well a long time ago i told my girlfriend i love her and she didnt say any thing 2 me till the next day i got a message from her say that she loves me 2. months went on and she always telling me how much she loves me and she writes me poems all the time about her love for me. but when we r around ppl she doesnt act liek it or hides it. so i asked her y she does stuff like that and after a long time talking 2 her i found out she doesnt love me but she wants 2 be with me and she told me 2 give her time and she will love me. but after going all that time thinking she loved me and finding out she didnt its hurts so bad like my heart got torn out and jumped on i dont no wat 2 do!
2006-08-14 20:22:25 · 8 answers · asked by Mr.PERU 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I understand how you feel. Please remember that love must be a 2-way traffic otherwise one party will suffer. Are you prepared to continue the one-way traffic?
If you are not, drop her. There are many others who need your love and attention and can return your love.
Time will heal all wounds!
2006-08-14 20:31:58 · answer #1 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be happy, because you got to know about her true feelings before getting into further attachments and bonds. See the bright side, what if you got married and found out that you two are no longer loving each other? What if you have kids, when you find this bitter truth? So you are lucky by all means, and don’t think this world is lack of woman. A lovely lady is somewhere who will become your lovely wife for life.
2006-08-15 03:30:26 · answer #2 · answered by Kavee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot throw those words about they are the 3 small words that mean the most and if you are not 100% behind them they should not be said
What you do is pick yourself up and you move on and you find someone that cannot live without you
2006-08-15 05:59:10 · answer #3 · answered by nancy_habershon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to say but if she doesn't love you and you have been together a longtime already she probably won't. Just move on. Or take a break from each other maybe she will realize that she really does love you if she is away from you or she will realize it is better not to play with your feelings.
2006-08-15 03:29:18 · answer #4 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should know how you feel.
is it worth pursuing?
if so, suck it up and don't hold old arguments against her. don't keep score until the divorce. lol.
if not, let it go. don't be angry. bad people ruin good people for the rest of us. hate is a wasted emotion.
2006-08-15 03:27:43 · answer #5 · answered by ricky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man thats easy , I found out that my wife didn't really love me .
2006-08-15 03:38:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new girlfriend...
2006-08-15 03:32:02 · answer #7 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make him loose boy and find some other girl.
2006-08-15 03:26:54 · answer #8 · answered by sodomikcroc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋