2006-06-24 15:29:30 · 23 answers · asked by Diona S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Now and days there is no other way....you have to see what this person is about is like the whole world have issues and some of them dont show until you are under one roof,i know the tradition is to be married before you live together but that myth is about sex and lets face it who the hell make it to marriage with their virginity in place nobody i say.... i dont know anybody that have married virging so my guess is the percent of virgin marriage is low as low as can be.
so why not live together for a few years to see if this marriage is going to work.i sure is hell am a strong believer in living together before marriage.
2006-06-24 16:56:29 · answer #1 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This shouldn't be a belief, even though there so many do it, I actually did this in my time, twice. The thing is now that that happened, now it's shown that once you've made this move, most of the times the guys get comfortable. Too comfortable, and don't want the piece of paper (marriage license) if they can get the whole package without it. You make your choice of wanting to get married or excepting living together.
2006-06-25 01:49:42 · answer #2 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do becuase it allows you to know what the person is like in all situations more than you can if you live some where else it helps to save money for the wedding and you work out the little personality quirks before marriage In this day and time it is the only way to really know what you are getting into.
2006-06-25 00:05:25 · answer #3 · answered by brownunicorn_75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been living with a man now for 5 1/2 years. We will be getting married but I'm glad we did it first. We have found out alot about each other I don't think we would have found out otherwise. We hold no secrets and have a very honest relationships. He has turned out to be the best thing that has every happened to me and my daughter. And before you wonder I was married and didn't live with him first and 6 months into the marriage I found out he was a drug addict and abuser. Would differenty live with a person before I marry them.
2006-06-25 00:09:15 · answer #4 · answered by Dianne R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do absolutely believe in living together before marriage. that way you get to know each other and you can decide if this is what you really want. Besides its cheaper than getting a divorce.
2006-06-24 22:42:35 · answer #5 · answered by misty eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely! It not only gives you a taste of what married life will be like, but it also lets you know before marriage if you are compatible living together or not. If not, at least you will know ahead of time before being married and ending up in divorce.
2006-06-24 22:40:55 · answer #6 · answered by honey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think living before marriage can experience the real situation of marriage without actually get married. I don't mind to do it at all.
Joyce
2006-06-24 23:02:45 · answer #7 · answered by joyce_lovely_gir1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband lived with me 2 months after we started dating and we have been together for 3 years and married almost 2 years
2006-06-24 23:54:57 · answer #8 · answered by sjeboyce 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should definetly live with the person atleast a year before you get married. You never really know a person untill you live with them.
2006-06-24 23:41:20 · answer #9 · answered by jlp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I definitely do..it's much easier to get out of a live in relationship that goes bad then it is to get out of a marriage that has...
2006-06-24 22:49:19 · answer #10 · answered by Syeira 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋