Marriage & Divorce - 24 June 2006

Also...we have been together for 7 yrs....we wear wedding rings, altho we are not married...so the clerk certainly saw we were together, as a couple...and by the looks of it, we are married. I'm not normally jealous...but this bothered me alot...it was more...she disrespected me, as a woman. Am I wrong to feel this way?

2006-06-24 17:24:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is going to be long please bare with me I seriously need help.


First off I'm 22 and am married to a 26 year old guy we have been married 5 years together 7 and we have a beautiful 4 year old little girl. Now our marriage fell apart cuz I cheated on him while I was working out of state, I know that what I did was horrible and I hate myself for it, it wouldn't of happened if he had just gone with me he was not working and has not been working for almost 2 years. Why I'm not quite sure he'll get a job and have it maybe a few weeks then quit. But that is not an excuse for what I did. Well he tells me he doesn't want to be with me and he hates me but he doesnt want me to leave because he wont have a good car and doesnt have money to pay bills. He says if I can just stay untill he gets a job and is on his feet. I feel like I owe him cuz of what I did. Thing is if I leave I go back to live with my Mom untill i can get on my feet and I don't really want to have to do that. (out of room)

2006-06-24 17:23:46 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dont want anything bad to happen to him b/c i have this insane scary love for him.. i have been w/ him since i was 12. we have 1child and 1on the way and right now i hate him so much that if it wasnt for my son I could pack up and leave for good. In a few days I will be over it and I wont be able to even think of leaving??? This happened before pregnancy too!

2006-06-24 17:20:45 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been apart for 8 years and she is in a relationship that I think she he is happy in.

2006-06-24 17:11:56 · 31 answers · asked by thestendfactor 3

i try do do things that i think are nice for him but he either never notices or says thank you. i am the only one (apparently)capable of loading or unloading the dishwasher i asked him tyoday -very nicely-again- to please rince the dishes when you put them in the sink. and he justs snaps back " i pick up your stuff all the time" then we get into a small argument over this and we ignored each other for the next 5 hrs. i dont know what to do we share the bed with our 19 month old so we never have couple time and i'm really starting not to care anymore. we have grown so appart. i would hate to leave him because of our son he loves his daddy so much. but i think i'm waisting my time. in dec. we will have been married just 5 yrs and the thrill is long gone

2006-06-24 17:07:20 · 11 answers · asked by Sabrina 1

my husband has a problem and i dont know what to do about it please help!!!

2006-06-24 16:53:22 · 13 answers · asked by susanibachick 1

2006-06-24 16:33:41 · 15 answers · asked by blondiebella 3

2006-06-24 16:27:33 · 16 answers · asked by Fouad G 1

2006-06-24 16:23:01 · 23 answers · asked by CuriousGeorge 2

I just can't figure it out. We have been married for 2 years and have had sex probably less than 10 times.
It's not that he "can't".
It's that he doesn't "want" to.

I can do all kind of things that just the "thought" of would have most any guy ready to get it on...but with him...nothing...zip..nada.

Then whenever he does get "in the mood". It doesn't last very long (less than 5 minutes) and he's like ...ohhh..wasn't that good. Well NO IT WAS NOT! is what I want to say but I don't. It is really getting frustrating especially since MY own sex drive seems to be dwindeling now and I LOVED my sex drive before.

Trying to get him to "talk" about it is impossible. He listens but does not say anything.

Every OTHER aspect of our life is wonderful. He is VERY attentive of me in public but behind closed doors...he's a dud!

HELP!

2006-06-24 16:20:21 · 18 answers · asked by featherwoodntx 1

I was just thinking of something sweet to do for the man in my life... He is working and will be home late, I am missing him a little. So I thought I might spray his colonge all over after my shower, and put one of his dress shirts on with a skimpy pair of undies, and wait up for him... Good idea or bad... If bad, then any suggestions? Stay with in community guidelines please...

2006-06-24 16:01:17 · 17 answers · asked by ~Amberlen Rio` ~ 2

2006-06-24 15:55:55 · 24 answers · asked by El Toro Malo 3

2006-06-24 15:53:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Mine won't bathe, and is quiet while we @#^&. There's more, but there's not enough space here.

2006-06-24 15:52:37 · 9 answers · asked by ? 1

2006-06-24 15:49:00 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

One of the arguments that is levied against the legalization of gay marriage is that it would somehow undermine the current heterosexual institution of marriage. How? How would gays getting married have an impact on the institution or your personal marriage?

Given that the current divorce rate is at 50%, it's not as if heterosexuals show a great deal of respect to the institution or fidelity to their supposed life-long committments. What would be the additional negative consequence to heterosexuals of allowing gay people to marry?

2006-06-24 15:45:32 · 21 answers · asked by violet 5

I have been with my husband for 4 years and am currently pregnant with our second child. My husband likes to crack jokes and stuff, which totally puts me out of the mood. What is a good way to keep the fire lit in the bedroom without getting him to crack a joke about the romance I seek?

2006-06-24 15:40:50 · 26 answers · asked by Autumn_Anne 5

This better be love because I can't explain it other wise. No way would I alter my life in such a way, if it were not for the love that I have for him. I moved from home to a strange city that I am not too fond of, no friends or family here, and I am at home on a Saturday night.

My question is this love or something else?

2006-06-24 15:39:20 · 7 answers · asked by lalala 4

I know he's straight, so gay is not an option.... he seriously has no sex drive at all! Is this possible? No E.D. either... that isn't the problem... he just doesn't care to use it.

2006-06-24 15:38:58 · 53 answers · asked by La la la la D 1

Me and my husband been together 15 years plus. In those 15 years he found out that I was speaking to other men on 3 different occasions. After each time he stayed with me. But, about two years ago, I found out he had a secret relationship with another women. After I found out he went back to her four times. Now he tells me that he is not seeing her anymore. But ever since all of this he treats me like crape. My question is why did he even stay? Please help me!

2006-06-24 15:31:29 · 20 answers · asked by marcia t 1

2006-06-24 15:29:30 · 23 answers · asked by Diona S 1

If you are overweight or unattractive, would you be more willing to stay with a spouse that cheats or physically abuses you? If you lost weight/improved your appearance would you then be out the door?

2006-06-24 15:29:15 · 5 answers · asked by lilos 1

he works regularly scheduled shifts like mon thru fri 8 am to 4pm and then always sleeping in between is this normal

2006-06-24 15:24:09 · 5 answers · asked by jayrok027 2

i am a guy.

2006-06-24 15:23:31 · 10 answers · asked by bayrammen 1

Or is he still confused on what he really wants?

2006-06-24 15:18:06 · 50 answers · asked by bobo 1

Not happy with life, but married to a great guy.

2006-06-24 14:47:17 · 7 answers · asked by whattheharry 1

I officialy married my 1st wife in Madrid,Spain which didn't work and we seperated. I moved to Berlin, Germany and married my 2nd wife which didn't work either. Now I have left my 3rd wife in Australia and she is sending the police after me. Why would she do that since I was so nice to her. Thanks

2006-06-24 14:46:03 · 8 answers · asked by meinert35 1

2006-06-24 14:45:49 · 5 answers · asked by lilos 1

married the amout of sex you usually have goes down?
I have a few married friends and it seems to be true. Also whats up with that?

2006-06-24 14:41:07 · 13 answers · asked by Ryan L 2

2006-06-24 14:38:32 · 14 answers · asked by Jeff B 3