Friends - July 2007

I am having friend troubles. I've had the same best friend for 6 years and am finding out she's not who I thought she was. I was by her side when she had her first kiss and a couple weeks later she lost her virginity! Ugh. She's completely changing, mostly due to her new found "friends". The rest of my friends aren't the best either.. It's really hard to just start over and make new friends though.
If anybody has advice I would really appreciate it.

2007-07-28 16:06:24 · 3 answers · asked by DanaV 5

2007-07-28 15:49:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i always get embaressed, who has the same issues like me??

2007-07-28 15:46:45 · 32 answers · asked by Nakshe 3

I have a problom I need hair ideas my dream boy is dating my ex- bestfriend im sooo mad I need to get his attention please help me this is urgent!!

2007-07-28 15:22:53 · 9 answers · asked by MaddieCole 2

how can i look better...it seems that everywhere i go girls turn their heads away when i look at them....i feel so ugly....how can i become more attractive...here are my pics...thank you so much..btw im 18

what should i do?..what are good features or bad...u can say anything

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2007-07-28 14:57:48 · 8 answers · asked by bombay2pac2000 1

Ok first off, im going to use the peoples actual names because then its not as confusing for me.
Stacie is a girl i used to be friends with and is like an emo/goth person. She hangs out with all the drug addict kids and stuff at school. She always talks about going out drinking and smoking and she is only thirteeen. I dont want to be around stuff like that, so i decided to not hang out with her.Two of my other friends,Jamie and Kayla, feel the same way, but one other friend, stephanie, is still friends with her. Im fine with her decison, but Jamie doesnt like that and she always fights with her and trys to get me to go along with her, but i know thats immature. Also Kayla is going to have a bday party and invite everyone to it, and even stacie, for some reason, and jamie is going to start some big fight and ruin the party. I know i sound like i am babbling, so the question is:

2007-07-28 14:55:56 · 3 answers · asked by Michelle 3

When I went to camp two weeks ago, I met a really good friend. I stayed there for a week and so did she. I only had like one good friend in my life. She would be my second. Anyway, she lives in a different state and told me she would call me to keep in touch. She's related, so she'll come over for holidays. She hasn't called and I don't know if I should call her. She has three best friends. I don't want to make the situation akward or anything. Should I call and keep in touch, or is this just another person I should say good-bye to?

2007-07-28 14:44:48 · 5 answers · asked by sunflowerdaisy94 3

i got this friend who about 3 weeks ago had a problem wit her bf and she was tellin me bout it and i think somethin is really wrong cause i ain't talked 2 her since then. what should i do?

2007-07-28 14:25:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

shes 26, and not stupid
He's 42, has a wife and 2 kids (ones 15)

Thing is on my way home i saw his car cross an intersection, followed it and he stopped outside and went into her house, she's a good mate?! what should i do?

2007-07-28 14:13:07 · 23 answers · asked by kiefer102 3

I have a group of friends, and there are about 7 or 8 of us and we always hang out in school. Everybody talks to everybody, and we're pretty good friends. However, there's this one girl in the group who talks to everyone, but me. I mean, when I say something to her, or ask her a question, she'll respond in a nice, friendly way, but she never actually talks to me herself. Whereas, she talks to everyone else all the time. She never actually says anything to me, but she'll respond when I say something to her. Why is this? Is there something about me that she hates? Why does everyone else talk to me, but she doesn't?

2007-07-28 14:12:38 · 8 answers · asked by pixiestix 1

I even mentioned that many of our common friends deride her in her absence, calling the family, the "family of overachievers". Unfortunately she has taken the whole thing negatively and is now giving me the cold shoulder. What should I do? Did I do the right thing telling her about this?

2007-07-28 14:00:15 · 1 answers · asked by SmartVJ 1

How do I put this ,I have been going through a bad time lately and have always been independent .To my horror I discovered that every single one of my so called friends could not help me out .I always thought that they would have my back as I have been there for them every single time they needed me .I just broke down and cried not actually wanting to believe that all this while that i have been giving myself to them 110%They obviously just saw me as a ways to a means,Why do I do this ,I realized that i make myself so available to others thinking that this is the way it should be,because that is exactly what a good ,loyal friend does ,right?How do I stop giving too much of myself .and how do I protect myself from repeating the same stupid mistakes?And how do I say no and not make myself feel like I have to take responsibility for their problems.You dont understand ,When I care about someone I automatically feel the need to nurture the relationship ,usually to my detriment.

2007-07-28 13:37:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

i met one of my best friends in year7 and we were really close
but me and my friend started to get bullied a lot and i moved to another school leaving her behind =[
now ive gone she hangs out with all the people who were horrible to us, shes not a bad person i just think shes lonly but when ever i ask her if she wants to come round she always says she is busy, she acts really tough now and loves herself far too much
how can i get my old friend back!
please help with sensible answers!!

2007-07-28 13:26:19 · 17 answers · asked by puzzledsophie 1

My 16th birthday I had at first wanted to have a party but now i really don't want to.My best friend says i should celebrate it but I don't want to because I am so use to my friends and family forgetting about it.She wants her and her dad to throw me a party but thats my parents job right?She says I should celebrate it and if not with my family then atleast with her.Is she right?What should I do?

2007-07-28 13:18:57 · 8 answers · asked by topazfox 1

be my friend!

2007-07-28 11:46:26 · 37 answers · asked by red roses 1

today is my friends bday party and 2 months ago i promised id be there it was okay with my mom then but now my mom wont let me go she says she doesnt want me to go and thats it ive been spending my whole summer sitting around watching tv what can i do to make her let me

2007-07-28 07:35:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hey guyz, today is my 17th Birthday and no one has wished me- not even those who are closest to me. It seems as if they forgot so I don't think I'm having a party or going out. This is very depressing-why are they doing this? How can they forget?='( ='(

2007-07-28 07:04:56 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi everyone, I was wondering if you could give me some advice?

A couple of years ago I felt I had to quit drinking as it was a bit of a problem for me. As a result of this I was rejected by my 'friends' who were calling me stupid and boring etc for stopping.

I have now developed a bit of a social anxiety type thing. I am 27 and it just feels like everyone my age just goes out drinking. When I'm out somewhere and I tell new people that I don't drink they just look at me like I'm weird and boring etc. This has led to me avoiding socialising on occasion as I don't like this feeling and it makes me feel really self-conscious and nervous.

Does anyone have any advice?? Sensible answers please!

2007-07-28 07:03:33 · 14 answers · asked by colejoe79 2

My best friend is really good to me. She has been right by my side through everything. How can i show her how much i love her without using material items? Please help!!

2007-07-28 06:37:11 · 21 answers · asked by yahoochick 2

I really want to tickle my best friend and I know all the spots to do it on, but I do not want her to know when I am going to do it!

2007-07-28 06:15:11 · 6 answers · asked by doggal55 2

if u say everything to ur mom[each and everything]and she has some doubt on u.and she does not say u. u it heared it when she was saying it to her friends.u were shocked.wat would u do and why?she doesnot knoe that u know

2007-07-28 06:14:26 · 11 answers · asked by tejahappy 2

Her actions really make me feel Like Kicking Her.She is good Looking But i hate her

2007-07-28 06:03:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

When you think of friendship what comes to your mind? I mean what do you expect from a friendship?

2007-07-28 05:08:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a business aside from my regular day job as an account manager for an hvac/r distributor.my side business does installation and service of hvac/r systems.i tend to get alot of family and friends asking to come over and service there systems and at times do new installations.i normally dont charge for servicing them,always do it as a favor.they tend to buy a part as needed or they will pay for equipement if needed.
but this past summer it seems everyone needed something.it took alot of my time the past couple of month and lost alot of money...all i would get was a pat on the back and a thanks...i even had some people get mad at me because it took me a day or two to get to them..when i finnaly didnt get anything....this weekend i need to replenish some of my supplies and its going to cost me and i didnt make anything...i just feel akward asking for money from friends and family...

2007-07-28 04:04:44 · 10 answers · asked by chi_latin_daddy 1

We sat by each other and we always talk. but then evry time i task him who he likes he blushes. and he always pokes me with a pencil playfully. Does he like me ????

2007-07-28 03:49:10 · 8 answers · asked by musicismylife015 2

Things have been bad for me lately. As hard as I try to be optimistic, follow my heart, and work hard, things just don't work out.
A little history of my life
ages 0-16: get beaten up by my mother, abused physically, mentally, emotionally, verbally, psychologically.
Age 16: Meet the "love of my life", go into the foster system.
age 16-18: Go through more abuse while in the system, as well as my boyfriend and his family claiming to want to take me in and love me
age 19: graduate and move out into a crappy transitional living program in the middle of nowhere, get my heart broken by the "love of my life", and find myself completely alone. Ex claims to be friend and instead just messes with me to be cruel and hurt me again.
At this point I'm pretty much a loner, I have few friends; all of which are moving on with life. I hate my job, I struggle to get by, I'm lonely, and in two years I have to move out and I have no idea where I'll go. I've tried so hard but nothing works out.
Advice?

2007-07-28 03:41:51 · 10 answers · asked by orangeflavoredfairy 2

So, my best friend writes a question on here about what she should do with an impossible friend like me. She says 90% of the time I'm depressed and 10% of the time I'm happy and she actually likes talking to me. *puts on an insanely weird smile* And whenever she says that she doesn't think my life is stressful it makes me mad because she doesn't know whats going on. And I'm scared to tell her anything because she tells EVERYONE. Atleast tell me all this this to my face, ya know?! I don't go behind her back and say something like that. *clears throat* And I think I'm the one who listens to EVERYTHING she has to say. Half the time shes the one whos talking. Not the other way around. So, whatever. I sound impossible, dont I? *sarcasm*

2007-07-28 03:26:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

it depends on the situation im generally a people person

funny that when im on my own i just want to be surrounded by people i know
and when i am i just want to be on my own writting or drawing

oo one more thing in ireland people my age..*17* have this thing where no one likes walking anywhere on their own cos they dont want to *look* like a loner

thats ridiculous

ahh i hate teenagers

so much

*discuss!*

2007-07-28 03:22:10 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

love means girl like boy or boy like girl this is love...anyway...in my life a boy who tell me he is love me for five year but he could not tell me..suddenly he tell me i refush his offer then he tell me he got died if couldn't married with him...his firend tell me if i couldn't accept he ..his life like made 'devdas' ....he was not misbeheviour for me.....but i don't like him.....'he say he love me and but 'mera dil use like nahi karta i don't know why but true i''''' i tell hime i don't love u but he don't accept it......so tell what can i do plzzzz tellme

2007-07-28 02:47:36 · 5 answers · asked by preety 1

2007-07-28 01:58:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous