Other - Family & Relationships - 11 July 2006

Answer to my problem is going to be a big challenge.When you read details,you will find serious contradictions.
Our love we believe,is timeless..
We both want to keep this relationship for life.what should we do?How do we solve issues?
As i see:
We share every thought openly and honestly.
One more thing, i was going through a bad phase,a kind of depression, when we met 3yrs back.
Today i am strong and self confident.
Sometimes I think his love and guidance had brought me back from a hopeless state.
Whenever he tried to FADE away-I kind of slid back into depression .
I keep telling him that my marriage to someone else,will be tough on him.
last week, i offered to remain unmarried for life-to keep our relationship going,to avoid hurting him...
But on many occasions i have a very strong urge to get married...get beautiful status of happily married woman in society.
He has offered to marry me-wants to marry me next year,after providing good money for his family.
Pl dont say Quit, DUMP HIM

2006-07-11 23:56:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I did something really bad and I am so upset about what I did I tried to break up with him because he deserves a lot better than me.... yeah he does and he cried about me breaking up with him... so I didn't but at this point I am wondering if I should. I want to do what's best for HIM so if that means giving him up than I have to but I still really love him.

2006-07-11 23:56:01 · 1 answers · asked by prinsisss 4

What can you do when someone is in need of a serious reality check?? They really need to realise all the good things that they have in their life instead of allowing depression to get worse and being full of negativity.
How do you deal with this?? What would you say to the person concerned?? They are very difficult to deal with and are being selfish just now and will not see other peoples opinions??

2006-07-11 23:53:21 · 9 answers · asked by Sasha 3

and mostly what about u do fight with each other?

2006-07-11 23:53:16 · 8 answers · asked by Jane Doe 3

this person wanted to leave a message for my husband after they found out that it was me on the phone. they gave me a certain phone number but it is not in the phone book and every place that i look online wants to charge a fee to tell me who it belongs to. where do i go to find the name attached to this number without paying a fee for. and a legal way of course.

2006-07-11 23:52:47 · 9 answers · asked by makaiyla 1

did you ever forgive yourself?

2006-07-11 23:50:55 · 5 answers · asked by prinsisss 4

Hate or dont like..,you get irritated by it..what is it?? I dont hate anything coz i love him!! There might be 1 or 2 thngs, anyways..hw abt you?? ^_^

2006-07-11 23:44:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 27 years old man. I never dating with any woman as I was very shy & nice. About 2 years ago, I was took psychotherapy from a lady psychotherapist to be free from social anxiety. Now I am much free from social anxiety. I see & knew that women do not like shy, unconfident guys. They prefer bad boys.This hurt me very much. I have another problem that, I am thinking and fantasiging about the psychotherapist very much. I understood that I was fallen love with her. She is married & I know that it is unethical to do any relationship outside treatmen with her. I do not contact with her any more. But I can not forget her. Everyday every night I think about her. I also feel depresses thinking my unsucseesfullness with women as I am nice. I have much more sexual desire but I get nothing from women.These hurt me . I waste a lot of time thinking these which harm my everyday life , study etc. I want to stop that thinking & concentrate at my study. But I fail. How can I do this ? pls help me.

2006-07-11 23:28:51 · 13 answers · asked by Bluelover 2

2006-07-11 23:18:50 · 7 answers · asked by RR 1

2006-07-11 22:57:13 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

If someone is depressed and you serioiusly think that they are also wallowing in self pity - I think the best thing to do is to ignore it and leave them to it. What do you think? I don't think its a good idea to molly coddle them - they have to deal with it and come out the other end themself. Some times a good kick (reality check) is needed??

2006-07-11 22:57:09 · 21 answers · asked by Sasha 3

2006-07-11 22:54:35 · 1 answers · asked by garybuikema 1

I got into debt by trying to fight my brother from his greed! My father past away and left a son who I care but no payments! I trusted my brother and gave him power to deal with legal stuff but unfortunately need to win back rights and need to know where I stand! I have no money and in debt and very suicidal at the moment to no where to go. feel very useless and scared he may take him away!
i have been to solicitors but the want alot of money ....

2006-07-11 22:47:16 · 5 answers · asked by J 1

Things like compasion, kindness, mercy etc

2006-07-11 22:40:03 · 10 answers · asked by angelcake 5

The situation is : my niece by marriage has a sister that doesn't want to raise her 2-year-old, so they've asked us to step in as guardians. Has anyone in California been through this? I just want to know what to expect, the procedures of filing for guardianship, California laws, possible problems, etc.

2006-07-11 22:24:46 · 2 answers · asked by Mary* 5

i want to know the most important in a family weather is the man or his wife or the children, becouse i'm a woman not married but i have a child.

2006-07-11 22:19:39 · 21 answers · asked by beeky mama 2

i know this is a long way off because me and my girlfriend are doing to be starting our senor year of high school we have been dating for over 7 months now and neither of us hase ever been happier and honestly we are both in love with eachother and want to spend the rest of our lives together but after high school there is a high chance we may be going to college in differents states and i mean far away any help, advice, personal stories, or anyone who is in the same situation or has been need your help and how it worked out for you thanks

2006-07-11 22:18:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been asked by a friend ( a new friend) if I'd like to go dogging with her. I said "sure, ok" but I'm not sure what dogging is and think i might have made a mistake.

She seems really excited about it, we can make a night of it and said we'd have a great time. I'm just not sure what i've got myself into and how to get out of it if things go sour.

I dont want to make myself look daft by admitting that i dont know what it means. What is it, where do you do it and what's it all about.

Is it like dog racing (greyhounds)?



JJ.

2006-07-11 22:15:54 · 10 answers · asked by just_jen2006 2

My mother-in-law is one of the the nastiest pieces of work around. Anyone out there have a good getting even with the mother-in-law story????

2006-07-11 22:04:02 · 7 answers · asked by mickeymaz 3

2006-07-11 22:00:48 · 12 answers · asked by CreamsDvine 1

..when porn "stars" that are engaged or married are doing it with other dudes in the "movies"? Why or why not?

Also, what's the difference between porn "stars" and prostitutes?

2006-07-11 21:55:47 · 21 answers · asked by ♥iamsleepy♥ 4

2006-07-11 21:38:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm in eighth grade and im 14. ii really like dis guy, and ii kno he like me baq, so ii gave him ma phone #... he called but it was wit my best friend on da line too, like 3way. y does he do dat? is he tryna tell me sumthin or iis he just nervous?

2006-07-11 21:32:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

any tips? views? practical suggestions? anything! :)

2006-07-11 21:15:26 · 7 answers · asked by jiaredinie 2

My ex-boyfriend has recently egged me. I'm looking for ideas on revenge. I want something that he'll always remember but not permanent damage that I could get in serious trouble for.

2006-07-11 21:06:28 · 11 answers · asked by adorkable_pink18 2

My sisters friend who im also close to introduced me to a guy friend of hers. He seems like a real nice guy. I recently got out of 5 year relationship and so has he. I only known him for a week. Is it too soon to start dating?

2006-07-11 21:04:25 · 6 answers · asked by Janelle 2

2006-07-11 21:04:17 · 3 answers · asked by teena 1

No good life,no home,no good job, no money

2006-07-11 21:00:09 · 4 answers · asked by Leopold Maurits 1

Looking for a way to impress a girl that I really really admire.

Its going to be my senior year I what to go out with a bang.

Any ideas?

2006-07-11 20:59:12 · 5 answers · asked by Doc 2

2006-07-11 20:57:45 · 6 answers · asked by littledi 1