Ok, so i used to be friends with this girl, then decided that i didn't want to be her friend anymore for various reasons. She was just so annoying and bratty. So i got my other friend to tell her that I didn't want to be friends anymore. Now whenever she sees me, she gives me this sad puppy dog look. Then she gives me this evil death stare like she wants to kill me. It's really getting on my nerves because she just can't move on like other people, and find new friends. What can I do to make her stop staring at me? It's starting to get creeppy.
2007-12-25 08:35:15 · 22 answers · asked by campergirl95 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ok so people have been telling me how mean it was to get my other friend to tell her that i diden't want to be friends anymore. Let me explain this clearer. My other friend(let's call her Jill) has a few classes with her(let's call her Mary). So one day Mary comes up to Jill and askes her she knows whether or not i'm friends with her or not. Jill says no, and tells Mary that she'll find out and tell her tomorrow. So whan Jill sees me, she askes me if I'm still friends with Mary.and i say no im not. so the next day when Jill sees me again she says i told Mary that u weren't her friend anymore and now she's like really pissed. then Mary started staring at me.
2007-12-25 11:17:59 · update #1
just tell her off. your freindship is already broken no use worrying about her feelings anymore
2007-12-25 08:37:57 · answer #1 · answered by Paper 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If she really seems to have mental health problems, the best thing you can do for is to bring it to the attention of a teacher, counselor or principal at your school, giving them specific examples of behaviors you have seen that suggests something is wrong.
If she doesn't seem to have that issue, but is just odd or different, My opinion is that you might want to find some empathy and compassion for her. You don't have to be her friend, but you might want to be kind and respectful. If you ended your friendship with someone through a third party, there are two possible explanations for her reaction to you. One, the person who communicated might not have told her what you think. Two, the ex-friend might not understand even if she was given the real reasons. It might help her if you will have an honest conversation face-to-face (probably with a neutral 3rd person present for your safety). If she can understand the specific types of behavior that leads to these consequences, maybe she'll be motivated to work on changing her behavior. PEACE
2007-12-25 16:52:03 · answer #2 · answered by livingwell 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok 1st of all she hurt you don't really know how your friend broke it to her she probably feels dissed you should have nicely fazed her out your life become to busy you know what i mean then tell her you have so many things going on in your life and you didn't want to take it out on her .but that doesn't matter now if your tired of her looking at you like that you must call her up and talk straight up with out hurting her tell her it was too much on you to remain friends without hurting her a very nice way that it was beginning to physically wear you out and you need time to focus on your own life.by the way i had the same problem not a bratty person but other circumstances so I tried the 1st way then i had to talk to her .
2007-12-25 16:44:26 · answer #3 · answered by sweetface 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow you sure are acting mean. Think about the way that you ended your friendship. You had your friend tell another friend that you don't want to be her friend anymore? That is very immature.
Time to grow up. Don't be a bully. Start treating people the same way you expect to be treated.
2007-12-25 16:39:20 · answer #4 · answered by hmmm... 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ok your first mistake was getting your friend to give her the message, it shows immaturity on your part; you should have been the one to tell her what you wanted to say. Just tell her politley to stop staring at you and that you find it creepy. Good luck
2007-12-25 16:38:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well that was really really mean for you to make your friend tell her that you dont like her or want to be her freind anymore shes probly upset. And you can unless you just apoligise and then just be nice and dont hang out with her as much and dont treat her like your best friend but as a friend. And remeber that what you did was wrong i would never like that if my friend did that to me.....Allie
2007-12-25 16:39:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would just ignore her she will most likeley go away if she doesnt say something to her like what are you looking at or you could take a nicer approach like are we ok and just explain to her your problems with her if none these work i dont know what to tell ya.
2007-12-25 16:39:17 · answer #7 · answered by balleryeahright32 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well you should never have someone else do your dirty work for you. But the best thing that you can do now is to go up to her and tell her what she's doing is bothering you. If this doesn't work talk to an adult to get them to help you.
2007-12-25 16:39:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just ignore her, people like that need help. I had a friend who I decided I'd outgrown too, and it isn't easy. She'll move on eventually, but if she's anything like my ex-friend, chances are she'll never grow up.
2007-12-25 16:39:30 · answer #9 · answered by Joker 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well you are the one that ended the friendship so she is hurt. She got mixed feelings of hurt and mad feelings. so Just avoid her then. Stop leading her on to believe that you will take her back and just avoid her as much as possible then.
2007-12-25 16:40:11 · answer #10 · answered by alexia 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just talk with her that you do not like her. Tell her directly and do not use other friend as a medium. If you can explain her then I think she would realise you.
2007-12-25 16:39:48 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋