What's going on?

Question

I have a group of friends, and there are about 7 or 8 of us and we always hang out in school. Everybody talks to everybody, and we're pretty good friends. However, there's this one girl in the group who talks to everyone, but me. I mean, when I say something to her, or ask her a question, she'll respond in a nice, friendly way, but she never actually talks to me herself. Whereas, she talks to everyone else all the time. She never actually says anything to me, but she'll respond when I say something to her. Why is this? Is there something about me that she hates? Why does everyone else talk to me, but she doesn't?

Then what should I do??? I have to be around her, because of my other friends!! Should I just completely ignore her, and pretend she doesn't exist, or should I try talking to her?

Oh yeah...I forgot to mention, she always talks to me online, though. What's up with that?

Answer 1

Perhaps, you are putting too much weight to the situation. have you two ever just hung out on a personal level by yourselves? maybe she just doesn't know you as much as she does the others. try just going out together or just shopping, just the two of you. try getting to know each other. most likely she hasn't had the opportunity to get to know you better. also, some people just click faster with other. do not internalize and think this is negative. it will be the fastest way to destroy whatever friendship you have and introduce too much chaos into the group environment.

Answer 2

She is being rude but in a shy like way. The only way she will talk to u is if u say something to her first but she never directly start the conversion"right" and I bet if u ask some of the friends in this group if they notice this they'll say something like

"it's just Ur imagination", I've seen her talking to u", "maybe she just doesn't know u that well"

I have been around people like this it's called ( a fronting or faking)because in FRONT of others it appears that the person is being nice and friendly to u when u talk with them and they say something back, but all they're doing is just answering back and to those who are around to hear them answer back say that's talking or even think of it as holding a conversion.

She's being rude U know and she knows it too, she's a fake and she's almost good at it, because it's not hard to prove this to the others ( if u wanted them to notice )

U ask someone u trust and close to u to just sit back and watch on numerous occasions when u all get together how she will talk to others in the group but but really u. And if u really want to put her to the test ask whomever u ask to watch closely to get the three of u together so u three may have to talk and see how she acts or ask her something that may lead to a long conversion to see how she acts or if she starts to feel uneasy, or if u have a necklace unhook it ask her to hook it back on for u to she how she'll response.


I mean theres is something up with her

Good Luck

Answer 3

Shes probably just being stubborn the same thing happened to me except i got in a fight with the girl and she hates me now and talks to everyone else but i dont care shes probably jealous but yea dont worry about it shes probably jealous of you =]

Answer 4

There are two things you can consider, it's either she doesn't like you that much or she is being shy to you.

But, the best way to know is to talk to her, confront her, ask her why is she treating you that way. This will help you and her understand each other.

Answer 5

Plain and simple, she sounds like she doesn't like you, only tolerates you because the others do. No big deal, not everyone in life is going to like you. Hate to be the one to break it to you.

Answer 6

Maybe she has a crush on you.

Answer 7

maybe she's jealous of you or something?

i wouldn't worry about it...

Answer 8

ASK HER??????????