I got drugged, and raped, by my best friend. What should I do?

Question

Hey well we were just hanging out drinking, and he must have put something in my drink because I got all numb, and couldn't move even though I was still awake. He then turned me over, and proceded to stick his penis in my butt. After that he stuck some kind of electric thing in my *** that caused me to get an erection, then he proceded to ride me until I came in his butt. Again, there wasn't anything I could do since I couldn't move. I just don't know what to do now. I don't know how I'm supposed to go to the police, and say I was raped by him. Also, how the hell am I gonna explain it to my girl that my best friend forced me to have sex with him. Someone please help me!!!

Answer 1

If you do not go to the police he will feel empowered that he can treat anyone and everyone like this. If you were best friends what do you think he would do to people he was not friends with. You have to report this to the police. Plain and simply, do it now!

Answer 2

I must tell you that I am extremely sorry to hear about your situation and I do trust that you will learn to overcome this situation very soon.

The first thing you should do is to change your description of this person in relation to yourself; he is not your friend. He is a monster, a vampire and a cold blooded murderer going about destroying people. You are not the first person he has damaged and I seriously doubt that you will be the last. So change all you relationship with him. Do not see him again.

Secondly, please develop the courage to do what you said is hard to do that is GO TO THE POLICE and REPORT this situation. If you do not do something about it, he may blackmail you for a long time to come and may make you his victim. Next, by going to the police your victory will be starting.
Next, please go and see a counselor to talk with and get some positiveness in yourself. this is very traumatic and so you need to have a positive self building pro gramme.
Finally, remember that you are a real person whose privacy has just been invaded. For the next ten days, tell yourself one good thought each morning and remember, you are your best friend.

Answer 3

Don't tell your girlfriend. Go to the police immediately. Retain your clothing, especially your underpants you were wearing on the night and any tissues etc., you may have used after he left. Have no pity on him. He is not a friend, he is an animal. Save all these things for forensic analysis including any cup or glass he may have used. It is rape and inexcusable as it would be if you were a woman. You have been violated and your ex-friend deserves to go to prison for doing it. If you don't, he will continue with gained confidence and God only knows what might happen next time, the victim could end up dead............... Do it..........

Answer 4

Rape is a rape is a rape is a rape. I don't care who's participating (man or woman), but you have been violated in the most personal way you could ever think about. Going to police now shouldn't even be a consideration, I am surprised you haven't done it right away. In addition to rape, he drugged you, which, as I believe, is another felony.

As for the question how you could ejaculate against your will, that's perfectly understandable. He must have used the falloimmitator to massage your erogenous zone which is located close to your prostate. You didn't have to like it, but the body is just reacting to physical stimuli.

Answer 5

This sounds like someone describing something they were curious about and wanted to try, but were afraid of liking or admitting they even thought about it.
It sounds like a pretty elaborate plan for someone who is supposed to be your friend.
How come you don't speak about feelings of being violated or betrayed by your best friend? How come you don't feel like you were at fault? Why are you not concerned about being given a STD? Why are you not talking about the pain and degradation of being forced?
Most rape victims seem to feel that way, and have difficulty describing the details.....they are too horrified.
You have described yourself as a helpless victim, but your story lacks credibility because you don't mention how wronged you feel. You seem more concerned about how others will see you as if you are ashamed of trying something new. And how could you get an erection and ejaculate if you were not aroused?
YOU ARE OK. Just because guys think about what does it for gays about same-sex encounters, DOES NOT MAKE THEM GAY.
ALL PEOPLE ARE BI-CURIOUS. Some even have the courage to go there. It does not make them gay. Gay is when you're EXCLUSIVELY attracted to the same sex. Most are too afraid ir ashamed to go there, or even admit to any curiosity.
Please forgive me if you were forced, and living any horror. I am not trying to minimize that. I happen to know about many investigations into rape, or "rapes" and sexual enocounters where people "feel raped" and have elaborate stories that illustrate where they were "forced"......
If you were forced, I would think you would feel too betrayed to have anything further to do with this guy, and you would go through the legal system to seek justice. You would not feel bad about what your girlfriend, if you were an innocent victim.
Only you and this guy know what really happened. If it was force, then get justice. If it wasn't force, and you are too ashamed to admit it, just keep it between you two.
If you do like guy-guy sex, it diesn't make you gay, just normal. You could incorporate anal into your sex life with your woman. ALL guys come equipped with a prostate gland, which is like a woman's G-spot, and you could explore the benefits of that and your orgasms with her.

Answer 6

First of all let me tell you this is not the place to seek help. You need to talk to a professional because this is going to drive you nuts if you let it. You can choose to report this and deal with what comes or you can pretend it never happened and stay away from this so-called friend. You could also wait for him somewhere and beat the crap out of him. But you have to find someone to talk to. It doesn't matter that you're a guy, you were hurt and violated and it wasn't your fault. Good luck sweetie.

Answer 7

Try it first with your girl. Tell her how much you love her and say something horrible happened to you. Guys can be raped too. It is not your fault. She should understand. When you get to the point that you can tell her, ask if she would go to the cops with. You will need the support from her. If you do not get support from someone you will not be able to tell anyone in authority. Your "friend" needs to be punished for this. I totally understand how you feel. And if you do not tell someone you would regret it for a long time. Do not confront your "friend" about this only your girl and the cops. I wish you a lot of luck in this and hope your "friend" will get what is coming to him. He is scum.

Answer 8

properly, because you already enable her down with the aid of no longer telling someone she drinks and also you've perhaps instructed her mothers and fathers and they could have were given her help and this wouldn't have surpassed off. So now, you owe it to her to inform your college counselor and to telephone the police non emergency style from a pay telephone and tell them. it is purely too previous using inform her mothers and fathers at this aspect, in the adventure that they have not noted shes a drinker with the aid of now, they suck as mothers and fathers. Get her actual help with the aid of doing like I stated. in the different case once you're in college she will be in a position to be on a street nook tradind sex for booze and medicines. And once you've children and a husband she will be in a position to be in penal complex and the youngsters she had with diverse adult men will be in custody of the state. And once you've grandkids, she will be in a position to be lengthy useless and buried. and also you'll favor you had finished the right component ans instructed the counselor and the police.

Answer 9

First off I would go to the hospital and explain to the Dr. what happened. They will call the police and do a rape kit on you to see if you have any fluids in your body. You have to tell them. As for the girlfriend you have to tell her. however she takes it she takes it. there's nothing you can do about it. But please go to the emergency room and have yourself checked. Make sure that he didn't physically hurt you or infect you with something. you may also opt for some counseling. good luck.

Answer 10

If this story is true and wasn't consensual at all, go to the police, ask the support from family o counselling and get rid of this kind of friends> They might think you liked it