I dont want anything bad to happen to him b/c i have this insane scary love for him.. i have been w/ him since i was 12. we have 1child and 1on the way and right now i hate him so much that if it wasnt for my son I could pack up and leave for good. In a few days I will be over it and I wont be able to even think of leaving??? This happened before pregnancy too!
2006-06-24 17:20:45 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You've come to your senses.
2006-06-24 17:22:07 · answer #1 · answered by Oriental Delight 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you've answered your own question - you've been with him since you were 12. Are you feeling a little trapped?
It is natural to be irate and think about greener pastures - particularly when you've been together through all your formative years. You haven't experienced anything else and perhaps you resent him for this.
It sounds like you love him alot - which is more than a lot of married people have. Why not try getting out and about by yourself a bit? Make new friends and have new experiences with your old ones, do a course, fulfill a life ambition... and then come home and share it all with him! Even soul mates need a break from each other and to keep thier individuality in tact... it will hopefully improve things immeasurably. Have fun!
2006-06-24 17:27:17 · answer #2 · answered by soulgirl76 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will comprehend. I on no account dreamed i may be so in love with my husband. once you're praying you need to be beleiving in God. i comprehend that it rather is much less complicated pronounced than carried out, yet believe Him additionally. believe God and additionally your husband. i ought to hassle approximately my husband's safty and well being, yet i comprehend that he does not do something that would consequence in him no longer coming dwelling house. If somebody else is dumb on the line or something i comprehend that he's in a position to evade or minimalize venture o.k.. those he won't be in a position to are in God's palms. If He we've been to take him i think of that i might in all probability proceed to suck air and that's technically residing. My mom did it whilst my dad advance into long previous. yet there are situations once I merely cry questioning approximately it. i'm so grateful to have so a appealing marriage to this variety of exceptional guy!
2016-10-31 10:52:47 · answer #3 · answered by ai 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your story sounds pretty familiar to me. I think the mood swings are caused by the changes in hormone levels each month for every woman and the wacky things that happen to them when a woman becomes pregnant and gives birth just adds to the loony-ness.
In time I learned that I had to wait out those "Hubby is Stupid" days because I'd be able to see the good in him when my hormone levels settled down. Maybe some herbal remedies could smooth out some of the bumps for you.
Good luck to your whole family, including you!
2006-06-24 17:26:50 · answer #4 · answered by LC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he cheated or lied to you. True love IS being able to forgive the faults/quirks/oddities of your mate. If you are in an abusive relationship, that is UNFORGIVEABLE no matter how crazy in love you are. If he cheated or lied, find out why. Then you can make a decision to leave or not. Since it happened before, I would find a lawyer and get out. He will do it again.
2006-06-24 17:27:44 · answer #5 · answered by jay23_33 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its a pregnancy thing.Kind of like postpartum but during?Your hormones, when your pregnant are all out of wack, so maybe you are just feeling mixed emotions right now.As long as its a healthy relationship, with no abuse, hang in there.Maybe these feelings will go away...like you said.If it is abusive, emotionally or physically, than you need to get away.If you are just hormonal, talk to him and tell him how you feel.That way he understands its just a pregnancy thing and nothing personal.I am sure you'll be ok.
2006-06-24 17:27:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think living with him in a year you will really know who is he!but i think you have reason why your still there!even you already catch his attitude towards on you.you cant go out on him because your afraid too.many people experiencing like that!but i think i can say to you that i like to live with a man who is responsible and important im happy on his side.if your not happy you should give him warning and then if it not come up.you better tell him seriously in a good and slowly explanation with all of your hearts.and you make an arrangement for your child.dont worry someday your child can understand everything if you slowly tell him the truth what happen w/u and his daddy.while he is young your child better know things about even its so complicated.so if he will grew up he cant say your a bad mom.
2006-06-24 17:44:09 · answer #7 · answered by robelyn m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey!! Haha, I think its the moody monster of pregnancy coming out and making you feel that way right now.. I know how it is... you really love him, but you hate how he won't understand you right now... I think the best thing is to tell him that... that he is just making you feel your worst right now. Sure, its happend before pregnancy... thats like "That time of the month" I know... i'm in the same position... I never wanted to face it... but I know its just that moody hormonal self coming out... I mean, I'm not sure about your case... but sit down and think about it... think about being with someone else... and think...about how weird it would feel.. you should feel connected to him, if you love him... If you think you may not love him... you need to do what makes you happy.. you can't subject yourself to a relationship your not happy in... life is too short to do that.
2006-06-24 17:27:25 · answer #8 · answered by The Great Pretender 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, that is just how Love is ... I know what You are going through You just have to hold on But always think of your children in all of this also... My husband has made some Big Mistakes but I Love him also and I always will ... In time bad things will pass and issues can only get better...
2006-06-24 17:26:17 · answer #9 · answered by stessie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he doing things that you told him over and over not to do? Or it could be that he is about to do something dumb and your radar caught it before it happened. All in all you are not going crazy and it could just be that you love him so much that sometimes you dislike him a whole lot.
2006-06-24 17:30:33 · answer #10 · answered by kei kei 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what your feeling but think long and hard do you love him because youve been with him so long and you feel secure or r u in love with him the kinda love wher e you can live with out him but u just dont want to . when your in love with some one there is no hate just love . when u r in love with some one u want to work things out not bolt when the going gets tough.
2006-06-24 18:57:44 · answer #11 · answered by wondering 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋