ok so i feel as if all my friends at school r some wat fake.
they talk about me behind my back etc. but then again i have a lot of true friends which i luv.
But these last few months school has gotten harder..my bestfriends are making new friends wich i think is great..but they are forgetting about me.
so i want to move. I live in Indiana and my aunt lives in indy so i want to move down with her next year. But thing is i havenot tlked to my parents about it. and it might be hard for me to say goodbye to my bestest friends. idk wat to do help my plz?!?
2007-12-26 01:59:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
In life,there is always pain
We hav to get over it and done with it
We always go thru new experiences
Its ok to make new frens,hav a new environment
Noones perfect,my frens are also like that
Best is you yourself dun gossip,never!
Make sure you guys hav lots of fun outings
2007-12-26 02:03:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your situation and thoughts are very similar to an employee of an organization that has grown very dissatisfied with the way the company is run. The boss and supervisors are bad, policy is unfriendly, etc, so the employee quits (often in a huff) and goes to some other company. But within a few years, he/she realizes that the new company has problems too, just a different set of problems, but problems never the less. I guess what I'm trying to say is that leaving one locale and going elsewhere 'might' give you greater happiness, but it also might now. Those people you speak of are everywhere. It's really going to take an adjustment in your own thinking and perspective on life to deal with it for the rest of your life. Find something that works for you. Expect there will be more like them. That you cannot change. Internally you may find the right formula for coping.
2007-12-26 02:07:01 · answer #2 · answered by nothing 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well first off you really should not want to move because of the friends because you will find in life that situation is going to happen no matter where you live so moving really wont make a difference its a good thing to care about your friends and having them but if they are acting like fake friends id say go on with your life and sit back and see how they treat these new friends and that will tell you the kind of person they are also keep this in mind friends will come and go in life no matter what you say go ask anyone that's 25 or older and ask them how many of the friends they had in school do they hang out with i bet most of them will say not many if at all what you need to do is concentrate more on your school work instead that's what is going to make everything easier
thanks
the iron man
2007-12-26 02:07:51 · answer #3 · answered by iron9567 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've moved oftan. I've learned that you may find one somewhat good friend,but frankly at that age in school they are still learning about themselves and are still looking for themselves threw being around differant people, kind of seing how there life would be if they were like there's. None the less you still have time to change many times before you become YOU. Moving will only put you in the same spot, you just wont notice till the wow of a new friend wears off. Just take it as it came's and don't loss you. Sometimes no friends are good!
2007-12-26 02:10:07 · answer #4 · answered by valadomer 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, do not move because your school year is getting increasingly difficult because of your so called friends. Your true friends will understand and support you..your fake friends...well they found what they believe to be a better replacement for you = don't worry about it...they are not worth your true time.
Trust me...moving also brings new challenges and sometimes the people are different by way of how they receive you. The grass is not always greener on the other side.
2007-12-26 02:04:47 · answer #5 · answered by truintexas 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have so many fake friends . Can't able to find a true one. Everyone using me only. Every time I feel alone. Other thing is we should not expect anything from anyone
2016-04-11 01:09:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think moving really solves your problem. If your best friends are making new friends and forgetting about you, then you need to go and make new best friends. But you don't have to move to do this.
Just be yourself and spend some time with other people at school. You will make new friends and maybe even some of your old best friends will come back to you, you never know. People change and you have a lot of growing to do. Focus your attention on making new friends, not moving to another city.
2007-12-26 02:05:05 · answer #7 · answered by MJ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
High school is hard for "friends" there is something in everyone to like or dislike. Now is the time others around you are trying to find people they like and unfortunately, they may say or agree with others in this search. Be true to yourself. And don't let the little things -like less time with those that talk behind your back- bother you, they weren't your friends.
2007-12-26 02:08:02 · answer #8 · answered by v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Sweetie,
I don't know how your parents are going to react if you decide to move, but I can say that you need to sort out problems right now, you're not moving immediately anyway.
First, speak to your friends, have a proper chat and show them how you feel about the situation. |Stress that you are not jealous about them making new friends, but would like to start a friendship with them too.
Good luck!
2007-12-26 02:06:40 · answer #9 · answered by mikoashinakowu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am happy in my life and lifestyle.
Avoid drama and do not really care what people have to say about me. They have an adjenda.
They want the drama.
I move on.
So never let a person undermine your stability or lifestyle
2007-12-26 02:27:01 · answer #10 · answered by Michael M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋