Marriage & Divorce - 19 June 2006

2006-06-19 02:30:42 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I got married to my wife in 10/05. Since then we have had are ups and downs. I love her but not as passionate as I did before. Well her sister in law came over one day with her cousin and we hit it off really well and found out we have alot in common. Well my wife is away on vacation and me and the cousin have been hanging out, we havent done anything. Anyway being with her makes me think did I marry the wrong woman. Also I cant stop thinking about her and find myself having feelings for this other woman. I dont know what to do.

2006-06-19 02:27:49 · 16 answers · asked by ogoisanogo 2

seems lately she has regressed, allways asking me what to do...what to wear... is this ok?? is that ok?? when shopping, she has to ask me iif it is ok to buy things we need,,, its like shes become a little kid again. waiting for my decisions and approval.
i didnt marry her to control her or decide for her, but lately she is
"affraid" to make her own decisions... shes 40, im 42, no kids,
well except for her new attitude...and its REALLY frustrating. now when we get up in the morning she'll sit there and wait for me to tell her something to do,or wait like a dog does at your feet....
its really annoying.

2006-06-19 02:23:51 · 23 answers · asked by t-boy 1

I'm 28 now but back when I was 22, I began seeing a man who was 29. We dated for 2 years and he wanted me to marry me. I wasn't ready. I just didn't feel he was the one. 6 months after we broke up, his dad died of cancer and my family and I went to the funeral home. We started emailing after that - just as a means of keeping in touch and saying hello, and about every 6 months one of us would write to the other. We never got together - it was just about seeing how the other person was doing. Last year I got married - when he first found out I was engaged, he sent me an email saying he was so happy for me, but after that we stopped writing. This year he is getting married so I sent him an email just to say congratulations and he never wrote me back. I take it we will no longer be emailing each other anymore? I guess I always thought I was the one for him, even if he wasn't the one for me.

2006-06-19 02:20:05 · 8 answers · asked by Rachel 7

2006-06-19 02:17:53 · 26 answers · asked by Dance06 1

2006-06-19 02:17:07 · 7 answers · asked by Dance06 1

I want to get divorce from my husband as soon as possible..how can I? We haven't been married for awhile so is it possible to annul the marriage?

2006-06-19 02:09:05 · 6 answers · asked by sweetgirl 2

need to raise some money by next week or sooner

2006-06-19 02:08:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend who is the only girl in her family wants to live a lonely life, she does not want to get married. I dont know which planet she is from. can u plz tell how i can motivate her towards getting married.
I asked what are the merits of staying lonely and she says she just wants to stay lonely, she enjoys that life. I just want her to get married and live a happy life. plz advice on importance of getting married.

2006-06-19 02:01:41 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Great person, but when confronted with his decision to end our marriage, I caught him in a lie about some "other" monies discovered. When confronted about it...he lied and said "it was spent a long time ago"...when in fact, I knew it was around just a few weeks ago. He had actually lied to me, and took the money for himself! When I confronted him with the fact that I KNEW he was lying, and that I had proof that he in fact was lying....he was completely surprised with the knowledge that I had. What happens to a man who turns this way? Did success do this to him? He was a "morally" incredible person in the beginning...can money really change people for the worse? How could he have even thought....that the money was all his....didn't he ever hear of "ours"??? Is there a man out there that could shed any light on this change in behavior - I am completely stumped! DID I LOVE A LIAR FOR FOR 21 YEARS???

2006-06-19 01:52:34 · 3 answers · asked by BabsinPA 1

2006-06-19 01:48:12 · 6 answers · asked by jan 1

WE HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 14 YEARS,HAVE 3 KIDS 5,9,11 WHO ARE SO IMPORTANT TO ME AND A NICE HOUSE AND LIFE UNTILL MY WIFE SUDDENLY WANTED ASEPARATION/DIVORCE .I AM SHELL SHOCKED AND AM NOT FUNCTIONING PROPERLY WHAT SHOULD I BE DOING TO SAVE MY+ MY KIDS FAMILY HOME AND HOW CAN I GET HER TO MOOVE OUT AS I FEEL SHE HAS GONE A BIT CRAZY SHE HAS BEEN IRRATIONAL,ANGRY, SUICIDAL WITH ACOUPLE OF OTHER MOODS THROWN IN AS WELL.IM TRYING TO SPEND A LOT OF QUALITY TIME WITH THE KIDS AND SHE REALLY RESENTS THAT.SHE HAS JUST TURNED 40 AND I DONT KNOW IF THIS IS HORMONAL -SHE IS ALSO ON ANTI DEPRESSANTS. WHAT SHOULD I DO ?

2006-06-19 01:43:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK, it makes your butt look big!

2006-06-19 01:37:30 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

we talked with a marriage counselor. that didn't work. i have not gained weight. i tried doing kinkly things. that didn't work. there is no other woman. he's not gay. said he's just not interested anymore. said he could do without it. i figure that's his choice...not mine.

2006-06-19 01:33:31 · 27 answers · asked by Cynamin 1

My wife and I separated for 2 months. We continued to talk everyday because we have a son. Well, she wanted to reconcile about 1 month ago, so I did...for the sake of my son, and I do still love her. She is in the military and she had several affairs and refused to have anything to do with me sexually. I had to beg her for any type of intimacy. Since we are back together, everything has been great. My son is so happy. Can I trust her? Is she faking this, because she is in financial dispair? My family is totally against this reunion.....but I have to do what is best for my son because she is in the military and I don't want him to loose a parent. What is your advice?

2006-06-19 01:19:06 · 11 answers · asked by tcnb1234 1

Just curious as to what I could do to help me not to think about my husbands past? The story is I met my husband when I was 16 he was 18, he was my first, whereas he has had other sexual partners, I cant help but get jealous of this, I often think about him with those other girls one of whom I know. They have no significance in our lives today but still its hard. we have been together for 5yrs, married for two, he is the love of my life, we have two kids together, I just cant seem to shake this off, what can I do???????

2006-06-19 01:14:23 · 12 answers · asked by ipreetynice 1

I split from my husband nearly 3 months ago after a very controlling relationship, and I finally got the courage to tell him to pack his bags and go (infact I packed them for him)

But since he keeps telling me that he loves me and our daughter, and that he has changed he bombards me with text messages saying that and he keeps asking me for a second chance, I have applied for a divorce due to the harassment and controlling behaviour.

He just doesn't seem to understand that I want out. What can I do?

2006-06-19 01:03:24 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

my wife complains that its too big.........please advise!!!!!!!!!!

2006-06-19 00:58:51 · 16 answers · asked by P W 1

2006-06-19 00:17:53 · 15 answers · asked by Harish K 1

say they are both good looking and make decent money
who would you prefer to marry and why?

2006-06-19 00:01:41 · 4 answers · asked by rekha c 3

He finally admitted to it, said he was bored and did it just for fun. We are going to counseling real soon. Do you think it will help? Has anyone had a similar situation with their spouse? (Background info.....his young sons in their 20's all found their spouses thru the internet.)

2006-06-19 00:00:06 · 6 answers · asked by justwannaknow 1