Why is it that some women always take back there husbands or boyfriends who have cheated on them? Is it low self esteem, what?
I know a girl who's husband has cheated on her many times, even had a baby with someone else, but she always takes him back. In her eyes he can do no wrong? why?
2006-08-14 20:30:25 · 11 answers · asked by Princess 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's not really that he can't see he hasn't done her wrong. It probably (and more often) is about her thinking he will change someday slowly, or she thinks she can change him to become a better man for her. Some women (and men too) have this in their minds. This is true psychology of the human mind. What this people don't understand is that you can't teach an old dog new tricks, meaning change doesn't happen unless that person will make the effort to want to change for himself. You should advise the girl you know to seek a psychologist. She is better off without him, a man like that is very impossible to change.
2006-08-14 20:42:06 · answer #1 · answered by jeni_love_12 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is very complicate question to answer, but I'll try!
Women, actually some of them take back their husbands back, after cheating, cause they feel spacial when they come back to them! Even that their husbands was with other women they come back cause other women is not that good as real one. She doesn't cook, wash laundry, take care of children, she is just for sex. So the wife knows who is the right women and that is why she feels special. Also she is afraid that she can't find any better man then her husband!
2006-08-14 20:44:27 · answer #2 · answered by lejla m 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because someone at some point in her life taught her (subconsciously) that her role in life is to be a VICTIM. She also probably experienced ABUSE as a child/teen and although on some level she knows what he is doing to her is wrong...it is familiar and so she stays. It is a vicious cycle. And lastly because she feels she in UNWORTHY of experiencing anything better in life.
So sad huh? People in this role rarely get out.
I would wish her the best of luck,
But if Luck came to her door,
She'd probably tell it it was at the wrong house.
2006-08-14 21:01:49 · answer #3 · answered by Ponderpink 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women are more intense in their feelings. The main reason a woman remains with the man in spite of being cheated, is that they think they love that person and no one else can replace him.
2006-08-14 20:40:43 · answer #4 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because those type of men can brain wash a woman. And the woman are stupid enough to fall into there trap every time. They must like the drama in all that.
2006-08-14 20:55:40 · answer #5 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Usually cheaters have a lot of charisma, charm and confidence and most women find that irresistible, to the point of hurting themselves. I know, it's sad, but they need to have more confidence.
2006-08-14 20:51:47 · answer #6 · answered by caramel_angelkiss 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask nature? Everyone sees differently, feels differently, have their own values with in values?
Consider it from this point: If she truly believes in GOD, when stands before her GOD, how will GOD judge her forgiveness?
Not that this is her reason for staying, She has to play her liefs cards according to her feelings, Even Peter denounced Christ say
he did not know Christ! Who has created the greater sin, Peter
or this young lady?
2006-08-14 21:07:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because the one who cheats are usually better hung than the other nice guy. Sorry to say it like that, but it's true.
2006-08-14 20:41:17 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
cuz she really love with him but he does not
2006-08-14 20:45:49 · answer #9 · answered by Akmal Zaidi 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he bangs her good in bed, what more can she asks for?
2006-08-14 20:34:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋