I'm in high school right now. My ex best friend hates me and wants to beat me up. Apparently, rumors has it; I called her *****. What do I do? Do I fight her for self-defense? Do I snitch? What should I do?
2007-12-25 09:44:11 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I didn't call are a ***** or anything. I was just a stupid rumor and she was dumb enough to actually believe it.
2007-12-25 09:58:20 · update #1
run far away and never come back. or just fight her
2007-12-25 09:47:22 · answer #1 · answered by Bud 2 · 1⤊ 4⤋
More and more girls are fighting these days...How sad that is. This is what you do first. Go up to her and say I did not call you *****. Then say did you know when 2 people are talking about another with them not there to set the record straight that is gossip. Then say if you hate me so be it. I see no purpose in hurting each other. Smile hold your hand out, say let's end this by a handshake and go about our day, As you say that you smile, shake hands, have a good day and walk away. Do all of the above in a calm nice voice. Oh by the way, take her aside to do it in private...
2007-12-25 17:54:54 · answer #2 · answered by Cinnamon 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her to bring it or step off. But what ever you do don't snitch cause it will only make it worse and if you fight make sure SHE throws the first punch, that way when you stomp her into the ground you can say it was self defence.
2007-12-25 17:49:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
If she was really your best friend at one time then call her up and find out what is going on. Straighten out the situation and if that doesn't help then go to her parents and arrange a meeting.
2007-12-25 17:55:56 · answer #4 · answered by logsdodl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You said that they were rumors, it might not be true. If it is, always be around a group and don't do anything alone where there is no people to wittness anything.
2007-12-25 18:08:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fight her for self defense....You don't want to snitch then everyone would want to beat you up for snitching like a little girl.
2007-12-25 17:47:33 · answer #6 · answered by Flying High 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Depends...If You Think She Will Win Then Just Avoid Her...Or Else Just Fight Her as "self Defense..." Wut ever you do do Not Snitch! I Hate People That Do that...And Alot Of Other People Do Too...
2007-12-25 17:56:52 · answer #7 · answered by pink_is_perfect13 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can try to make friends with her and, tell her how you feel or you can tell an adult what is going on because it could be life threatning or you can go with her instincts and, approach her and beat her up before she touches you or, ignore her and, run home and move on with your life or, just transfer and, move to another home. your choice.
2007-12-27 19:52:08 · answer #8 · answered by Aaliyah fan 4 ever! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to her on the phone. If this is true and you can not talk to her and work it out,then go to your parents and tell them.After all they will have to pay the Doctor bills if your hurt. If you can not do this try your school council-er.May be your Priest or Clergy.Don't lower yourself to fighting like a thug or a hoe.
2007-12-25 17:53:28 · answer #9 · answered by lotteda717 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
IF you're a girl, tell on the teacher, parents, principal, police, anyone that could be of help, and only fight if she's already punching you, but try to avoid the fight if possible.
if you're a guy fight it out like a man.
2007-12-25 17:48:39 · answer #10 · answered by King Of Utopia 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
she may be all hot air...but do you have a cell phone...if she wants to...tell her you will file a complaint at the police department and she may end up on the inside looking out....don't let her bully you....stay with people...don't let her get you alone where she can try something....let her know you are not going to take crap from anyone and that she will pay if she wants to try it....it's a free world out there.....
2007-12-25 17:54:26 · answer #11 · answered by lanek 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋