Don't look at him,it frightens you to much to look in his face so don't.You are in school with him you are going to see him but you don't have to make eye contact with him.Ignore him.I know that it is easier said than done but you can do it.Don't let what he might say affect you to the point that you start failing your classes and make you feel bad about yourself.Tell yourself i can do this,I'm stronger than that.You are the better person.Believe that with all of your heart and you'll do just fine.
2006-07-08 15:17:47
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answered by Willnotlietoyou 5
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Although the guy probably likes you and is expressing it in the only stupid way he knows how, you shouldn't have to put up with the crap if you dont' want to. Some girls would toy with him until they got tired or he went away, but I can understand your situation.
You need some help with this, from an adult or even if you're an adult, from other adults. There are other people in power around you, whether principals, teachers, preachers, elders, deacons, cops or whoever. They are there, just look for them. Share your feelings with whoever you can. Someone will come to your aid. If I were there I would help, so I'm sure there are other guys out there that wouldn't let a lady be bullied.
2006-07-08 22:03:05
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answered by merlin_steele 6
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Try smiling at him, you'll probably throw him into a spin.
If he has effected you that much, maybe you could consider talking to somebody about it. It's quite normal to be weary of somebody who was once so mean to you. To you, it was extremely hurtful. To him, it was probably just a bit of fun (stupid, I know).
Sounds like he has a power trip, and most probably one that he is proud of. Be strong, and try not to let him think that you're scared.
If you need to, avoid him. But if he is someone that you will see regularly, face the issue, and deal with it. Don't let him think that he has such a strong hold over you. It's probably about the only thing in his life that he does have a hold of, except the obvious.
Yes, an official wanker in my books.
Good luck my friend.
2006-07-08 22:07:50
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answered by Medicated Harmony 4
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Who is he? Is this someone u work with or go school with? I mean what do u mean u have to see him tomorrow?
If he creeps u out like this then u may want to have someone with u at all times and u may want to tell someone else about him if ur in public with this guy, to watch him sp if he trys anything they'll know he's freaking u out. I guess what Im saying is u need someone to have ur back at all times when this guys around.
2006-07-08 22:02:21
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answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6
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First off, buy mace. The stuff is terribly effective. Now that you have a method of defending yourself, relax. Relax because your fear is exactly what he wants. That's his power over you. He gets off on the fact that he can put you in your place with just a mean look. Nobody can make you afraid unless you let them. If he threatens you, mace him and call the cops. You can press assault charges against him. He doesn't have to actually touch you for it to be considered assault.
Also, you can just get a restraining order against him. That's what they're for.
2006-07-08 22:08:43
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answered by SlashMatrix 2
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Be with someone at all times and dont take a chance with this guy, let someone know how you feel about this guy. Dont take a chance, stay safe at all times and know where you are. Carry a cell with you all the time and let someone know where you are. Mabey try to politely say that you are not comfortable around him and you would like him to leave you alone. Good Luck and wish you well. Be safe!!
2006-07-08 22:03:30
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answered by SummerLovin' 3
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XXXXXXXXXXX no one should be put in that situation. I'd get the nerve to talk to him and tell him my feelings. He may not seem like he care about what you are saying at first but believe when he'll think about it after you are gone and it will change him. He's just a bully who needs a wake up call. Do let him intimidate you anymore. Stop giving him your power. TAKE IT BACK!!! XXXXX
2006-07-08 22:03:29
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answered by asoldierswife 7
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I wished I knew what he says to you, it can help. Whenever someone frightens you, you should have reported him to the authorities. You did not say if this is happening at school or work. Well if he has stopped, how long has it been since he last tormented you? I think you need to talk with someone you cannot go around in fear all your life.
2006-07-08 22:07:45
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answered by vhat40 4
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Not enough information but i think that when you see him not to be scared act nomarl bring some freinds along wiht you ask him why he liks it when you get scared and then c what he says tell him stight up and if he trys to do anything you ahve ur freinds backing you up and if not dont go near him agree with everythign he is saying that make people mad =)
2006-07-08 22:06:50
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answered by natty 1
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It sounds like you need some self confidence. I was kind of a runt in school, so I used to carry around a mixture of salt and sand in my pocket. This way if someone tried to get physical with me, I could just through it in their eyes. You can't hit what you can't see.
2006-07-08 22:03:59
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answered by Anonymous
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