Other - Family & Relationships - 8 July 2006

He says he loves me and he wants to be with me, but he's afraid his children will hate him and he's afraid to leave his wife for they have been married for almost 26 years and he doesn't want to leave her to fend for herself and the youngest child 16. I know thats excuses, but he would be stepping into the unknown with me being 28 years old and the mother of 3 young children ranging in ages from 2 to 9.I love him and I'm prepared to wait or should I? I'm raising my children and I have no time for men right now or even for a few years so in the mean time I'm going to date, but should I stay in contact and wait?

2006-07-08 16:38:19 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-08 16:37:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do You feel invisible when talking to your teenage kids about anything.? Do you feel that they actually listen or let everything go right out the other ear?

2006-07-08 16:36:33 · 9 answers · asked by Vanessa W 1

2006-07-08 16:30:46 · 14 answers · asked by Chico 2

My mom was 18 when she had , she told me he didn't even signed the birth paper .Now about 18 yrs later he called me, well he called my mom and said he wanted to talk to me.I forgot to mention that he migrated to another country and got married.I also supposedly have a 21 yr old sister (which I met before).Well he called and told my mom that it had been two weeks since he took my sis where he is at , and he wanted to talk to me.It as been one month now and I have not heard a thing from this man , can some one tell me what you think is up ?I had his number saved and when I call he is never there , what do you think I must do?This is very important to me because I don't know what its like to have a father only stepdads which is not easy to live with.Serious answers please.THANK YOU

2006-07-08 16:27:52 · 13 answers · asked by Jachica 3

2006-07-08 16:21:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with a guy for 2 years & when we met I was in a treatment facility completing a 2 yr. program for substance abuse.
I knew that he had some encounters with drugs in the past but he was living a clean life when I met him . After we moved in together he slowely started to drink which occasionally I had no problem with. Since we have been together he has gotten drunk on more than a few occasions getting angry from time to time. He now drinks every weekend not always getting drunk but getting buzzed most of the time. I get angry & resentful. I often wonder if I am overreacting. I suffer from depression / anxiety & lately I have felt worse due to strains on our realationship. He has a stable job & I only work part time right now because I have been taking care of his daughters for the summer while he works. I feel stressed. He doesnt think he is doing anything wrong by drinking since he holds down a job/ pays our bills. Disrespect to my sobriety or what?

2006-07-08 16:18:07 · 8 answers · asked by kitkatrecovery 1

i know this might sound wierd but how do you kiss i think im going to get my first kiss soon and i dont want to look foolish as a 15 year old who doesnt know how to kiss plz help me?!

2006-07-08 16:16:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My older brother is geting married to this girl next week saturday, I've tride to get along with her, but she seems to push me away. I've tride eveything, talking to her, inviting her to dinner, I even made her a cake in april for her birthday, but she seems to try and ignore me, but she only does this when no one is around, when shes with my brother she acts kider towards me. What can I do so she can stop doing this, its really annoying and I'm beggining to dislike her.

2006-07-08 16:10:31 · 21 answers · asked by Lucy R 1

i am in a relationship and I a happy as I want to be in the relationship, but my family doesn't want me to be with him. We barly get to see each other. If I stay with him I am going to hurt but if I leave him I will be hurt even more. So what should I do? I love him

2006-07-08 16:03:07 · 5 answers · asked by anyiahr 1

2006-07-08 15:57:59 · 3 answers · asked by Terry M 1

my boyfriend plays computer with his friends til late at night. i dont want him to play during weekend because it is the only time we could spend together. i have classes during weekdays and we dont get a lot of time because i need to study too. i'm just worried about the time because it's running to fast and we only have 9 more months to be together coz il be migrating next year. P.S (we dont see each other often. maybe only once a month? because nobody knows our relationship.) it's kinda hard for us because we don't see each other though we are just in the same city and yet we only have 9 months to be together and he puts his attention in playing computer. do i have the right to get mad?

2006-07-08 15:57:17 · 7 answers · asked by cubicle 1

This is serious, I wake up so horny, I have a small library of porns that I shift through each morning before I choose a few and begin masterbating for hours. I am not ashamed but after doing this every day for years, I thought I would take a break for awhile, but I can't, these desires are too over whelming and at my age, 72 and being a senior, I am afraid that I'll give myself a heart attack, I typically orgasm 7-9 times a day. Is my behavior normal, am I over reacting, should I just accept my impulses as being natural or seek professional help? Please help....

2006-07-08 15:55:24 · 12 answers · asked by roastbeefin 1

2006-07-08 15:47:45 · 13 answers · asked by Taterz 1

My boyfriend and I been 2gether for 4 years. We have a great relationship and lately we have been talking about having a baby. I'm 27 and he is 29. Right now I'm on the pill and when make love I sometimes tell him not to pull out and he does. When he is about to he pulls out so fast you he makes me think he most don't want to even have a chance I might get pregnant. It looks like we will be 2gether 4ever but I'm so sad that I want a baby, he said he do to but yet b/c we haven't set a date to start trying he have to pull out so fast the way he do. What's the reason for that?

2006-07-08 15:42:25 · 6 answers · asked by Keylove 2

i came home from my friends house and i come in my room a turn on the light and my brother was making out with na guy on my freaking face . seriosly please help i havent been able to look him in the face for 4 days now

2006-07-08 15:30:45 · 33 answers · asked by jamesthehotcheeto 3

2006-07-08 15:28:57 · 28 answers · asked by MzChamillinator 5

how old where u then?
how old are u now?
do you think that you got away with it?

2006-07-08 15:28:53 · 6 answers · asked by freakinjonathan 1

All the girls at my school go for the class clowns.. would this eveuntually stop

2006-07-08 15:27:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm so embarrassed, ashamed, and humiliated. I introduced him to my sister. I used to date his best friend. I love my sister and I love him too. What should I do and how do I tell her. He already knows and wants to keep the baby; this will be his first child. My sister has two children from a previous relationship.

2006-07-08 15:25:32 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you find yourself secretly wanting to reach out and spank the living day lights out of that kid? I'm not talking about abusing the kid. I'm talking an old fashioned butt whoopin'! Like back in the day! There was a little boy in the park with his mom. Repeatedly she told him to stop messing around and keep get over here now! So he yells at her and tells her NO! He's about all of what? 3 Feet tall if that? I'm like, dude, you're not even old enough to vote or hold a job and you're telling your mom NO?! Maybe I'm gettin' old but if that were my kid? I'd wear his butt out! What about you?

2006-07-08 15:11:01 · 6 answers · asked by Kooties 5

2006-07-08 15:02:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

This guy teased me mercilessly and said some really nasty things to me. He scares the crap out of me, he knows it, and he loves it. He doesn't really do anything to me anymore, but whenever I see him my legs turn into jello and my heart feels like it will explode I get so traumatized at the sight of this guy. Someone please help me! I will probably have to see him tomorrow!

2006-07-08 14:58:49 · 29 answers · asked by 77684 3

I personally think that it shouldn't matter, but hey give me an answer on what you think!

2006-07-08 14:56:32 · 12 answers · asked by hockeyhunny2 2

please help

2006-07-08 14:54:42 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-08 14:51:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

We've been together off and on for 2 and half years. I told him that I can't be with him unless he changes the way he is. He claims he loves me and shows it alot , but sometimes i have second thoughts. Well i don't call him when were together because he does all the calling. So after awhile he stops calling. He claims that he does that to see if I'm going to call him. What do you think? I believe he's having second guesses about us but I'm not sure.

2006-07-08 14:49:47 · 10 answers · asked by nene 1

that you though that was yours but now if definitely yours nows, makes the comment to the mother. I want to see the child on his 18th birthday( the child is 7) and complain that he don't make enought money he a disablity vet. he get a vet check 1, 200 monthly. constanly make excuses about money and visitation rights/ and say over and over I loved you once. Should one just drop the entire case?

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2006-07-08 14:41:43 · 1 answers · asked by dramy 1

2006-07-08 14:38:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous