that i will never part with my new gf, I still feel the need to have that face to face time i never had with her (especially a kiss...). Help...

2006-08-14 19:52:05 · 7 answers · asked by Brian H 2

He asked me almost every day if I would marry him (for a month). He asked if we should be together when we picked it out and I said yes. He has asked me what size I wear but nothing and no word of when we're going to "pick it out". He was away for a month for work and since he's been back he has only mentioned it 1-2 times.

What do you think?

2006-08-14 19:51:57 · 7 answers · asked by PlasticTrees 2

My friend and I have been besties for 16 years. She has always had problems keeping a man bc she is very possessive and insecure. Her most recent bf has just ended their relationship after 15 months (she is 28 and b4 this bf her longest relationship was 5 months long). He is an international student with no intentions of staying here in australia and his family has no intentions of allowing him to marry her. He has always treated her very badly and she has cried more often than not during the entire relationship. He is an absolute creep! Since they broke up 2 weeks ago, he has visited her twice which has led them to the bedroom. The morning after he tells her that he hopes she doesnt think it means they are getting back together and i am left picking up the pieces. I also know that should he call again, she would see him in a heart beat! I am wondering if there is anyone who has had a friend like this and what have you said to snap them out of this destructive cycle? i am at a loss!

2006-08-14 19:50:05 · 4 answers · asked by lila 2

please guys im counting on you answer me cause i really want to know im desparate..

2006-08-14 19:49:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was friends with this girl and she had a husband who cheated on her. She told me how great of a guy i was and wanted me if she ever left him. She got back with him. Went back to using drugs after 2 years clean... And I still love her...Why does she always say she'll be there when no she won't talk too me ? I had this other find contact her cus I thought the 1st one iggied me to say I was sorry .. they got in a hugh fight.. Now my other friend wrote too her " I don't care about him " and The 1st friend sent me the email..
My Question is why do the ones we love toy with are feelings saying they are your friend and then Like that over night you are nothing tooo then and the stop caring about you like your worthless... Please HELP...

2006-08-14 19:45:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-14 19:37:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm fifteen years old. I have a boyfriend who is black and white but mostly black. I'm white. My family isn't racist but they have a problem with interracial relationships. They don't make our relationship easy. We break up a lot over my family not letting me see him. I love him but I don't know what to do about my family. How would you handle my situation?

2006-08-14 19:35:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend is just bein so mean to me hes a very caring and luving person but he just be so mean to me i be tellin him stuff because i dont have nobody else t talk to so i tell him but when he gets mad at me he turns around and say "O I DIDNT BELIEVE HALF OF ALL THAT STUFF U TOLD ME ANYWAY" I really have a lot of stuff on my mine that i really need to talk to him about but i cant because he wont believe me i rally do luv this boy so please somebody out here give me some kind of advise plz ......................

2006-08-14 19:34:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Mine would be.

1-Vietnamiese women
2-Philipino women
3-Thai women
4-Japanese women
5-Cambodian women

2006-08-14 19:25:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

do u care about personality or boobs and butt

2006-08-14 19:18:32 · 11 answers · asked by jessie 3