2006-08-14 19:55:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
That depends on many things.
1.How old you guys are.
2.What you two believe is right.
3.How easilsy influenced she is.
4.How persuasive you are.
Also.. I don't think you should influence anyone to do anything. You can only suggest to people what you think the right thing is. You shouldn't try to make up the minds of others. It's their own free will to decide for themselves the things they wish to do in life. Not anyone else's.
Just if I were you, try not to force her into anything she doesn't want to do. Ask her if she says no...leave it at that. And if you're not happy with that then either you should wait untill she's ready, or if the realtionship isn't that meaningful to you.. end it. Because there is no point in carrying on in a realtionship where the other partner has completely different views on a subject matter such as sexual activies.
Hope you can find a good and safe way to resolve this issuse between the two of you that meets both of your satisfactions.
Hope I was some help to you.
-Jasmine
2006-08-14 20:05:21 · answer #1 · answered by allyouwishfour 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever had sex with her? You weren't very specific. If you've never had sex together its her bloody choice not yours, how would you feel about something stabbing in and out of you for however long you take. It wont be pleasant for her.
And if you have already had sex and she just doesn't put out when you want to, then stop whining, did you ever think that she'd like to be in the mood when she has sex, and when you demand it it puts her off. Try doing something romantic and see if one thing leads to another naturally. Don't push the point.
2006-08-15 03:03:40 · answer #2 · answered by stormywinter84 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your real good and she enjoys sex with you then maybe you can influence her more. Maybe she wants more attention on her? Maybe she wants more variety? Or maybe she just likes things the way they are. Either way talk to her about it.
2006-08-15 03:01:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you shouldn't influence her to do stuff and you should talk to her and ask what she wants to do and you have to respect what she wants and if you want to do something and she doesn't well then hopefully your ok with that because if your not then that's not good I mean you may have needs and stuff you want but don't do stuff with her and tell her your bored or you not happy because she won't do what you want because if you do that then she may not like that and that kind of thing is selfish and wrong
2006-08-15 03:52:05 · answer #4 · answered by Lucy202 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you most likely haven't pleased her enough to make her want it...if you would take more time pleasing her, and making sure she is enjoying the sex, then she would be asking you for sex all the time,,,thats what my girl does...
2006-08-15 03:15:04 · answer #5 · answered by wizzard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, thats being over controlling. She'll put out when she wants to, and if she's not enough, dump her for a girl with less standards.
2006-08-15 03:00:13 · answer #6 · answered by roverriffer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if shes been your gf over a year and doesnt always want sex then trheres more of an issue in your relationship then just sex
2006-08-15 02:59:12 · answer #7 · answered by Kittie_Nash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shouldn't influence her into doing anything she doesn't wanna do
2006-08-15 03:00:09 · answer #8 · answered by hellosexymoto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the maturity and beliefs.
2006-08-15 02:57:46 · answer #9 · answered by PlasticTrees 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You pig you...Why does it have to be whenever you want it...Maybe she doesn't want to do it every time you do...And do not make her feel bad when she doesn't...Have a little respect
2006-08-15 03:03:47 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋