2006-08-14 19:37:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No not at all. Would you prefer he not take care of them? He's going to be in contact with this woman for the rest of his life. Hopefully they'll even manage to get along. This is something that, if you want to be with him, you'll need to learn to accept/tolerate.
2006-08-14 19:40:45 · answer #1 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Before this boyfriend...did you feel jealous whenever a former boyfriend talked about his former girlfriend/s?...or just knowing that he had other girlfriends ...did that make you jealous? I'm assuming that the answers to the above are yes. This is because you feel threatened...not quite sure about where you are on the priority list of your partner. I think it's quite normal- really...but what do you do about it? In this case your jealousy is not appropriate, because you can always get out of this relationship, if you don't like the fact that your boyfriend calls the mother of his children....she isn't only an ex...she is most of all a mother now, who has the right to get phone calls from someone who she produced these kids with. He is after all still their Dad...and you should support his interest in his kids. Don't make it harder as it is. Believe me, the lives of these kids have been thrown upside down enough already....a stressed out and conflicted Dad, because of his girlfriend, is so not what they need right now. Just chill will ya? If he does get back with his wife-...good for the kids. There are other men out there. Have a life away from all this....so you don't obsess about it. Go to the gym and take care of yourself.
2006-08-15 02:58:10 · answer #2 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal to feel that way as once apon a time they loved and cared for eachother. All relationships first must be based on trust of eachother. He has to talk to her concerning the children in common that they have. They're his kids too. Talk to him about your fears and hopefully he can put your worries to rest and you both can continue a positive trusting bond. After all the only thing jealousy can get you is alone.
2006-08-15 02:51:52 · answer #3 · answered by Lacy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, honestly i know exactly how you feel cuz i would always get jealous of my b/f calling his x-gf coz of kids. but you know, he is with you now and not her. kids are a big responsibility and he needs to be there for his kids. no child should have to grow up w/o a father. but no worries, its just for the kids and he apparently loves you, not her anymore. he just wants to be there for his kids to make sure that they are raised right and always have what they need.
2006-08-15 02:47:56 · answer #4 · answered by harliquinn_raver_x 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Be happy that he is still being a father to the kids.
2006-08-15 03:11:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no actually thats a good thing for the sake of the kids if it's something you can't accept you dont need to be with him
2006-08-15 02:44:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes...if you are now merit with him means that you have same responsibility with his kids who are your kids too now and since then you can handle them too no need or excuse to call his ex wife then.
2006-08-15 02:42:18 · answer #7 · answered by Fie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want him to NOT be your boyfriend, I say insecurity and jealousy is the best route.
2006-08-15 02:52:50 · answer #8 · answered by Shadow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you not need to, unless he is putting them in priority than you.
2006-08-15 02:43:57 · answer #9 · answered by Tan D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is y i dont date ppl with kids
2006-08-15 02:42:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋