Hey guys,
Well,this is kinda a long story...but my best friend Mark...has been acting really strange lately..well,we've been best friends for the past 4 and 1/2 years.Hes seen me go through a lot of relationship problems,including the ending of my marriage.Hes always been there for me and everything..but now for some reason..my exs have recently starting contacting me again..and I was telling him about that...and he got really mad! He now hates all my ex's,even discourged one guy from asking me out,saying "Don't bother,long distance relationships dont work out,back off her." Course it was the guy that told me that...Not Mark.So,I feel like I am being owned here...He tells me all the time that he really doesn't want me dating anymore..He wont explain that either..so I am so confused..I really do like him though..and I've told him before...But he says he doesn't believe me anyway,so I don't really tell him how much I like him anymore,and I am trying to move on...but everytime I mention a guy he always threatens em with his now famous quote.."I will personally come over there and bash this guy's skull in and use him to sharpen my knife..both sides." I mean, I know hes seen me get hurt millions of times already...but does he have to make me feel like we are married or something??? I know hes trying to protect me...but everytime I mention moving on or something he does something so wonderful or says something sweet..and I cant do it anymore..I wind up ignoring or sacrificing guys that are interested in me,cause Mark always gets mad and wont talk to me for a couple of days...he'll get all depressed and it makes me feel like its my fault...Is this what mixed signals feel like here?? Worst of all is that he never explains his actions...or his motive of why hes trying to get guys away from me...I mean..I also mentioned going out with my friends...who are all guys too..and he gets mad again! My girlfriend's say hes jealous.But I dunno anymore...I still have my heart set on him...but I dunno how he feels or anything...so I dont have the will to move on with other guys till I know what he wants...Its really confusing me..Could he really like me back or something? Or is this something a little more sinister in the works...? Help me guys...please!
2007-07-29
20:43:24
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TheMetalMistress
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