I need advice, on this: after finding out from his ex girlfriend that he had been cheating with hookers, i kicked (now) ex and his 14 y o son out of my house. This was a few weeks ago. So, tonight i'm going through porn on my computer(that i knew there) and find some illegal kiddie porn that was (according to the properties) downloaded while i was at work on july 6. I called him and confronted him and he lied(just like he did about the hookers after i had proof) i dont know what to do because drugs also come into the picture. I know if i call the police, he can, and will ruin my career and possibly my life by telling of our using drugs. But, he is a sick o and I am freakin out. The ex-girlfriend warned me about this as well (that was another reason for making him leave) but, now that the proof is right here before my eyes ( and on my computer nonetheless) my head is reeling. i dont want to make any irrational choices so i figured i'd ask for some advice????
2006-08-14 22:01:24 · 8 answers · asked by freakin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
contact the police immediately, what he's done is disgusting and in-human, could you live with yourself if he took it any further? Maybe going as far as molesting someones child, maybe has already. You have proof that's damaging to him, that can and will put him in jail, and frankly I suggest you lie through your teeth about your use of drugs, who would believe a suspected pedophiles word over yours, while I don't condone drug use or lying, I find what he's doing more vile. It's very easy to say that he fabricated the story of your "alleged drug use", to keep you from going to the police.
2006-08-14 22:24:17 · answer #1 · answered by Bayne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is very hard for you I can understand. I would talk to his ex girlfriend ans as k her if she found any thing like this and she what she did about it. She might be able to help you on this. Dont forget every one makes mistakes in thier lives so dont put yourself down at any time. Least you found out which was good. Maybe the best thing to do is forget about him and what he did. The porn on the computer is hard as the police might know about it or they might not. Its hard thing really I know you are worried about the drug thing but Im sure they will understand once you have gone to them (thats if you go). Porn is more of a problem them drug use. Im hoping you will end this drug thing as that is part of him and start a fresh life on your own. Good luck and I hope every thing goes well for you.
2006-08-14 22:10:12 · answer #2 · answered by Pinkflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This man must be reported. What he is doing is illegal. I am sorry but you cannot worry about your situation which will work itself out. He is no tjust watching kiddie porn. AGAIN REPORT HIM. I am a mandated reported, I wish I had the information.
2006-08-14 22:08:21 · answer #3 · answered by victory 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this straight:
A) You have evidence your bf has downloaded kiddie porn
B) You think he is a sicko
C) He will attempt to ruin your career...
D) You want advice on the matter...
DO I REALLY NEED TO SAY IT??
2006-08-14 22:08:32 · answer #4 · answered by byrne4u2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um. Why mess with someone like him in the first place? I lasted like 4 months with someone simular, and I just walked away one day and didn't look back. I think you need to do the same.
2006-08-14 22:16:04 · answer #5 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a clean break...wait 6 months..then spread the word like wild fire!
2006-08-14 22:12:04 · answer #6 · answered by MJFProd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We already have your number and his, the investigation is continuing, please do not leave the area, and do not do anything to the computer, as you will be destroying evidence. Please be advised that several government agencies are involved here, and you will be contacted shortly. My advice to you is to co-operate fully and precisley
2006-08-14 22:16:03 · answer #7 · answered by captcruzer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break off from him
2006-08-14 22:06:42 · answer #8 · answered by ##$SoulStryker$## 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋