During a conversation w/ my sister in law (18yrs), she brought up touchy subjects and when i (21yrs) commented on them (objectively i'd say), she went off on me. By swearing and telling me i am not a part of the family and stay out of her and her family's business. I get that she has personal boundaries and that maybe i dont have a right commenting on things until she brings them up - which she did. but still, i apologized. She says she may have crossed some lines, but she had a right to say those things, and refuses to apologize. I see some bad character traits in her and now i refuse to let her see my son, at least until she apologizes and accepts me. i think i deserve that respect at least. Now my mother in law,(they live together) is angry at us and accuses us of being childish, by holding baby over both of their heads. we told her she could see baby but not over there w/ sis in law there. Am i being absurd to stick w/ it, even though it affects us all incl. my only 2 yr marriage?
2006-07-08
13:15:38
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Cyndi Storm
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