I was friends with this girl and she had a husband who cheated on her. She told me how great of a guy i was and wanted me if she ever left him. She got back with him. Went back to using drugs after 2 years clean... And I still love her...Why does she always say she'll be there when no she won't talk too me ? I had this other find contact her cus I thought the 1st one iggied me to say I was sorry .. they got in a hugh fight.. Now my other friend wrote too her " I don't care about him " and The 1st friend sent me the email..
My Question is why do the ones we love toy with are feelings saying they are your friend and then Like that over night you are nothing tooo then and the stop caring about you like your worthless... Please HELP...
2006-08-14 19:45:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
K People like Curt there ,,Pleaser don't answer... Just show how people he is
2006-08-14 19:52:42 · update #1
People hurt the people that care about them because...they can. Its quite simple lets say you give a child a toy ball. He plays with it and its fun for a while at least and then he gets bored and just throws it in the toybox knowing he can get it any old time he wants. Its the same way here. What you need to do is just forget about her. If she loves you then she will be with you but in the meantime you have got to stop letting her treat you like **** alright?? Cuz like that little kid, if you take the ball away, he will be wanting it back. Cut off contact with her and she soon will be begging to see you.
2006-08-14 19:49:41 · answer #1 · answered by theblonchic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mostly they are not hurting you, you're hurting yourself. If you didn't care about them they couldn't hurt you right? It wouldn't really matter to you, you'd just be like whatever. However, they are users. They use people to get what they want. This particular case, as the saying goes,"nice guys finish last." She wants be with the one who is a risk, while knowing she has the good guy to fall back on. At least, that's what it seems like to me. As far as why they play games like that, I can only say that I don't think most people know what they want when it comes to things like this. They just go with what seems to be the best thing at the time.
2006-08-14 19:54:43 · answer #2 · answered by socomgoat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she is married, that's probably the reason. You know how miserable her life w/ the husband, and perhaps when you were talking she just wanted symphaty fro msomeone like you. That feeling of yours must be stop before you enter in a big trouble. I know how you wanted to take care of her but you can't do it while she's w/ the husband and you can't do something about it, unless they will devorce, that's the probability but as of now you can't just butt in and be in theie trouble. good luck!!!!
2006-08-14 20:22:32 · answer #3 · answered by jewel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only God will love you no matter what, he never leaves. People will constantly be disappointments, and it hurts. lean on the Lord during this time, and he will lead you the right way. I'm sorry your hurting, it happens to us all, but know this........everything will be ok, put your trust in the lord.
2006-08-14 19:49:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
People do that because you are allowing it to happen.Once they find out you are not one to be "screwed around" (pardon the french lol) they won't toy with your feelings.
2006-08-14 19:49:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ACTUALLY IF YA THINK ABOUT IT, IT'S NOT THAT THEY ALWAYS HURT US IT'S IF WE DIDN'T CARE OR LOVE THEM THEN IT WOULDN'T HURT WHEN THEY DO OR SAY SOMETHING NOT NICE. IF IT WAS A RANDOM STRANGER OR AN ACCQUANTANCE IT WOULDN'T MATTER.
2006-08-14 19:54:41 · answer #6 · answered by Work-N-Hrd-2-Mk-It 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cos we expect too much from our loved ones. Dont expect much. You will be more happy.
2006-08-14 19:48:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
human nature
2006-08-14 19:47:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they love you too.
2006-08-14 19:48:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop loving people and you wont get hurt.....
2006-08-14 19:58:35 · answer #10 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋