I am 16 year old kid but i look like im in my 20's. Anyway that's not the point. The thing is im very lonely. Not that i dont have any friends but i dont want to give them the impression that im really desperate becuase they never call and i always have to be the one to call them. I do call a couple of friends though and they too call back but the ones that are really fun to hang out with never call. This boredom is really driving me crazy.
2007-12-23 20:46:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First do an analysis of urself and emphathise with your friends.
Ask urself questions like
1. Why dont they call me?
Possible answers may be
1. they dont want to disturb you
2. They see you as different from them (In the sense you dont like to do the things that they do - Drinking, Smoking etc)
3. You are highly respected, and they dont want to involve you in certain stuff that might destroy that respect
4. Someone is pressuring others not to get involved with you
etc etc..
Anaylse urself and see.. Then put ureslf as one of the cool guys, and ask urself, what I need to do to be more fun..
Remeber, people like outgoing people. If u sit back and keep silent, there is a high possibility that no one will take you to fun things
Its all about attitude.. Keep doing the things you do best, and people will see u in a different light
2007-12-23 20:58:14 · answer #1 · answered by Mani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make new friends....
join a gym
take karate
start a hobby
join a special interest group
volunteer at an animal shelter
invite a friend to lunch or a move
ask someone out who doesn't seem like your type
start walking or jogging where others do (you might meet some new people)
walk your dog there too! girls like dogs.
if you think of things to do which will occupy your free time when you can't be with friends, you will feel much better.
take care.
2007-12-23 20:51:53 · answer #2 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats the same with me, I have lots of friends but they are not my friends. It always seem like I always put myself so low. I'm always the one calling and emailing them and all they do is respond. I always ask them to go to places with me and they do it behind my back. I'm always the one saying hi first and they would never say hi to me like that. I seem to worry that they dont value me as much as I value them.. It sucks....
anyways, you could try making new ones. They'll come to you and you'll get better friends. Right now I am looking for more. I found only a close friend but I know I could get so much better and I hope everyday for the one I want.
2007-12-23 20:54:28 · answer #3 · answered by christy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yup i hv tat pro. 2.... jux do something else
2007-12-24 00:17:54 · answer #4 · answered by lexRyuichi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋