when i see to girls HAVING SEX it turns me on... but im too scared to do it with a female.. i want to but maybe i just want to try it to see whats its like, maybe it might not even be my thing.... or maybe i just want to try something different.. HELP ME UNDERSTAND
2006-08-14 20:15:52 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Give it a swirl. Worst case scenario will be that you won't like it. In any case, fear and regrets are the two worst things.
2006-08-14 20:17:57 · answer #1 · answered by Phaedrus 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you are very confused, I have known a few girls who feel the same, some even are married and as far as they have told me they haven't tried it with another woman, they just feel that they enjoy seeing girls making love in movies and pictures, and all of them told me that they don't know if they would enjoy it if they experianced it. You don't need to be too scared, because if it is to happen that you have sex to another woman it woudn't be like a goal you are after. To come to that point all the elements have to be there, friendship, trust, attraction, privacy, and sex a result of this. Don't let your feelings confuse you, think of it this way, if one day you meet a girl and it happens it happens and you will descover if you really are into girls. If you really want to try it, you can meet lesbians at a lesbian bar or through a dating website. Don't be afraid of your feelings and don't blame yourslef or think that somthing is wrong with you, just relax and let things fall in place. If you do meet a lesbian girl or bi-sexual girl and become friends and one thing leads to another you can always explain that it is your first time and that you are not sure about it and I am sure the girl will understand how you feel. If you feel you can kiss another girl and if you don't find it disgusting to have oral sex with her, then most probably you are a bi-sexual lady. If you never do it with another girl it could be easier for you to lead a hetrosexual life in practice, but if you make love to another woman and if you enjoy it then it will become very difficult to not want more of it. It is your life and your choice and you are free to decide, it is your business and no one elses. Good luck.
2006-08-14 20:42:24 · answer #2 · answered by rabb b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems for the moment that you're Bicurious, which is a natural thing to be. If this is something that happened to you recently, give it some time. The only person who can answer that question for you is YOU, you don't say how old you are, but you sound like you could be in your mid - teen's. Children are naturally curious {Not calling you a child}, and thinking about sex just comes along with the terriority.
2006-08-14 20:49:29 · answer #3 · answered by ~?~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel like you need to make up your mind right away. You can wait and see if you continue to feel this attraction. If you do, you can explore it slowly; go to a lesbian club and hang out for an evening, or go on a low-key date with a girl. I don't recommend having sex with a woman before you are completely sure what you want, though; even if you are lesbian or bi, it might be too much too fast!
2006-08-14 20:22:07 · answer #4 · answered by llemma 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its very common for people to be curious and experiment with their sexuality, the issue has been really blown out of proportion in my opinion. The whole morality issue is proposed by insular religious groups who basically misread ancient texts. Besides, in Plato's time it was actually normal for men to have young male lovers and all. Peace, love, and rock on girl.
2006-08-14 20:22:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You know what? when I see two girls having sex, it turns me on too. And I also am pretty sure I'm into females more than males. So don't worry about it, its perfectly natural... just follow your instincts.
2006-08-14 20:26:04 · answer #6 · answered by captaincoolbeard 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sahara, it is a normal thing that you feel, women are much pretier than men...so here is what you should do...ask your bf or tell him that you want to do a 3 some, 2 girls and him..he will really like the idea, and even think that you are doing it for him. then you can be with another girl, with him, if you feel uncomfortable, then you can just watch your bf with her, and slowly join in, just touch her a little, here and there, then when you feel more comfortable, which you will, then you can do more, to please yourself, and her, then she will please you too, you will have fun, and learn some new things, and your bf will forever remember you for it too....
2006-08-14 20:23:38 · answer #7 · answered by wizzard 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You might want to take some time and take a step back. Don't rush into anything and educate yourself. Once you feel you are level headed and informed then you are capable of making a decision.
Good Luck
2006-08-14 20:21:19 · answer #8 · answered by Jon H 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for it! I'm a gay man, and I'm glad I gave myself a chance to discover that. Be safe though. Dont do it with someone you meet on the subway or something! Make sure you give yourself a chance to experiment
2006-08-14 20:22:05 · answer #9 · answered by Corey 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-02 02:36:49 · answer #10 · answered by aquino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is perfectly normal to have feelings like this. It doesn't mean you are a lesbian but you find something erotic and want to act on it. As long as its not hurtful to anyone, you should feel free to try it if the situation presents itself.
2006-08-14 20:21:31 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋