We've been together off and on for 2 and half years. I told him that I can't be with him unless he changes the way he is. He claims he loves me and shows it alot , but sometimes i have second thoughts. Well i don't call him when were together because he does all the calling. So after awhile he stops calling. He claims that he does that to see if I'm going to call him. What do you think? I believe he's having second guesses about us but I'm not sure.
2006-07-08 14:49:47 · 10 answers · asked by nene 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell him u dont call him because he's always calling you. I think its rude of him to say he's waiting to see if you call because that seems like he's testing your love and you dont do that in a relationship. I have always not liked on and off relationships because that means something happened and if that happened once, what will stop it from happening again? You need to talk to him and work it out if you want to continue dating.
2006-07-08 14:57:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that he comes and goes when it's convenient for him..and by you taking him back everything time you're giving him the message that it's ok for him to do that. I guess I'm at a point in my life where you're either here or you're not.. That's it. I also think that if God wants someone to be in my life there isn't a dang thing I can do about it. I think that I deserve someone who wants to be there all the time.. not someone who shows up when there isn't anyone around. Is he gonna dissappear when someone else comes along to lead him away from you?
2006-07-08 15:01:40 · answer #2 · answered by Ms_E_Bunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think he's having second thoughts too. And I think he put you on hold but if you insist on being a foolish for love go head and learn the hard way like I did
2006-07-08 18:43:18 · answer #3 · answered by depressed confused and in love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with that said, dump him, and don't give in like a desperate female when he tries to call you up again so much time later. the reason he does this is because he knows he can - put him in his place and stop that now! move on, you don't need him and he DOES NOT care about you. No! I SAID FORGET HIM! ...NOOOOOWWW!!!!
2006-07-08 14:53:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look hon, i don't know how old you are but he sounds like he's two years old. you need to realise that if he's this way now which is controlling, cause what he's doing is trying to do, control you, imagine how he is going to be in a few more years, i say let the fool go, now
2006-07-08 15:06:04 · answer #5 · answered by diva anne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe that u need to find a new man because
u shouldnt be treated like that that is not a relationship
2006-07-08 14:54:59 · answer #6 · answered by TIFAH A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow up
2006-07-08 14:53:27 · answer #7 · answered by mirkyl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's playing with you, no, he's not ready to "be with you"
2006-07-08 14:53:46 · answer #8 · answered by mightymite1957 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-07-08 15:18:08 · answer #9 · answered by JULIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-07-08 14:51:27 · answer #10 · answered by nae nae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋