i am in a relationship and I a happy as I want to be in the relationship, but my family doesn't want me to be with him. We barly get to see each other. If I stay with him I am going to hurt but if I leave him I will be hurt even more. So what should I do? I love him
2006-07-08 16:03:07 · 5 answers · asked by anyiahr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are the one who has to make your on decisions. Your family can't tell you who and who not to love, your feelings are what they are. If this is true love hang in there and make your self happy. You have to live for you, not any one else. I hope you are old enough to make your on decisions.
2006-07-08 16:12:33 · answer #1 · answered by aloneathome 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your family needs to read this........
I would have never believed it had I not witnessed it myself.
Anyone telling me "MY" story would have been frowned upon by me.
I would have told them they were crazy and that they needed to have their head examined.
I would have told them they were stupid and naïve.
Nobody walks in my shoes..
Nobody knows what I know.
You have not experienced my life.
You could not possibly know what my brain is thinking.
I do not have to defend my feelings to anyone.
I do not have to justify my life to you either.
Is it a mistake?
I think not.
Can anyone relate to where I am coming from?
I think one person can.
I dont know what the future holds,
But I do know that I like the present.
Everything changes.
Thats the way life goes.
Will I still have this story to tell 5 years from now?
I dont know, human nature can disappoint.
Can you possibly understand me even if you dont agree?
I hope you can.
What makes this different from all the other stories I have told?
Why cant you believe its possible?
I didnt believe until now.
I didnt think it was possible, I didnt want it.
I was fine without the complications.
Now I enjoy them.
So listen to my story with an open mind.
Know that I am an intelligent person with a good head on my shoulders.
Believe in it.
Because it believes in you.
2006-07-08 16:09:44 · answer #2 · answered by John & Kristie R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you stay with him you will hurt a long time, by leaving now it will definitely hurt but only for a short time. You will quickly realize that life does go on. As long as you allow it too.
2006-07-08 16:07:38 · answer #3 · answered by the7_cs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If yo are over 18 you are free to be with who you want to be with. If you're under 18, you need to listen to your parents.
2006-07-08 16:06:02 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think ur hart
2006-07-08 16:06:47 · answer #5 · answered by vero 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋