If you are overweight or unattractive, would you be more willing to stay with a spouse that cheats or physically abuses you? If you lost weight/improved your appearance would you then be out the door?
2006-06-24 15:29:15 · 5 answers · asked by lilos 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would hope no one would stay for that reason as there are someone who could and would love you for who you are. We all need some improvement but hopefully a woman would not stay and get abused because she is scared of no one else wanting her. Heck I would rather be by myself then be abused. Who needs that?
2006-06-24 15:40:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋
your looks and your appereance have nothing to do with being with an jackass.i dont care how the hell i look my husband is going to treat me like a human being or he is out the door.
when you with a man like that no matter how much you improve his dumb stuped *** is going to always find something wrong with you... is not you with the problem is him... get rid of his ***.
if you or a person you know is in a situation like this i suggest for that person to change their looks and loose some weight but do it after you send him straight to hell do it for your self the asshole will soon find out that looks are not what gives you a good relationship considerations and respect is the succes of a good relationship... but you cant tell a man with the brain size of a grain of rice understand this they usually learn the hard way.when they are alone and thinking i had a good woman but i was being a stuped jerk and now i lost her.so the answer to your question is leave first and then improve your looks if he didnt want you at your worst he should not have you at your best..... to the curve with him, good luck.
2006-06-25 00:12:55 · answer #2 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so. I'd assume that if someone was unattractive or overweight, then they're more likely to have low self esteem and think they couldn't get anyone except their current partner (even if their partner treats them like crap). Once their self esteem improved, they'd be out the door.
2006-06-24 23:45:12 · answer #3 · answered by smurfette_au2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i was fat my husband would make fun of me all the time sometimes he would with my mother and sister i put up with it i just had his baby, but now im60pds lighter , i let my hair grow dyed it blonde and i think i look pretty darn good and now i have men hit on me all the time so i say to myself whos laughing now? (he totally cant stand it)
2006-06-25 01:20:00 · answer #4 · answered by corvairchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you're right
2006-06-24 22:36:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋