Friends - December 2007

New York Penpal?
Hi I am after a penpal from New York as we are studying the city at school. I really do not want to meet anyone over the internet as I have heard of some bad incidents from other people. But I was wondering if anyone alse could suggest any ideas of how to get in contact with someone?? I am a 14 year old girl and I live in New Zealand. Maybe through a school or something i'm not sure any ideas???Does anyone living in New York know a good school I could ask???And would the school think it was weird if some random from the other side of the world just emailed them and asked for a penpal?

PS : I have already asked my teacher if she could put me on to someone but she said it was not something our school did or something like that.

2007-12-24 10:30:00 · 10 answers · asked by adg 2

I have a friend on AIM that I've talked with since September. We talk at least once a week and we get along pretty well. Yet I have been noticing lately that I'm the one starting the conversations and doing most of the question asking. How can I get him to be the one to start the conversation, and what does it mean if he's allowing me to talk the most? Does it mean he doesn't want me chatting with him anymore? 'Cause IDK! I'm polite and all and we have some good laughs together.....but I just seem to always be the one to initiate the conversations on AIM nowadays.

2007-12-24 09:39:35 · 13 answers · asked by The Girl In Black [panic!] 5

i miss them alot plesae give me an answer to how stop thinking about them.

2007-12-24 09:32:58 · 9 answers · asked by nhi v 1

She was my aopted aunt whom i just adored and well she passed in october and this is there first x-mas without there mom and i want to say thew right thing and just feel ill land up with my foot in my mouth?

2007-12-24 08:36:33 · 7 answers · asked by cc 1

we get questions constantly if we are twins or sisters
but i honestly dont think we look alike.

what do youuuu say?

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thankss

2007-12-24 08:05:01 · 16 answers · asked by daniellesoda 2

2007-12-24 07:18:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is paddling appropriate?

Is grounding the answer?

Or both or neither?

2007-12-24 06:59:07 · 14 answers · asked by backtothepast 3

i was with a group of my classmates when one girl blurred out that this other girl that left the school cheated on her boyfriend. anyway so just recently i told the girl that she was talked about. but see the thing is im not that close to her nor am i close to the girl that blabbed. but both of them are close friends. was wat i did wrong?
and now she knows that it was one of her close friends. what do i do?

2007-12-24 06:54:19 · 1 answers · asked by Leena R 1

Let me know please with examples if you have some. Thanx in advance and MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!

2007-12-24 05:59:18 · 13 answers · asked by "Johns" 7

Now when i go clubbing i tend to go with a group of girls. Now i want to improve me dancing. I think i am an average dancer but my friends have said that i can dance very well when slightly tipsy. Now does this mean i have no confidence in m self? And how can i improve my dancing skills?

2007-12-24 05:57:32 · 3 answers · asked by Adam 3

Hi old folks, I'm french, my name's Leo and I would like to ask my question to your GRRREAT AND BEAUTIFUL COUNTRY ! I don't speack english very well but it's an honnour for me to talk to the first people over the world. Are you proud of it ? What do you think about frenchies, do you only think about them ? And accessoiry, is there an american girl who could fall in love with me ? I'm a professionnel specialist of french kiss, do you want to learn this delicat method together ? It's free for the 100 first answers... Scuse me for my many faults, have a nice Christmas and thank you for your kindly attention, LOVE YOU EVERYBODY, CHAMPAGNE POUR TOUT LE MONDE ET BAISEZ BIEN CETTE NUIT !!! Kisses from Paris... ^_^

2007-12-24 04:55:43 · 7 answers · asked by ☧irate du ♡ en croisière ♠☮♪ 7

This happened to me once. I was eating a salad (ceaser) and this guy at my school comes and yells my name then falls into the mall fountain.He runs back asking if i liked it....the next day he gets icecream and spills it on himself in front of me and asks if he should do it again only if i liked it.

2007-12-24 04:12:49 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

so my name is juliana, but not the way you are thinking. It sounds like "Huliana" because i am colombian and it is in spanish. Is my name ugly? because i get made fun of a lot. I used to think it was cool to have such a unique name but i just dont know anymore...

2007-12-24 03:27:55 · 33 answers · asked by hello lovely123 1

2007-12-24 02:36:49 · 4 answers · asked by Paulus 6

2007-12-24 02:30:38 · 40 answers · asked by Fruitful1 3

My friend never pays attention to me unless she wants something. Shes nice but shes a little self absorbed. She brags a lot. She also ditches me a lot 4 her older cousin. her cousin and I do NOT get along. ive talked to my friend about this but she just says im a friend stealer. mean, disrespectful, and self absorbed. Shes said a lot more on these same lines. I tried ending it once but she just started being nice and got me things. What do I do? I like her but she just makes me so mad. When her cousins not around shes nice. Im so confused. please help. Thanks.

2007-12-24 02:29:47 · 30 answers · asked by dream_sista 3

right here...right now...with what you have...where you are ( in life )...are you truelly happy?
And so, why?
If not...why not?

2007-12-24 02:21:53 · 28 answers · asked by if_shehadonlysaid_sorry 2

He's super controlling (ie: he calls her every 30 minutes to an hour, has planned out her entire career path for her, etc), disrespectful (he's always going on and on about how women think he's so sexy or he'll say another girl's butt is so big and juicy and ask if we agree) and he calls me to arrange for me, him and my friend to hang out (wtf?)

Whenever my friend and I are hanging out with the girls, he invites himself along or just "shows up" at the place we're going.

BUT none of this seems to bother my friend. She seems very happy with him. The two recently got engaged. How can I make myself like him?

2007-12-24 02:08:53 · 46 answers · asked by Original_Syn 6

2007-12-24 01:21:44 · 8 answers · asked by nomorecapri 5

There are so many kinds of love:

*Puppy Love
*Love at First Sight
*Love at First Met
*Love at First Voice

and so many more...

To myself, I know that this is LOVE...
but when I ask others, they say that it's just "INFATUATION"...
I'm not confused, I really know that I love this GUY...and not just ADMIRE or INFATUATED...

Any advice?

2007-12-23 20:49:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friends roommate is a big cry baby, he complains about everything. my friend buys a 30 pack of beer comes home from work and there might be 7 beers left. he buys pepsi well that gets drank all up too. my friends roommate has a son and now the son must come over every weekend and be on my friends computer and internet from 6pm Friday till 4pm Sunday the house is already paid for. electric and water is all my friends roommate pays. my friend does have the cable in his name because his roommate owes $200 from a past bill. My friend wanted to move December but his roommate cryed about not giving him notice. well this is quite funny when my friend wants to move and everything is paid up, his roommate comes with the I need a 30 days notice speech. but if he don't get his rent on the 1st he's all about you gotta move soon speech. now the rent is cheap but my friends roommate acts like it's $3000 dollars when its only around $300 bucks a month. I could understand if he was 3 months late????

2007-12-23 20:48:35 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-23 20:48:03 · 2 answers · asked by tom 1

I am 16 year old kid but i look like im in my 20's. Anyway that's not the point. The thing is im very lonely. Not that i dont have any friends but i dont want to give them the impression that im really desperate becuase they never call and i always have to be the one to call them. I do call a couple of friends though and they too call back but the ones that are really fun to hang out with never call. This boredom is really driving me crazy.

2007-12-23 20:46:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I always do nice things for my friends. Today I really needed this friend to show that she cared because I felt that it was just me giving and her taking.

I work nights, but I still find time to bring her soup when she's sick, coffee randomly in the morning at work, lunch randomly as well...She always appreciates it.

She told me she was out tonight, I wanted her to get me a coffee on her way home. When I called she pressed "ignore" on her phone and I got her voicemail (you know, the one ring and then right into the voicemail)...I told her that I felt really crappy and that it would make me feel so much better if she could get me a cup of coffee. I dind't get a response, so I texted her twice....still no response. She's told me that she doesn't pick up or call back if she doesn't feel like it.

On top of that, I spent an hour today looking for a cd that she couldn't find. And I got the stupid cd too. I am really mad at her right now. Do I have a right to be mad?

2007-12-23 20:38:23 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2 months ago i saw one of my old friends M

we used to go to the same school, and we kept in contact

while she was here i went to sanity and bought an AFI cd

every since she read the lyrics of some of there songs, she absolutly completey HATES them

hates the message she thinks there trying to send out, where she is completely wrong

anyway, that wasnt too big of an issue

a few days ago on msn, i asked her to listen to one of there songs, and she said NO and made it perfectly clear that she doesnt want anything to do with them

i say look, its just a song i dont lke niklebak (her fave band) but i would listen to one of there songs because i respect that you like them

then it has turned into a whole Y cant you accept that thats te kind of music i like

now i dont noe wether to apologise or cut it off, cause we never really talk without nothing to talk about

what should i do. i kinda vaue her as a friend, but it burns me up that she cant respect my choices

2007-12-23 20:24:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-23 20:08:38 · 6 answers · asked by ADITHYA G 1

2007-12-23 18:51:53 · 3 answers · asked by moonlight 2

how can i ask one of my best friends if she wants to be friends with benifits with me?
we are super close and i know if we were to be friends with benifit nothing between us would change.
i can talk to her about anything.
we always talk bout sex and stuff and it never gets akward.
and we were talking one time and she said that if i got her a friend with benifits for christmas that would be the best gift ever. and i told her that i think that would be the reatest present ever too. and i dont know if she was dropping a hint or something.
i want to ask her but i dont know how to ask her.
what are some ways that i can ask her to be friends with benifits with me?

2007-12-23 18:50:29 · 7 answers · asked by blah127 1

We'd known each other in the past and been close friends, there was some kind of unexplainable bond but it never went any farther than friendship even though we might have cared much more than that.

Life went on, I'm out of a relationship for over a year now, he's in one currently...we hadn't talked for a couple of years but now we've been e-mailing about twice a week regularly for several months now. He's mentioned his girlfriend once or twice, basically to tell me he has one; but past that doesn't breathe a word about her.

We don't talk on the phone, and haven't seen each other, we don't flirt with each other - but there is this real connection and like, emotionally intimate feeling to our e-mails.

He's always been a pretty gaurded guy, and runs deep anyway, and it was implied that something about me freaked him out emotionally in the past and he didn't act on anything.

I haven't crossed any boundries and won't. He says his girlfriend knows he has female

2007-12-23 18:42:50 · 2 answers · asked by Cedar_2006 3

We're like family, and all of the sudden she stopped answering my calls. Usually when I call my friend, she always answered the phone and nowadays they aren't answering. I know they are home because that's all they do is stay home and drink. However on my last visit with them, there was a strange feeling in the room. It's that feeling you get when you know somebody has just finished talking about you. When she left for work, she basically said bye to everyone except me. She doesn't look like she is upset with me, but I have a gut feeling my presence is no longer needed.

I used to hang out with them everyday, largely because I used to drink with them. (Thank you to the Yahoo Answeres by the way/ I've been sober for four months because of your advice.) Ever since I started losing weight and stopped partying with them it seems like the are more stand-offish with me. Am I hallucinating?

2007-12-23 18:27:45 · 5 answers · asked by yayaquack 4