how can i ask one of my best friends if she wants to be friends with benifits with me?
we are super close and i know if we were to be friends with benifit nothing between us would change.
i can talk to her about anything.
we always talk bout sex and stuff and it never gets akward.
and we were talking one time and she said that if i got her a friend with benifits for christmas that would be the best gift ever. and i told her that i think that would be the reatest present ever too. and i dont know if she was dropping a hint or something.
i want to ask her but i dont know how to ask her.
what are some ways that i can ask her to be friends with benifits with me?
2007-12-23 18:50:29 · 7 answers · asked by blah127 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
how can i ask one of my best friends if she wants to be friends with benifits with me?
we are super close and i know if we were to be friends with benifit nothing between us would change.
i can talk to her about anything.
we always talk bout sex and stuff and it never gets akward.
and we were talking one time and she said that if i got her a friend with benifits for christmas that would be the best gift ever. and i told her that i think that would be the greatest present ever too. and i dont know if she was dropping a hint or something.
i want to ask her but i dont know how to ask her.
what are some ways that i can ask her to be friends with benifits with me?
2007-12-23 19:01:18 · update #1
I just got out of a friends with benefits relationship so I feel that I am a bit of an expert at this now. I did not have sex with this guy but we were well on our way, and he was definitely willing (I am a virgin and wanted to wait). I can say without a doubt the FWB is a horrible idea and will without a doubt ruin a friendship.
That said, i don't think you can "ask" her to be your FWB partner. I think it is something you stumble into. You kind of just have to make a move and see how it works. With what you've said, I think she'll like it.
2007-12-23 18:56:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there really is no way to make it easy. One thing you can always try is that gradually try and hint in that you think she is attractive, make little comments here and there, and then just slowly show your interest. After a while just try and see if something happens.
2007-12-23 18:54:37 · answer #2 · answered by crazy ed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like she was hinting at you to be her FWB.
You should just come out and ask her- "so, when you said you wanted FWB, were you hinting that you wanted it to be me?" "Because I was thinking we could try it out, and if it isn't cool, we won't do it anymore". "What do you think?"
That's how I would do it, but I'm a pretty forward person sometimes.
Good Luck!
2007-12-23 18:56:38 · answer #3 · answered by idahostudios 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are absolutely wrong. Things will change, especially if one of you falls in love with the other.
2007-12-23 18:55:29 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
f**king always changes everything.
2007-12-23 18:54:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
what do you mean by "benifitd"
2007-12-23 18:55:33 · answer #6 · answered by Lilly 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont ask, just drug.
2007-12-23 18:54:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋