Friends - December 2007

ok so i feel as if all my friends at school r some wat fake.
they talk about me behind my back etc. but then again i have a lot of true friends which i luv.
But these last few months school has gotten harder..my bestfriends are making new friends wich i think is great..but they are forgetting about me.
so i want to move. I live in Indiana and my aunt lives in indy so i want to move down with her next year. But thing is i havenot tlked to my parents about it. and it might be hard for me to say goodbye to my bestest friends. idk wat to do help my plz?!?

2007-12-26 01:59:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

This girl and I were close. We have dinners, lunches, both called in sick at work several times to spend the day together. I try to do nice things, bring her coffee occasionally, lunch, soup if she's sick.

The other day I was bummed, she was out, so I asked if she could bring me coffee on her way back (first time ever). I am 5 minutes from her, I didn't think I was putting her out. She ignored my call (you know one ring, then voicemail), so I left a message saying it would cheer me up if she did. No response, so I sent a text, if she can't then let me know. Nothing.

I was upset and hurt, she definately had her phone on her, so I wrote her an e mail, not an angry one, but an honest one.

She called me the next day, and was angry, her voice was echoing in the background she was yelling so loud. And then she started crying. She said she didn’t have her phone on her (She did when I met up with her 4 hours before) and that she was too tired to text back when she got home.

2007-12-26 01:33:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

unable to do that cus can not recall sername but thanks

2007-12-26 01:27:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay... this girl used to be my friend... yahhh... we were close... then on my b-day i kinda liked her... but i didn't tell it 2 her yet bcoz i plan to tell it 2 her in about a week or 2.. in which i expect us to be close friends... yahhh she likes me too... then 2 days we had sum solo tym... and that nyt her friend asked me if i like her and i said no (i disliked her that nyt)... the nxt day she said she confesd that she lykd me... a week later i confessed too... but the nxt week she hated me lyk hell... and her reason is 'you made me....' ... but i always giv her complements... but now she wont tok 2 me... and her whole section hates me... aww help... i just wanna b friends w/ her again... this is an SOS

2007-12-26 00:28:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I’ve always felt more like girl than a boy and I’ve been afraid to tell anyone. I sent off for information on the internet from a councellor I found on through the web, I didn’t tell her my true age and she sent me lots of letters and suggested I could take hormones. I bought them off her last year telling my parents I had ordered vitamins and have been taking them for 9 months I stopped taking them last month because of the the problems the changes they have made are getting impossible to hide I’ve been hiding the breast development with baggy clothes at school and changing in the toilets , hiding myself at home. I stopped taking them a month ago and the changes are continuing, my beard growth has stopped completely. Will it all the changes stop now I’ve stopped taking them?

2007-12-25 23:39:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

what if your best friend of 7 years suddenly told you that he loves YOU??? BUT you are both committed???

2007-12-25 23:30:40 · 14 answers · asked by _onlybabygrl_ _ 1

We are going to my friend's house first so i still get to see my friends but we're going to his friends after...
But...
I don't know them very well i've only met them a couple of times and I feel i can't really be involved in the conversation they spend a lot of the time talking about high school etc (we're all around 21-23 yrs old btw)...
Any advice for how I could not make it look like i'm bored?
It's just that my boyfriend and I want to be together at midnight because it's special and all!!

2007-12-25 22:41:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a "friend" and I don't really like her. She annoys the crap out of me. She always calls me and ALWAYS wants to hang out. She thinks we are pretty good friends, but she dosen't even know me becasue I can't really be myself around her cause she is super sensitive. She gets offended easily but treats others badly and thinks it's ok. She trys to be the center of attention way too often.
I would totally dismiss her but our husbands are really good friends.
Any advice?

2007-12-25 22:22:53 · 11 answers · asked by wxyz 4

A woman at work who I was good friends with has recently just completely switched off and now ignores me... how can someone do that?

Background... she had an abusive husband who she left at the end of 2006, she came back to work and she and I were already friends but she became my close friend, with her relying alot on my strength and support, which was fine and we were, I thought, good close friends - best friends in my view as she shared her life with me and I with her... anyway, she moved over to a new office in November, and I went over to the same office a couple of weeks later, and all of a sudden now she behaves as if she doesn't know me; ignores me, doesn't say hello, doesn't want to have lunch with me anymore.

I have agonized over what I might have done, but there is nothing. It hurts me as she was someone who I cared about and would have walked on coals to make her smile and now, she just ignores me. Am I right to resent her? I've asked what's wrong but she says "nothing".

2007-12-25 21:02:24 · 5 answers · asked by Harry Harrison 3

My friend her name is emily and he eats ALOT and shes really skinny. I'm wondering if thats normal. She ate like 8 pieces of pizza and losted a pound. Then my other friend cori shes really skinny and she doesn't at heathly AT ALL. She always brings to lunch cereal, candy, chocolate [everyday], she also brings fast food and she eat very little and I'm worried about her because she doesn't eat healthy and shes very kind and loyal and I don't want anything to happen to her. I'm just wondering if this is normal and what will happen or happening to my friends.

2007-12-25 18:47:29 · 11 answers · asked by ¿Asian?™ 2

i have a friend she is very hot n sexy.i love her. even she knows. bt she already has boy friend.but i then to care of her. i have seen her many times with her bos he will be puting hand on her waist and rubing,touching her and he drops her to her house.and if i give any tng she dst take but ifsome one else gives anything she takes and haves it.plz sugest me plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

2007-12-25 18:28:09 · 9 answers · asked by arun.u a 1

i had beentalkng to dis guy for 2 yrs nw we wer frds .istarted loving him share lot of things sometimes i got various hints wen i knew dt he loves me too but dnt know wt holds him back to say that.he sys nw dt he is gettng married after 2 months nd he wud like me to be in his life as a frd coz he dsnt wnt to loose me but when i said i love you he said i never felt dt for u ever...wt does he meant by all dis shud i keep dis frdship for ever .i know i wnt be able to coz i love him so much nd wud like him to be wid me forever.he said dis is d last time hes taklkng to me nd tc when i tld him i cnt continue d frship as i wnt mre..

2007-12-25 18:16:39 · 20 answers · asked by SUNNY 2

2007-12-25 18:12:03 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-25 16:24:56 · 8 answers · asked by friendly person 1

I have a best friend that I really like. We are always together and really touchy feely, and I like that. I want to move further sometime when we are alone together, but he has a gf. They have only been together a month and its a really weird relationship....everyone expects they will break up soon. But would it be ok for us to do anything and not mention it publicly until they break up?

2007-12-25 15:48:20 · 13 answers · asked by notcrazyunwell 3

2007-12-25 15:39:24 · 8 answers · asked by goodguy4u63 2

My family is not near & I didn't want to travel to see them. Also I don't have REAL friends only associates.

I was not depressed about spending Christmas alone. In fact I was content and enjoyed the day relaxing and reflecting.

However I feel the need to lie when people ask me what I did for Christmas. Why is that?

I know they will say something like "aww" or "that's sad" and make it seem like a pathetic pitiful thing when I don't feel that it is. And they will ask if I have friends or family. Even though I'm cool with it, I actually think it does sound pathetic to says that you have no friends and don't feel like seeing your family.

How can I respond in this situation?

2007-12-25 14:15:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Help.
i like this guy. he has a girlfriend tho. he flirts in a weird way... i flirt bck. we text/aim each other ALOT and we talk in class.he talks to his girlfriend sometimes.... shes in a differnt grade...9th or something like that. theyve been going out for bout two months. he text me and says hes board when he hangs out with his gf. i think bout him ALL the time. he knos i like him.... my friend asked him[without my permission] if he like me and he said. donno.... ? waht does that REALLY mean. i hve no idea.... but i really like him.... ohh and all my friends and some of his friends say we would look cute together. hes tall-im tall-both brown hair- both blue eyes..... and we have alot in common. please help...... does he like me? does he just hink of me as a friend? what should i do.....

2007-12-25 13:43:16 · 7 answers · asked by babe! 2

well ive got this friend, who ive recently gotten into a fight with. and they really really want to become friends again. and i dont know what to do because i have this reall bad gut feelings that i shouldnt, so your opinions, follow my gut feeling, or ignor it?

2007-12-25 13:31:23 · 8 answers · asked by jess:) 2

well, my bff (or not) likes to brag in my face. i wan't her to stop, but i'm terribly shy, so i don't know what to do. i don't like 2 b a snich, or a tattle-tale. and i don't wan't 2 b remembered by that.
what do i do?

2007-12-25 13:12:10 · 6 answers · asked by stephziviski 2

That i hate her? and everything she does? and her boyfriend? and how she treats me?

2007-12-25 11:40:32 · 12 answers · asked by ? 1

I had this guy friend who I really liked and the way he was around me and with me he seemed to like me too, so after a while I wrote him a message on myspace and told him that I liked him as more that a friend. Then you can tell when people have read the message you sent them, so when I checked I noticed he had read and I waited a few days and he never answered me, so I sent him another one saying that I hope I didn't ruin any firendship we had by telling him how I felt. He wrote me back and said that he was just really busy at the time and didn't have time for a gf. Did he really mean that or was that just a way of telling me he didn't like me?

2007-12-25 10:23:07 · 23 answers · asked by sweetprincess6001 1

Ok, so I've known this girl for a couple of years. The problem is, she the best friend-almost like a sister-of an ex of mine. The ex and I haven't been together for almost 8 years. I asked what my ex thought and she is strongly against it. Should I leave the idea of dating this other girl alone or pursue it??

2007-12-25 10:21:52 · 13 answers · asked by TacoBox 2

I'm in high school right now. My ex best friend hates me and wants to beat me up. Apparently, rumors has it; I called her *****. What do I do? Do I fight her for self-defense? Do I snitch? What should I do?

2007-12-25 09:44:11 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

if she looks at me when she talks if she comes to your house and your somewhere else doing something else and she asks always where am i and she calls my name always for no reason and tells me something that is nonsense just to talk to me if she laughs and smiles and looks at you normal like sometimes you feel love sometimes you feel nothing sometimes she ignores you but more she looks at you and laughs wants to talk to me a lot if there are a lot of friends hanging out and she looks at me and says sweet names to me and she still want to talk to me what does it mean? the real thing is that shes 28 and im 15 lol PLEASE ANSWERGUYS im not kiding sometimes she acts like shes in love with me sometimes i get that in her eyes its a feeling that she likes me GUYS HELP ME OUT and every time she laughs she always looks at me and 1more thing shes bisexual and has a boyfriend and im a girl so what you think guys does she likes me has a crush on me or does she likes me like a friend help me out her

2007-12-25 09:40:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I feel like he's just constantly doing me favours by spending time with me...

When we do get together, our whole meeting is interrupted: his phone won't stop ringing, and everything is timed according to when he has to leave. Our meetings last no longer than an hour, and between all of the interruptions, we barely have any time to be friends. When it's time for him to leave, he gets nervous and rushes me out.

I haven't complained at all to him about it, but he senses my disappointment (even though it seems like he thinks other things in life are getting me sad). I understand he's busy, but I feel that he's forgotten about me...

He constantly pushes me away... It feels like we're becoming distant from one another.

What should I tell him?
Keep in mind that probably nothing will change in his behaviour.

Should I let him go?...

2007-12-25 08:53:18 · 18 answers · asked by --- 2

and they've tried counciling, pills, talking, God, exersise, doctors, a specialalist (basically done everything it says depressed people should do and it still does **** all/made things worse)

2007-12-25 08:52:12 · 25 answers · asked by hermit 4

hes told me how hes felt but i feel the same but havent told him he knows my past relationships with guys have been users and i want to tell him but iam afraid i want to tell him how i feel sunday we were in the lving room and his g/f in the showere he leaned over and kissed me and then just aas he stopped his g/f peeked quick and had asked if we had been kissing we both said no.how do i tell him how i feel.

2007-12-25 08:38:26 · 3 answers · asked by sweet_smile872000 1

Ok, so i used to be friends with this girl, then decided that i didn't want to be her friend anymore for various reasons. She was just so annoying and bratty. So i got my other friend to tell her that I didn't want to be friends anymore. Now whenever she sees me, she gives me this sad puppy dog look. Then she gives me this evil death stare like she wants to kill me. It's really getting on my nerves because she just can't move on like other people, and find new friends. What can I do to make her stop staring at me? It's starting to get creeppy.

2007-12-25 08:35:15 · 22 answers · asked by campergirl95 2

2007-12-25 08:21:46 · 8 answers · asked by bubbanaruto 1