u wont blieve believe what i found out about my brother?

Question

i came home from my friends house and i come in my room a turn on the light and my brother was making out with na guy on my freaking face . seriosly please help i havent been able to look him in the face for 4 days now

not on my face on my bed sorry

Answer 1

Go tell your dad that should be fun.

Answer 2

Well your brother has a diffrent orientation than you and he should have stayed away from your room I accept that but he is your brother and if you cared for him you should understand that some people like things diffrently as some like carrots in meals and some don't. Don't be too hard on him or yourself. As him atleast what his orientation is. If you talk you might get answers you like. Nothing he can do can ever make him not your brother - and that will remain a fact all your life . So either accept him or try to change him , avoiding would do no good.

Answer 3

First how old is your brother and second think of it this way, if the shoe was on the other foot and your brother walked in on you how would you want him to react and treat you? A person's preference is their own regardless of what you may want them to be, you wouldn't want someone telling you how you should be and who you should be with. He is still same guy he was before you walked in on him no matter what, just now you know more about him.

Answer 4

Do you two share the same room?

So, what is your problem? So, now you know that he's gay. No big deal, just accept him. He's been dealing with it a lot longer than you have. Just respect him! Of course, it'll take some time to get used it, if you always thought he was straight. If you ever had your doubts, than it shouldn't be that much of a surprise.

Answer 5

You know you have to talk to him eventually. He really is the same person he was the moment before you discovered his "little secret." He probably feels just as bad as you do, and is really worried about what you will do or say or who you will tell. If you need time to think about it, and figure things out, then take that time, but realize he is still your brother no matter who he's kissing.

Answer 6

Guess what? I found out the same thing by finding stuff on the computer... Gay photos, etc.... Just try your best to get past it. You have to remember that even if it's something you do not agree with, you are his brother. Loving someone does not mean condoning their activities. It's loving them in spite of them.

Answer 7

Deal with it, he's your brother!! This is 2006 it's not that unusual these days. It is no reflection on you, unless of course you turn on your brother. He probably feels bad enough, just tell him that you were shocked but you want what he thinks is best for him.
Don't make him feel exiled you may regret it one day if you do..

Answer 8

Not cool he was doing it on your bed.Major lack of respect for your space and privacy.Obviously he wasn't worried about getting caught.You have every right to confront him and tell him you're not ok with him invading your space but leave his sexuality out of it.It really wouldn't have been ok if he was making out with a girl on your bed either.

Answer 9

Man sorry to hear that. I know its difficult for you. I know your brother is embarrassed too. I know he didn't want you to find out like that. Try to be open minded to what your brother might say, knowone wants to know a family member is gay. So go to your brother and talk to him. Good luck

Answer 10

Sounds like you need to talk to him about it and find out who he really is and what he wants out of life so that you two can be brothers again without all of the awkwardness.

Answer 11

Okay I know it had to be hard for you to see something like that, but you have to love your brother unconditionally. You will get over it and except it eventually just ask god to help you. Good Luck!