2006-06-24 16:33:41 · 15 answers · asked by blondiebella 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My man loves my curves too. I point out women who I think look great and he tells me they are too skinny!! No kidding!! At first I thought he was kinda just saying that, but over time I see he was telling the truth. He would love me if I lost weight, just as he would if I gained weight, but he really really likes me at the weight I am right now, which I think is about fifteen pounds heavier than I should be. The body measurement scale says I should be twenty five pounds less, but he says if I were that weight I would be more than too skinny, I would be way unhealthy in his opinion.
Look, there are many men who like their women to be women. With curves like women should have. There are men who like women to be so skinny they are anorexic. It is all subjective. Just be gratefull your man loves you as you are. I don't think he should be angry if you lost weight, he should love you for your soul, not what your butt does or does not look like at any given point in your lives together. If you got bigger would that upset him too? Ask him if he would be angry, or if he would no longer find you attractive, or if he loves your soul and the package it is in is just gravy. It is gravy for my man and I thank God for him every single day!!
Good luck and count your blessings that your husband loves your curves and is not one of those guys stuck on skin and bones. Blessed Be.
2006-06-24 16:52:13 · answer #1 · answered by Serenity 7 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Well, first of all most guys regardless of race tend to like some meat on their women, and if that means you have a nice a**, good for you. Also, the question you have to ask yourself is, do you want a smaller a**? If so, then I am sure he maybe a bit upset, but he is your hubby after all, and that means he has to be there through out all the changes you make to yourself, and each other. Lastly, from what I hear through the grapevine, men like cushion for their pushin' ....so why be upset, your lucky you have an a**, just imagine those poor girls who don't and the guys who may be bruised and in pain because of their significant other's boney a**?
2006-06-24 16:42:48 · answer #2 · answered by monavyas15 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two things, either he really like you to be thick or he wants you to be thick while he is buff.That will keep the guys from looking at you, or so he thinks.There are alot of men out there that love thick girls.Again, maybe your man is one of them.You know himbest and you need to decide that.
2006-06-24 16:41:21 · answer #3 · answered by missyandgordon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guy love big and thick butt. he is a butt man. why should he get angry tell him baby it will grow again.
2006-06-24 16:46:34 · answer #4 · answered by sweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is insecure with himself and feels that you would be more desirable to men if you lost just a little bit.
If you want a smaller back side then you should do what makes you happy.
2006-06-24 16:36:50 · answer #5 · answered by Extremely Evil 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
white men like thick butts too,but if you want to lose it hey why not
2006-06-24 16:43:11 · answer #6 · answered by jewels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am NOT trying to be mean here....but some guys dig fat chicks, whether it's your *** or otherwise...my brother does...and then some guys just fear change(lol)
2006-06-24 17:20:04 · answer #7 · answered by screwedover1motime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husbands about the same way... i'm tring to loose weight and he keeps telling me not too much
2006-06-24 16:49:01 · answer #8 · answered by sjeboyce 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe that's the main feature that he wanted on his female, which you have. What is it that you're asking?
2006-06-24 16:38:00 · answer #9 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's a butt man... I like my wife and her butt...it was one of the reasons i got with her... it's all godd ..don't sweat it...
2006-06-24 16:35:23 · answer #10 · answered by The Thinker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋