2006-07-08 15:47:45 · 13 answers · asked by Taterz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
We have a really good relationship otherwise and have been friends for a long time....I'm her only friend....I think if I don't do this it might be hard for her to stay clean and doing as good as she's been doing
2006-07-08 16:04:13 · update #1
yas i think if you still have feelings for that person you should not move in with them encase somthing happens.
2006-07-08 15:51:41 · answer #1 · answered by nessa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Bad idea. I am in the same scenerio, backwards...he wants me to move in and he has feelings for me. Thing is, I don't. And when I say I don't want to get back with him...he says fine...but keeps saying remember when. I just couldn't imagine what I would do if I woke in the morning with him in my doorway, staring...and I have said this to him!!! It would give him hopes and he knows that. Mind you, if the other has feelings for you, maybe it will be good, living as 'buddies' instead of lovers for a while. But then again, if you like the other and it is not reciprocated and they bring someone home....not the most entertaining moment.
Go with your first instinct sugar, it will work out.
Be well...
2006-07-08 16:03:35 · answer #2 · answered by sugarandspice01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a terrible idea. If you still have feelings and you move in, you will never be able to let go. How would you feel if you were roomates and your ex brought someone else home, could you handle that? I would never do it, it will only hurt you more.
2006-07-08 15:55:50 · answer #3 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is very bad decisions. My husband lived with his ex wife for about 5 months and went to jail twice for false alligations they will try to br controlling and make you do what they want it is not a very good idea. It ended up that he cheated on me with her becuase I was staying somewhere else. Do Not Do It especially if you are in a relationship.
2006-07-08 15:52:19 · answer #4 · answered by Sierra E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are trying to help him/her with recovery. If you are the only person who will continue to help him/her, you should definately help. Ask yourself if you think he/she has no feelings for you. Then ask yourself if you have any feelings for him/her. If you save his/her life from an addiction that could kill him/her, there is a good chance that he/she will love you for it, one way or another. Be aware of the mistake, if you are afraid your feelings for each other differ entirely too much, but also know the beauty of love. Exs are exs for reasons but it sounds like you two still care about each other, so you should probably go for it.
2006-07-08 19:44:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you move in with your ex, you are setting yourself up for a lot of pain and trouble. If you ex decides to see somebody, you will eventually show jealousy as well as anger, and that will start fights. It will also cause you to feel insecure about yourself, and may lead you into doing other things out of desperation. Do not move in with your ex.
2006-07-08 15:56:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it truly is a foul concept. in case you start up living including her, and also you nevertheless love her, your jealousy will only improve even as she keeps to play with you about getting bfs. you should only flow in with a guy you've been with for a lengthy time period, a destiny fiance, or in case you 2 don't have thoughts for an added.
2016-11-30 21:51:57 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its a bad idea because you can hurt the person that you're in a relationship with and trust is everything.
2006-07-08 15:52:18 · answer #8 · answered by janice p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, because you will feel jaded if he refuses to do anything with you and then you will become a raging b*tch and get back at him some way like not pay your half of the bills or sabatoge a relationship he might be having. then of course he will do something bad back at you like kick you out then you will be on your a$$ on the streets.
of course, this is how i see it because its what i would do lol.
2006-07-08 15:52:11 · answer #9 · answered by ziggunerin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!!!!!!! u shouldn't move in with him!!!!!!!! U guys r ex's!!!! u never know what might happen if u still have fellings for him and u live together!!!
2006-07-08 16:02:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋